My mom is throwing me a baby shower & I have to travel 5 hrs to go to it, which I'm happy to do all but one friend lives there. But I'm friends with a lot of guys, more than women & I want a coed shower. My mom is ok with that as neither of us are really "girly" types. My dad refuses to go! Even though I'm his only daughter, this is his first grandchild & I'm going out of my way to go. He says he won't go because of an episode of according to jim?! The worst part is I expected my dad not to want to go because he's old fashioned. Fine. But he's talked my brother out of going as well!!! My brother and I are very close & I consider him one of my best friends, so much so that he has booked his vacation time around my due date because he wants to be at the hospital with OH & I. But now he won't go to my baby shower either! I have other male friends going but I'm upset that my own family doesn't want to go. What is your opinion on coed showers? Am I being unresonable wanting them to go?