I'd love to have patience to wait but realistically, I can't see that happening! I really have no preference whatsoever with regards to gender but I'd like to know one way or the other. After what we've through to get this far (4+ years ttc, 2 rounds of IVF, and a mmc), I'd be other the moon with either. However, for practical reasons, I think we will find out- I'm definitely a bit of a control freak. Also, as far as I've seen all 'neutral' items seem to be boyish x