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Sorry for a strange post, but until now I never thought anything of it, our daughter stayed in our room for 6 months after she was born, after this she was put in her own room. I always shut the door completely as my daughter can’t sleep with light. Since she’s got older and is now in a toddler bed, I still shut the door completely but there’s a baby gate in the room to stop her accessing the door and getting out. Now number 2 is on the way at some point we will move her into the bigger room but this doesn’t have the ability to have a baby gate so she will be able to get out and fall down the stairs/access the kitchen and the front door (which she can unlock herself and open) which we don’t think she is ready for. I thought about putting a lock (more of a mini deadbolt) on her door so she can’t get out and hurt herself however when I googled this the sites I looked at seemed to think it was cruel! She has never seemed distressed by not being able to get out (never rattled the gate or banged on the wall or screamed for help) she even tends to stay in her bed until we open the door in the morning! So do you think it’s cruel? Or justified? Or just normal parenting?