Mrs-N
Mummy to Joshua James
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we went to grahams(hubby) parents for the weekend and OMG, we got there friday lunch time and by friday evening i was pulling my hair out.
like the title says,
Im sure she (MIL) thinks i dont know what im doing.
everything i done that involved doing something or for joshua she would watch me like she was making sure i was doing it right.
ive told her over and over again that joshua goes to bed at 7 (usually awake) and he doesnt make a sound unless hes dropped his dummy and then he only grunts and grones,but no i put him up to bed at 7 and she was up and down all night checking on him.
she kept saying ooh thats him again (even though we had the baby monitors on) and it wasnt him he was soundO.
aarh im getting angry just typing this sorry.
the like ive told her loads of times,he wakes for a bottle at 2ish then again at 6ish then we get up at 7.
so when he woke up for his 6 o'clock bottle on saturday morning she comes into our bedroom at 6:30 without nocking,bare in mind i was topless as i cant sleep in anything else. saying 'ooh can u cope with him,is he alright and ill take him so u can have a few more hours sleep.
this got right on my nerves,i said no coz i was awake and ready to get up.
joshua has been in this rountine sine about 2 weeks old so i am now used to not alot of sleep and im in the routine myself.
then on saturday morning i was giving joshua his bottle and everyone else was having their breakfast and she couldnt eat hers any quicker,she made me toast(if u can call it toast,it was more like warm bread) and she only done me it coz she wanted joshua. -this annyoyed me coz its not life frettening*sp?* that i dont get my breakfast at a certain time,my baby come first if i dont get breakfast i dont get it.
then later in the day on saturday she was giving him his bottle again and he was drinking it,not messing with it so he wanted it and after 3oz (he has 6oz) she took it away from him,and when u do that he stresses. he was crying like mad coz he wanted his bottle and she would not give it to him.
she kapt saying 'ooh i know u have got a bellyach,you've had too much too eat.
i tried to tell her that he wanted his bottle but she wouldnt have it and telling me he had a bellyache.
then she passed joshua to hubbys dad and the first thing he done was give him his bottle and yeah he drank it all.
i can go on all day but dont want to bore you.
sorry just a rant.
but yeah im sure she thinks i dont know what im doing or can cope.
x
like the title says,
Im sure she (MIL) thinks i dont know what im doing.
everything i done that involved doing something or for joshua she would watch me like she was making sure i was doing it right.
ive told her over and over again that joshua goes to bed at 7 (usually awake) and he doesnt make a sound unless hes dropped his dummy and then he only grunts and grones,but no i put him up to bed at 7 and she was up and down all night checking on him.
she kept saying ooh thats him again (even though we had the baby monitors on) and it wasnt him he was soundO.
aarh im getting angry just typing this sorry.
the like ive told her loads of times,he wakes for a bottle at 2ish then again at 6ish then we get up at 7.
so when he woke up for his 6 o'clock bottle on saturday morning she comes into our bedroom at 6:30 without nocking,bare in mind i was topless as i cant sleep in anything else. saying 'ooh can u cope with him,is he alright and ill take him so u can have a few more hours sleep.
this got right on my nerves,i said no coz i was awake and ready to get up.
joshua has been in this rountine sine about 2 weeks old so i am now used to not alot of sleep and im in the routine myself.
then on saturday morning i was giving joshua his bottle and everyone else was having their breakfast and she couldnt eat hers any quicker,she made me toast(if u can call it toast,it was more like warm bread) and she only done me it coz she wanted joshua. -this annyoyed me coz its not life frettening*sp?* that i dont get my breakfast at a certain time,my baby come first if i dont get breakfast i dont get it.
then later in the day on saturday she was giving him his bottle again and he was drinking it,not messing with it so he wanted it and after 3oz (he has 6oz) she took it away from him,and when u do that he stresses. he was crying like mad coz he wanted his bottle and she would not give it to him.
she kapt saying 'ooh i know u have got a bellyach,you've had too much too eat.
i tried to tell her that he wanted his bottle but she wouldnt have it and telling me he had a bellyache.
then she passed joshua to hubbys dad and the first thing he done was give him his bottle and yeah he drank it all.
i can go on all day but dont want to bore you.
sorry just a rant.
but yeah im sure she thinks i dont know what im doing or can cope.
x