Its getting worse please help!!!!!

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  1. amy.j

    amy.j cautiously expecting :)

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    Hi everyone!!!

    I posted earlier about spotting yesterday and spending the whole afternoon in the hospital

    The bleeding is now worse and red and im in pain :cry: i wont no anything until tomorrow as i cant have a scan till then.

    My doctor has just rang with yesterdays hcg results there showing as 1200??

    is that good im feeling really negative about this guys its getting worse and my hopes are deteriorating

    Im a healthy 22 year old and this may be my 2nd miscarriage in the space of 6 months :hissy:

    Whats wrong with me???
     
  2. Stephie 25

    Stephie 25 Well-Known Member

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    aww hun. fingers crossed everything is ok for you. :hug:
     
  3. bisbis

    bisbis Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: I pray its not bad news and there's nothing wrong with you.
     
  4. emerald78

    emerald78 Well-Known Member

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    Hi Amy

    Try and remain positive. You will be in capable hands. Sit back and take things easy. My thoughts are with you and your baby.

    One word of advice, stay strong at the hospital and make sure you get answers as sometimes the healthcare professionals lose their personal touch as they deal with these situations alot and forget that you don't so if you don't agree or want some answer stay strong and firm and demand answers to your questions what ever the outcome.

    :hug:
     
  5. mer01

    mer01 Waiting for brain scan

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    aww sweetheart i feel your pain :hugs: fx everything is ok for you hun :hugs:
     
  6. puppycat

    puppycat Mum & PAL

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    If hope is all you have then hold on to it honey.

    I'm sure if your levels were that high yesterday you have every reason to hope.

    Let us know how you get on tomorrow xx
     
  7. bklove

    bklove We got married 4/07

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    :hugs: I've been there...matter fact I was just in the ER for weird discharge and funky pain just last night. But there is nothing wrong with you, this is just something that we have no control over and it can and will work itself out. Its tough to go through, but i've learned you have no choice in that. Right now all I can be is happy for every additional day I get. I hope your dr can give you more answers. I'm not sure how far along you are, but I imagine they will redo your bloods and hopefully the numbers will continue to go up which is a good sign. Did they examine you internally? What did they say about your cervix & the blood? They told me my cervix was closed which is good and the blood didn't look new, which was weird to me, but she said things are in my favor, but they still can't predict what will happen. I see my Dr tomorrow. Just go with questions, and again know this is not your fault and you can go on to have a healthy child.
     
  8. ahava

    ahava me & hubby

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    if you are a serial miscarrier i would suggest that taking progesterone after your bfp, would be suggested by a specialist...try not to worry, but maybe mention this? also a progesterone blood test to see yur levels.....
     
  9. Aria

    Aria Guest

    I agree with the progesterone.

    Do you know any of your prior HCG levels? If your level is still going up, that's a good sign.
     
  10. KrystalBrown

    KrystalBrown Well-Known Member

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    Hey hun.. I pray that everything is ok. The best thing you can do is relax and not stress. Stress can induce other unwanted things. I know its difficult when you are in the moment. But everything may still be ok.
    Goodluck darling and keep us updated
     
  11. maybebaby2009

    maybebaby2009 Me, Myself, & I plus Dog

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    Relax sweetie its probably ur uterus growing. Stay hopeful ok. Lay down on ur left side. I have had m/c 4 times but i do know relaxing will help.
     
  12. amy.j

    amy.j cautiously expecting :)

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    so im going for my scan at quarter to 1 the nurse said to expect the worse :cry:

    The only thing im clinging too is that there have been no clots i hope they no the reason and my fingers are crossed thanks everyone for your support :hugs:

    Il update you later xxxx
     
  13. buffycat

    buffycat mummy to Enid & Anna...

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    :hugs:

    i know that words don't help much at the moment....but try and relax....maybe the worry isn't helping you.....(something which i am cuurrently trying to tell myself)

    i really do hope that it isn't bad news.....here if you need to talk though....:hugs:
     
  14. bourtonbaby

    bourtonbaby Well-Known Member

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    Hey Amy,

    I totally understand what your going through. On Friday i strated to also bleed and started to panic so i went to the ER and they took blood and that was fine. I went back the next day to get a formal ultrasound to make sure everything was fine and everything was fine with the baby and me. The doctor told me that it just happens sometimes and to just take it easy. So try not to worry too much i know its scary but don't stress yourself. I hope all goes well for you. :)
     
  15. Tracey2008

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    I am thinking of you hun I hope it goes well. I know how scary it is I have had 3 m/cs and the fear is always there. I started spotting red blood on Saturday too and have an early scan booked for tomorrow at 10.30 and I am dreading it! Half of me wants to know whats going on the other half wants to put it to the back of my mind. I am thinking of you hun x
     
  16. jennie_78

    jennie_78 Mum to Caitlin, and TTC

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    I really hope its good news.
     
  17. leeanne

    leeanne Mom of 3 and Stepmom of 2

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    I hope everything is ok! :hugs:
     
  18. puppycat

    puppycat Mum & PAL

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    Hope it was ok hun xx
     
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    Hey amy, how did things go?? I hope it was ok news??

    Amy xx
     
  20. Emerald-Sarah

    Emerald-Sarah TTC # 1 with IVF

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