Hi all, Ive been having an emotional day today. We went to see my friend, hubby and their week old baby today and although they seem knackered they are so together and mutually supportive, I am worried whether our relationship is strong enough to go through this. Me & My hubby do love each other very much but he has such a short temper (not abusive or anything like that though), especially when he is tired. We had an argument on the way home when I didnt take his directions in the car (he doesnt drive and I dont belive it wasnt safe to take the exit on the roudabout when we were in the wrong lane) and he really shouted at me for not taking his instructions. I manged to keep calm but busrt into tears a few hours later (in private - hubby doesnt know) because i know that once the baby is here I wont be able to keep as calm or anywhere near as tolerent as I am with him now. its not often that we have these incidents but when we do i get so upset because I worry that once the baby is here, everything will be multiplied and we will end up screaming at each other constantly and I dont want that - for us AND for the baby. I think i am just a bit more sensitive today and he does know that he upset me and he has apologised for shouting, I just wish he wouldnt do it in the first place!! I really worry that this baby could drive us apart and I really want us to be a happy contented family. Sorry for the rant - just wondered if anyone else has these sort of thoughts, to reassure me im not alone and im not mad!