Just to start by saying my thoughts are with everyone reading this post who have been through or are going through a loss. As I'm sure we all felt, I never thought this would happen to me but here I am typing this, devastated and feeling very lost and hopeless.
My story in short is that I'm loosing my little boy at just over 16wks and have decided to end the pregnancy to avoid causing him anymore pain and suffering then what he has had in his short life so far. I'm meeting with a consultant hopefully this afternoon, may be tomorrow to start the process but am confused as to what/how the termination will happen. I've been told that I will be given a tablet and go back to hospital 2 days later to be given more tablets, internally which will start contractions and I will have to give birth to my boy. Reading on the NHS website about options it mentions another option of D&E, under general anesthetic but I haven't been told about this, can anyone advice me as to whether this is something I should be pushing for, I just want to go about this the safest way possible in order to protect my body and fertility.
Also can you advise me on what I will need to take with me, I'm hoping I won't need to stay overnight but as this may be the case, I'd like to be fully prepared?
I thank you all in advance for reading my post and for your replies.
My story in short is that I'm loosing my little boy at just over 16wks and have decided to end the pregnancy to avoid causing him anymore pain and suffering then what he has had in his short life so far. I'm meeting with a consultant hopefully this afternoon, may be tomorrow to start the process but am confused as to what/how the termination will happen. I've been told that I will be given a tablet and go back to hospital 2 days later to be given more tablets, internally which will start contractions and I will have to give birth to my boy. Reading on the NHS website about options it mentions another option of D&E, under general anesthetic but I haven't been told about this, can anyone advice me as to whether this is something I should be pushing for, I just want to go about this the safest way possible in order to protect my body and fertility.
Also can you advise me on what I will need to take with me, I'm hoping I won't need to stay overnight but as this may be the case, I'd like to be fully prepared?
I thank you all in advance for reading my post and for your replies.