im so nervous about birth

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  1. babybooties

    babybooties mammy to 2 little boys

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    im scared to death even tho i have had a baby before

    I had my last at 17 years old he was 7lb 4 im 22 now birth wasnt that long but the pain was so bad when pushing him out and after wards i was still in alot of pain and bleeding very heavily

    im scared my baby may now be bigger and the pain will be even worse with him being my 2nd so even more scared then i was b4 having my last

    anyone else feel this way
     
  2. Alicia_&_Kev

    Alicia_&_Kev Well-Known Member

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    aww hun i am nervous too! Think most of us are.
    I've heard its easier for 2nd!! if thats any help :D
    Didnt wanna read and run so sending :hugs:
    xxxxxxxxxxx
     
  3. snettyb

    snettyb Well-Known Member

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    I'm more scared this time round too. Purely because i know whats coming. Ignorance is bliss isn't it :hugs: xx
     
  4. 2nd time mum

    2nd time mum Well-Known Member

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    Yes ignorance is total bliss but I keep thinking this pregnancy has been the exact opposite of my first that hopefully the birth will be too. No two could be the same and I had a bad time the first time round that that couldn't happen again!
     
  5. LittlePickle

    LittlePickle Well-Known Member

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    :hugs:
    you might be luckier with the pain 2nd time around... good luck sweetie
    xoxoxo
     
  6. Dukechick

    Dukechick Wife & proud Mom of 2

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    I'm pretty scared too.. Maybe nervous is the word I should use. I have a few things on my mind....

    I have a bleeding disorder

    and

    Still have a low lying placenta

    I keep getting reassured that all will be okay, but there's still lots that my doctors and I have to figure out. SUPER nervous.... but very interested to see how it will be, and feel like! Eeeek!!!
     

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