IVF until we all get our bfp! 2012-present *13 w/twins & 1 w/triplets!*

[MrsC8776]

None of the 3 embryos are going to make it. They are 8 cell but deeply fragmented and only have a 5% chance of making.

I am 41 and she flat out said Donor egg is our only chance

So this is it for us..We are done.

Is there anyway to get any of them put back ASAP or do they not think it will make a difference. I'm so sorry that this is happening.

 

[TwoRdue]

Never - I dont know what to say, I am so sorry to hear that. Big hugs to you.x

 

[MoBaby]

never im soooo sorry can you get another opinion at a different clinic??? can they bring you in now and put all 3 in???

 

[jchic]

Angie, I am sorry do they think that doing a day 3 transfer would help your odds or no? Would you ever consider donor eggs? I believe it will work out xoxo

 

[Jenn76]

Bubu: I'm so sorry, you have every reason to rant. The other ladies have some really good points. My clinic has a 60% success rate for age 35-39, I think you should take Jess's advice and look at other clinics. It's just possible the protocol even being aggressive doesn't work for you. A second opinion can't hurt.

Michelle: Yeah for getting started again. FX you get your BFP!

Angie: I'm so sorry, that's so sad to hear. I think you should get a second opinion. Women over 40 get pregnant all the time, just doesn't seem right. Don't give up, you deserve this!

MrsC: So glad your DH made it home! When is your scan?

 

[MrsC8776]

Jenn~ My scan is on Friday.

 

[PRAYIN4BABIES]

None of the 3 embryos are going to make it. They are 8 cell but deeply fragmented and only have a 5% chance of making.

I am 41 and she flat out said Donor egg is our only chance

So this is it for us..We are done.

I'm so sorry....you can't give up....please seek a second opinion and see what possible options they can give you...sending hugs to you.

 

[jchic]

Mrs C- im hoping you see the genders!

 

[drsquid]

never- im so sorry. that just sucks

 

[almosthere]

angie I am so sorry

keeping my fx for you still angie, michelle, & bubu that you will all have your awaited bfps SOON!

 

[MoBaby]

prayin:how are you doing?

 

[Lindsay18]

Ugh today was the worst ever. I had to take my cat for his yearly shots and to get something on his leg looked at. We ended up having to put him down due to a cancerous tumor on his leg. He was only three. Such a shocker and no way to be prepared for that. I just can't stop crying...

 

[Stinas]

TwoRdue -

Drsquid - Yay good news!

azlissie - You just never know! Try to stay positive! FX!

bubumaci - Im really sorry about your BFN. I know how you feel!!! It is like a merry go round sometimes. I wonder the same thing...its not us, so if we have a "perfect" embryo, why isnt it sticking? Drives me nuts! Hopefully everything works out soon!
Vent all you want!!! I am in your boat(granted I only had one failed cycle, but no sperm, but we found some, perfect hatching blast, BFN.) Its all sooo frustrating!

Angie - Im soo sorry! I agree with the other ladies...cant they put them all in now?

Linsday - Im sorry about your cat! Its tough having to put an animal down. Last Nov I had to put my dog down after 15yrs. Sad.

 

[drsquid]

lindsay- im so sorry. you didnt get enough time not that a lifetime is enough with our furry family

 

[PRAYIN4BABIES]

prayin:how are you doing?

Hi Mo!!!!! Im hanging in there....I sure have my days...I just try to keep positive and look forward to my three little embies waiting to meet their mommy .....how are you doing?

 

[PRAYIN4BABIES]

Ugh today was the worst ever. I had to take my cat for his yearly shots and to get something on his leg looked at. We ended up having to put him down due to a cancerous tumor on his leg. He was only three. Such a shocker and no way to be prepared for that. I just can't stop crying...

So sorry sweetie

 

[azlissie]

Bubu I am so sorry. It's frustrating that with all this technology & science it still doesn't work. I know some ladies have ended up seeing a reproductive immunologist who can address things like antibodies, inflammation etc. I hope your dr can give you some answers.

Angie I am so so sorry. I can't remember - were you on any supplements like Dhea, coq10 or royal jelly? I've heard those can improve egg quality.

Lindsay, I'm very sorry about your cat. They are members of the family & it's so hard when they get sick.

Hope everyone else is doing well.

 

[Jenn76]

Ugh today was the worst ever. I had to take my cat for his yearly shots and to get something on his leg looked at. We ended up having to put him down due to a cancerous tumor on his leg. He was only three. Such a shocker and no way to be prepared for that. I just can't stop crying...

Lindsay I am so sorry to hear this! I just lost my cat back in April to kidney disease, she was 7. Such a hard thing to go through, I still cry when I think of her. I really wasn't expecting it either, cried for days. They really are a part of your family.

 

[Pink gerbera]

Angie - I'm really sorry to hear that I hope you're ok? Well as ok as you can be. Is donor eggs an option??

Lindsay - that's really sad and prob what's made it worse is it was so unexpected

I hope everyone else is doing ok?

Pink xx

 

[almosthere]

Lindsay I am SO sorry I have a furbaby who is 3 and she is my life!!! I am sorry for your loss *HUGS*

AFM scan today, finally, yay!! will post photos on my journal tonight!