I have 3 boys my 1st my sex drive went through the roof, with my 2nd it all but disappeared. . With my 3rd it started off normal then I had a bleed so we didn't do it again for ages. This time round we have only done it a few times, I want to but I'm scared of bleeding, plus with 3 kids the only time we can do anything is at night when they are asleep and by that time i can't keep my eyes open lol