it's all official - saying "I do" on 20th July 2013 ** venue pics page 59 **

[Scamp]

All the stress will be worth it and if a big family do was what you wanted then you've done the right thing xx

 

[EmmyReece]

it is what I want, but I can't get it through to her and now she's starting on that she doesn't know if she'll be around she's also whinging that I've given the family rooms to Chris family (bearing in ming they've been given to the families that my bridesmaids are in) ... arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that is all

 

[Scamp]

She'll understand once the day is here and she sees the smile on your face hun. Have you explained how stressed you been about the rooms? She might not mean to stress you more

How does she mean not be around?
xx

 

[EmmyReece]

As in she thinks she won't last that long I told her how much it had upset me and stressed me out, but she still carried on ranting about it, how our side of the family is supposedly being pushed out I'm so tempted to pretend that I feel ill and get Chris to take me home

 

[Scamp]

As in she thinks she won't last that long I told her how much it had upset me and stressed me out, but she still carried on ranting about it, how our side of the family is supposedly being pushed out I'm so tempted to pretend that I feel ill and get Chris to take me home

Oh hun, that's not fair on you at all


I'd say you're to unwell hun, say your tummy is hurting too much and you want to go bed.
xx

 

[EmmyReece]

I'm just keeping out of the way and sitting in the front room, I don't really want to leave Chris here on his own for 2 nights

Trying to distract myself and look at invitations just to get me happy about it all again

 

[Smile181c]

Pay no mind to your mum hun

A destination wedding isn't for everybody - it's not exactly hard to believe that you'd like to get married surrounded by your nearest and dearest is it? She's just trying to put you down

I'd fake a tummy ache and go home and have loadsa cuddles to make you feel better xxx

 

[Scamp]

True, can Chris speak to her and explain it's upsetting you?

You seen any you like? xx

 

[Lisa84]

Awww hunnneeeee The amount of times i have heard over the past year 'Why are you spending that money on a wedding when you could put it towards other things' & 'Why don't you just have a small wedding' grrrrr COZ I FLAMING WELL WANT A BIG ONE!!!! grrrr

You are doing what you want to do and your big day will be faboooolous!! However important these people are to you don't let their opinions cloud the view of your big day. It's your day hun and as long as you and Chris have the best day of your life thats all that matters xxx

 

[EmmyReece]

I've seen a few on hallmark that I quite like, £72.50 for 50 cards, and that seems quite good value and I can personalise them too for any text

https://cards.hallmark.co.uk/Cards/Preview/18673

https://cards.hallmark.co.uk/Cards/Preview/18379

https://cards.hallmark.co.uk/Cards/Preview/17103

https://cards.hallmark.co.uk/Cards/Preview/20995

 

[Scamp]

Seems a good price

I like the last one the best, nice and pink Which do you prefer? xx

 

[EmmyReece]

I like the purply/blue one of the children, but I also like the pink one that's like circus text where we have to upload our own photo to

 

[EmmyReece]

happy tears I promise ... I "think" we have our first dance song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulI8xWuV8ic

 

[mummymunch]

That dress is one of my bridesmaids choices hope you're feeling better now

 

[EmmyReece]

Still feeling rough, but distracting myself with wedding stuff

 

[leash27]

I love the wonder of you. My friends dad sing it at every family party and it always turns into a big sing along. I have such happy memories when I hear it!!

x

 

[EmmyReece]

Chris actually approved too He LOVES Elvis songs, so kinda think it would be nice for him

 

[EmmyReece]

Tiff, I bloody love you lol, getting the idea in my head to book an earlier appointment than July

Ladies, I now have my first appointment booked for trying on wedding dresses

31st March 2012 @ 11.00 am

I am so freaking excited

Off to change my ticker now

 

[Lisa84]

Does that say you are going in 2013 or was that just a typo? x

 

[EmmyReece]

that was a typo, have changed it now thanks for telling me, people would have been wondering why I was leaving it that long