IUI April anyone?

Sorry for the BFNs ginger and blonie :( onto the next rounds, try to keep :)
 
I posted this in the May room too....

SO I need to vent...sorry ladies! I know this is supposed to be a positive atmosphere. So I had an appt with the RE this morning to talk about my progress...so in short I learned that bc my egg count(AMH) is so low and I have ovarian failure I need to move onto IVF. This was my worst nightmare or so I thought...then he told me that even with the IVF my chances are lower than most women bc of the failure. So in short I could pay 25k+ and still not come home with a baby. AHHHHHHHHHHHH! DH is silent...doesnt want to talk about it right now. Obviously the cost is the hardest part of all of this. I don't know what to do besides pray a whole lot and hope for a Miracle! Thank you for listening! Oh and this month is our last IUI month...we are trying a combo of Letrozole 2.5 and 300IU a day of Follistim. FX and prayers it happens for each and every one of you! I would not wish IF on my worst enemy! Thank you for always being there for me during this time!!!!
 
I posted this in the May room too....

SO I need to vent...sorry ladies! I know this is supposed to be a positive atmosphere. So I had an appt with the RE this morning to talk about my progress...so in short I learned that bc my egg count(AMH) is so low and I have ovarian failure I need to move onto IVF. This was my worst nightmare or so I thought...then he told me that even with the IVF my chances are lower than most women bc of the failure. So in short I could pay 25k+ and still not come home with a baby. AHHHHHHHHHHHH! DH is silent...doesnt want to talk about it right now. Obviously the cost is the hardest part of all of this. I don't know what to do besides pray a whole lot and hope for a Miracle! Thank you for listening! Oh and this month is our last IUI month...we are trying a combo of Letrozole 2.5 and 300IU a day of Follistim. FX and prayers it happens for each and every one of you! I would not wish IF on my worst enemy! Thank you for always being there for me during this time!!!!

Ginger....
I totally get where you are coming from. I am in the exact same boat. I have POF and time is def. not on our side. Along with the low egg count, the chances of poor egg quality is high. My doc thinks we need to do IVF as well. Money is a huge issue for us, so that's why we decided to start with the IUI. I am praying for a miracle as well. I don't respond to oral fertility meds so I do the injections. My insurance pays for the IUI, but not the meds. This round costed me almost $1500 because I needed a very high dose of meds. I know I should take things one day at a time, but it's hard not to think about what we need to do next if this doesn't work. We've went back and forth about adoption vs. IVF, only because there is a guaranteed end result with adoption. Of course we want our own child, but we are afraid to that we will be completely broke with IVF and if it doesn't work, we won't have any money for adoption. I stress just thinking about it. And I feel like if we save for 2 or 3 years for IVF vs. financing it, we might be too late. I wish I could give you advice, but I don't have answers even for myself right now. All I can suggest is that you pray about it and let God guide you guys! I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy either. Infertility is truly heartbreaking and devastating. Just know that you are not alone. And I just try to keep in mind that someday, when the time is right, I will be a mother. Whether, it my own or through adoption, I will be blessed and love that child with my whole heart! And Ginger, I believe you and DH will be parents too! And when you are, being a parent will mean so much more to you than most, because you had to work that much harder for it. Hang in there girl. Maybe the 3rd time will be your charm! :)
 
Well ladies.... Tuesday will be the end of my 2ww.... I have been feeling all sorts of things going on. I decided to take a test. I finally got my :bfp:
I'm trying not to be too excited because I set myself up for a disappointment like I did last time when I had a chemical. :happydance:

Here's to hoping that everyone else gets their BFP's!!
 
Well ladies.... Tuesday will be the end of my 2ww.... I have been feeling all sorts of things going on. I decided to take a test. I finally got my :bfp:
I'm trying not to be too excited because I set myself up for a disappointment like I did last time when I had a chemical. :happydance:

Here's to hoping that everyone else gets their BFP's!!

Congratulations!!!!!! :) :) :)
 
Well ladies.... Tuesday will be the end of my 2ww.... I have been feeling all sorts of things going on. I decided to take a test. I finally got my :bfp:
I'm trying not to be too excited because I set myself up for a disappointment like I did last time when I had a chemical. :happydance:

Here's to hoping that everyone else gets their BFP's!!

Congrat's!!!! Its nice to see another BFP gives some hope to those of us who are still TTC.
 
Well ladies.... Tuesday will be the end of my 2ww.... I have been feeling all sorts of things going on. I decided to take a test. I finally got my :bfp:
I'm trying not to be too excited because I set myself up for a disappointment like I did last time when I had a chemical. :happydance:

Here's to hoping that everyone else gets their BFP's!!

Huge congrats to you :happydance:
 

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