minties
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And I don't know why. I love boys, I love MY boy so much. I don't relate well to women or little girls. I don't have cosy mother and daughter fantasies of confiding in eachother or planning her wedding.
But I am obsessed about this baby being a girl. I think of it as a girl, I look at girls clothing online all the time. I refuse to think of boy names.
If it did turn out to be a boy I would feel devastated.
This is so silly! I always thought parents who wanted one sex over another were just being drmatic.
It took 8 years TTC to get my son, and when I was pregnant with him, I leaned towards wanting a boy but wasn't too fussed. So I don't know where this feeling is coming from.
I already feel bad because up until my nuchal scan I had no interest in all in even being pregnant (bit of depression). Now I feel doubly bad because if the baby is a boy, my son wont feel like my special little man, and I feel like I wont love the new baby.
Edited to add, my mum, grandma, OH, aunt and uncle all want me to have a girl.
And my MIL STILL has gender dissapointment (had 3 boys) and she's 65! Her kids are 43, 40 and 29 and she still goes on abut thinking each boy would be a girl, and dressing them in girls clothing as newborns. I find that so sad.
But I am obsessed about this baby being a girl. I think of it as a girl, I look at girls clothing online all the time. I refuse to think of boy names.
If it did turn out to be a boy I would feel devastated.
This is so silly! I always thought parents who wanted one sex over another were just being drmatic.
It took 8 years TTC to get my son, and when I was pregnant with him, I leaned towards wanting a boy but wasn't too fussed. So I don't know where this feeling is coming from.
I already feel bad because up until my nuchal scan I had no interest in all in even being pregnant (bit of depression). Now I feel doubly bad because if the baby is a boy, my son wont feel like my special little man, and I feel like I wont love the new baby.
Edited to add, my mum, grandma, OH, aunt and uncle all want me to have a girl.
And my MIL STILL has gender dissapointment (had 3 boys) and she's 65! Her kids are 43, 40 and 29 and she still goes on abut thinking each boy would be a girl, and dressing them in girls clothing as newborns. I find that so sad.