Lawhra
NowProudMumOfTwo!!
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You are a lucky lucky lady and it is lovely that you appreciate it. Some take their OH's for granted.
I really wish I were as lucky as you. More often than not I think me and mine won't last another year It's good to know there are good ones out there
Hey!! Be optimistic....he may change when the bump is growing bigger. I guess it all happens differently for all of us. This is the first pregnancy where I have felt so much love and support. I hope that you have the same.....
With all the strange changes we are going through its nice to be able to share it as and when it happens.
I've added you on my mates list xxx see you in the 2nd Tri in a couple weeks YEEEEHA!
Thank you but that won't happen. We just had an argument because he was making a coffee which I have totally gone off so drink hot water, I literally had just told him a cause of low blood pressure (mine is 95/50!) is dehydration so I asked him for a big cup. He moaned because he'd already put it in a small one then said I'd have to wait because "I have to do my fucking coffee first" After doing his coffee he thrusts a bigger cup at me says "here's your fucking water" We won't last, I know it. But thank you anyway.
I now have you on my friends list See you there soon and enjoy finally having a lovely supportive OH during pregnancy
Hello proudmumofone i know exactly how you are feeling . I am getting no support from my so called OH. We always arguing about the littlest things Sometimes i feel so alone. No one else knows am pregnant and its so hard to talk to my OH. I can't do anything right he always making me (damn hormones ). Sometimes i don't feel like we going to last next month much less a year . I just want u to know you not the only one going through this. Everyone being optimistic that's it going to get better but i doubt it. Stay strong we can do this all by ourself. I don't need him stressing me out . Good luck with your pregnancy i hope everything works out. On a happy note i am so that i am pregnant i am not going to let any spoil my happiness
Thank you so much. It is good to know I'm not alone but what a shame we are going through it. I really hope in time things will improve for you. A lot of it could be down to hormones, I have noticed he calms down if I do. But I do think some sort of allowances should be made for us during pregnancy.
And I'm with you on the happiness, him being an arse will not dampen my elation.
All the best you