IVF/IUI - Winter 2012 & Beyond! (updates 1st page - 25 BFPs, 7 - twins!)

[Edamame]

Oh mobaby, I am so so sorry.

 

[ILuvBabies200]

WTH Mobaby??? Omg I have no words. :*(

Got put on insulin today. Not surprised and yes totally use to needles!!! Also was in the ER last night with BH. Big scan tomorrow!

 

[MoBaby]

Idk what happened. Dr said I had less than 5% chance for miscarriage yesterday. YESTERDAY ! I felt something wasn't right today and sure enough.

Gonna try to let baby pass on its own. If it doesn't or I have issues I'm to have d/c dec 31. My RE is out of town until then so if something crazy happens I have to see a dr I don't want to. This is all crap. I don't understand. Baby was fine 24 hrs before today's scan.

 

[MrsC8776]

Sending you a million Again I'm so sorry. Is there any testing that hasn't been done that can be to see whats going on? I hope things happen naturally for you so that you don't have to go through the d&c process again.

 

[MoBaby]

Dr says he's checked.... But when I have a follow up I want everything rechecked. I don't understand how a healthy baby dies the next day.

 

[Edamame]

Mobaby, it is just horrifying to hear how it happened. I can't even imagine how you're feeling. I would want answers too- what the heck changed since yesterday?!!

 

[MrsC8776]

I do think you need to push for things to be rechecked. I know you were concerned yesterday with the heart rate and things shouldn't change that much. Like Edamame said... what the heck changed? No one should have to go through this.

 

[urchin]

Mobaby I am so sorry hon - that's awful news. Sending you big hugs and hope you get some answers xxx

 

[drsquid]

unfortunately there is something about 7-8 weeks gestation. i have several friends that have seen heartbeats and then none a few days later. presumably some shift occurs at that point and many arent able to survive. im so so sorry. the only upside to a d&c is greater ability to have the tissue tested (to see if there was a congenital abnormality which is most common). i wish there was something i could say or do that would make it all better. i know that reassurance that it was nothing you did or didnt do really doesnt help much

 

[doshima]

Where is everyone? What ever happened to MrsBears?

 

[MoBaby]

Hey I'm still here... Trucking along. No closer to bfp than I was. Sigh. But fet in July!

 

[Care76]

I am still here every now and then. MrsB had her twins and I haven't heard from her much since.

I love seeing some of the new additions in peoples avatars!

Mobaby, I am so sorry hun. I wasn't around much for a while and I missed your loss. I can't even express how deeply sorry I am. I hope you get some answers and your dreams of parenthood become reality.

 

[doshima]

Oh hi ladies!! Am glad some of us r still here. I hate when a forum goes quiet and the people you already know just vanish and u r forced to start all over. Mobaby, so sorry for ur loss, I did not get to read through when I saw d last post was in Dec!! I started a 2nd IVF last Nov, got 12 eggs but non ferterlized. I was even stimumated longer than the first. I was taking 3inj a day for almost 3wks and was hoping I will be rewarded for the pain. Sadly I was not. Well in my sadness I forgot my password here and was laid back.Anyhow, guess what? I had my lattest ET on 1ed june 12, good quality eggs and a 2day transfer. I don't want to think if its good or bad but d doc transfered 4eggs to increase my chances and am back to see if I can give some hope to my dear friends here. Am anxious and feeling things that perhaps r not there. Am assuming today is day 5 of d egg so in another 2 or 3day inplantation shld occur(fingers crossed). I feel some fullness in my pelvix and some mild bubling like I feel when I ovulate. I hv not left my bed since ET except to shower and use the loo. Am so scared the eggs will fall out (silly eh?). Am trying to be calm and I hope and pray this is my time!! I'll keep everyone posted.

 

[ILuvBabies200]

Hugs Mobaby!!! I want you so bad to get your forever baby!!!!

 

[doshima]

Sorry that was to read "I had my lattest ET on the 12 June 2013", like 3days ago!!

 

[MoBaby]

Good luck!!!

 

[ILuvBabies200]

Goodness Mo CONGRATS!!! I just popped in to check on you! So hoping this is your forever baby!!!

 

[MoBaby]

Thanks Iluv! I was planning on updating here too after a few more test lol! Just did one this am and I'm still preggo!!

 

[ILuvBabies200]

When will you get betas?? And is Aug 2nd your first scan already?!?! Stick baby stick!!!!

 

[MoBaby]

No my beta is aug 2nd... My scan in 2-3 weeks. They make fets wait an insanely long time for beta but since I got a pos I may call tomorrow to see if I can come early