Is this bad?

[Mervs Mum]

Hi Girls


Background
Well I'm on CD16 - estimated O day according to the free O calculators etc.

We have been BDing almost everyday since CD6 and every day from CD12 to last night.

I've been charting using FF but I'm not temping or using OPKs so I cant be very acurate pinpointing O.

I've been adding in my CP and CM and FF showed me as being entering my fertile period from CD9 - I think thats the CM that does that - I had a little EWCM about that time and what I think were O pains - mild twinges in the ovary region - about CD11

My Question....
I am absolutely shattered and so is DH and I really dont want to BD tonight as I think it will be a mechanical affair and up to now weve not had that - we've been really enjoying ourselves.
Should I dig deep and risk it being a case of 'needing to' rather than 'wanting to' as I am not past the average predicted O window???
I'm torn - if I dont will I wonder 'what if' and if I do are we on a slippery slope????

Sorry to prattle on.....

 

[miel]

i am in the same situation...i had big "O" pain last night even made love last night almost painful. "o" can be a pain in the ass sometimes !
anyway i think we will skip tonight because really now i think "O" is over ( i even heard sometimes if you concieve really late in you "O" time you are more chance to MC.i do have to look into that again i read it and was surprise by it.)
so i think if you want to skip tonight ...you can just relax because you know we may be PG already

 

[Samo]

good luck girls!!! all that BDing sounds promising, hope it's a

 

[HAYS]

aw poppet, dont bd if you feel it might be abit of a bore and effort!im pretty sure youve covered it from what i no
x

 

[jo27]

If you're on CD16 and you think you o'd around CD11 i think you can relax a bit, i've learnt from last month that my ticker isn't accurate i o'd a lot earlier than just guessing it happens in the middle of your cycle x

 

[diva4180]

I think you will be OK hun, it sounds as if you covered all your bases this month, it wouldn't hurt to skip a night, you don't want it to become a chore. I hope you get your bfp when it comes time to test!

 

[wishes]

Dont do it as a chore... you know those little swimmers last longer than one evening. Have a well deserved rest after all your hard work!

 

[Mervs Mum]

Thanks girlies!

I've had another look and I'm actually on CD17 and O was estimated to be CD16 and we BD'd last night so if nothing happens tonight I'm not gonna do it for the sake of it.

Thanks for your support .....right....I'm off to

 

[loopylew]

don't push it hun xx you've got loadsa bd'ing in already

 

[NeyNey]

Good luck, I think you'll be fine...You've got yourself covered.