IVF until we all get our bfp! 2012-present *13 w/twins & 1 w/triplets!*

[jchic]

OMG Lindsay I am so sorry....was there nothing else they could do??? Ugh, losing a pet is the absolute worst. I love my dogs more than most people. I am sorry you are going through this.

 

[wantbabysoon]

Ugh today was the worst ever. I had to take my cat for his yearly shots and to get something on his leg looked at. We ended up having to put him down due to a cancerous tumor on his leg. He was only three. Such a shocker and no way to be prepared for that. I just can't stop crying...

Lindsay I am so so sorry.

 

[michelle01]

Lindsay - I am soooo sorry about your cat. I lost 2 of my dogs back in June and it was so hard. Your pets become your babies too and your cat was so young; definitely not fair.

Angie - I am SOOOOO sorry hunny! big I would definitely get a second opinion and would you consider donor eggs? I know women in their 40's that get pregnant, so I wouldn't count yourself out just yet!

Good luck today almost!

 

[BabyOnMyOwn]

Morning All. . .

Bubu, I'm so sorry. I agree, getting a second opinion sounds like a good idea.

Angie, I wish I could change how things turned out. Would you consider using donor eggs?

Lindsay, I'm so sorry. . . losing a pet is so hard!

MrsC. . . scan tomorrow!!! Hopefully your little ones are cooperative and show their genders.

Hi to everyone else, I will do more personals later (my kiddos will be here in just a minute).

AFM, between yesterday and today I have completely convinced myself that this cycle didn't work and that I need to start looking into donor eggs. I know its too early to know that but I feel like AF is coming. Today is a hard day anyway (it's the 3 yr anniversary of my dad's death), and I'm hoping that's what all my negativity is about. <sigh>

Sorry to be such a downer. . . it's just one of those days!

 

[notoptimistic]

babyonmyown - What round of IVF is this one? I think you should give it at least 3 or 4 tries with your own eggs before moving on to donor eggs. Remember, the donor egg option will always be there for you, but your own eggs won't so if you can muster the strength to do just one or two more ivf cycles with your own, I say go for it. I bet you still have some good quality eggs in you even with DOR - you are 36 so there have to be some good ones left! And, you aren't out yet!!

 

[GettingBroody]

Never - I am so gutted to read this

BOMO - don't give up yet! Fx'd you'll get a nice surprise bfp in the next few days!! When is your test date again?

Lindsay - you poor thing. We have many fur babies here and I would be devastated too in your situation.

Quick question for those of you who did acu before your bfp - are you still going or have you stopped now?

 

[drsquid]

bomo= *hugs* sorry for such a rough day,

 

[jchic]

bomo - I am sorry Hang in there ok? Hoping you are pleasantly surprised

 

[Pink gerbera]

BOMO - I'm sorry you feel this way. Keep positive, hopefully you're just having a rough day xxx

 

[jchic]

Pink - wow! You are going to be 11 weeks already?! TIME FLIES doesnt it?

 

[Pink gerbera]

I know! It's crazy!! How you doing?? Xx

 

[jchic]

Ok! Experiencing alot of MS in the form of ALL DAY nausea. I actually had my obgyn call me in a prescription for zofran for it because I get NO relief

When do you go to the doc next?

 

[Pink gerbera]

Oh that's rubbish. I seem to get it really bad for a whole day and night then it goes away for a couple of days before coming back again. I'm mainly just really tired! I go to bed so early!!

I've got my 12 week appt next week. I'm excited for it

How about you? When's your next one? Xx

 

[BabyOnMyOwn]

Thank you all for your positive words! I'm hoping you are right and that this is just me feeling blue today.

 

[jchic]

Pink - The all day nausea is the worst, isnt it?

I go back on Oct 30th for my 12 week appt. Super excited!

Bomo - hang in there

 

[Pink gerbera]

Yeah it's pretty rough but I'm crazy and as soon as it goes away my worry comes back. So I quite like it! It's reassuring!!

BOMO - hopefully you're just feeling off today and tomorrow you'll feel better

Xx

 

[never2late70]

Hi Lovely's

I really am fine. They said that the 3 eggs split into 8 cells like they were supposed to, but that all 3 were deeply fragmented. Meaning not forming properly. So putting them back in on a 3 day would not have a made any kind of difference. They said they were going to call me today and let me know if the managed to pull themselves together through the night, but it was only a 5% chance that they would. Not holding my breath.

I truly am fine. As some of you may know I have already been blessed with 3 beautiful, smart, talented and loving daughters. (24-22-21 years old) as well as blessed with my 4 year old grandson. It is my husband who has no children of his own that I am hurting for. He is so strong. I know that the news has crushed him, but he cares too much for me to ever let me see him hurt..awe..my love.

Anyway, we will not consider donor eggs for 2 reasons, mostly because we wanted "our biological" child, and 2 it would cost us another $8000.00 on top of the medications and procedures, labs, ultrasounds, donor moms meds..we cannot afford anymore. We have spent almost $18,000.00 in the last 7 months. Its so frustrating to be paying for failure. So yep, this was pretty much it.

I will be lurking. cheering and praying for you all!

Thanks for everything! Can't wait to see some babies!
~Angie

 

[MrsC8776]

Ugh today was the worst ever. I had to take my cat for his yearly shots and to get something on his leg looked at. We ended up having to put him down due to a cancerous tumor on his leg. He was only three. Such a shocker and no way to be prepared for that. I just can't stop crying...

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard that must have been for you.

prayin:how are you doing?

Hi Mo!!!!! Im hanging in there....I sure have my days...I just try to keep positive and look forward to my three little embies waiting to meet their mommy .....how are you doing?

I just wanted to say that I love your positive attitude. Do you know when you will be doing an FET?

Lindsay I am SO sorry I have a furbaby who is 3 and she is my life!!! I am sorry for your loss *HUGS*

AFM scan today, finally, yay!! will post photos on my journal tonight!

I can't wait to hear how it goes!

Morning All. . .

Bubu, I'm so sorry. I agree, getting a second opinion sounds like a good idea.

Angie, I wish I could change how things turned out. Would you consider using donor eggs?

Lindsay, I'm so sorry. . . losing a pet is so hard!

MrsC. . . scan tomorrow!!! Hopefully your little ones are cooperative and show their genders.

Hi to everyone else, I will do more personals later (my kiddos will be here in just a minute).

AFM, between yesterday and today I have completely convinced myself that this cycle didn't work and that I need to start looking into donor eggs. I know its too early to know that but I feel like AF is coming. Today is a hard day anyway (it's the 3 yr anniversary of my dad's death), and I'm hoping that's what all my negativity is about. <sigh>

Sorry to be such a downer. . . it's just one of those days!

Please don't give up yet! There is still time for your bfp. Have you tested yet? Sorry that today is a hard day for you. I will keep you in my thoughts. I hope between this post and now you are feeling a little better.

Hi Lovely's

I really am fine. They said that the 3 eggs split into 8 cells like they were supposed to, but that all 3 were deeply fragmented. Meaning not forming properly. So putting them back in on a 3 day would not have a made any kind of difference. They said they were going to call me today and let me know if the managed to pull themselves together through the night, but it was only a 5% chance that they would. Not holding my breath.

I truly am fine. As some of you may know I have already been blessed with 3 beautiful, smart, talented and loving daughters. (24-22-21 years old) as well as blessed with my 4 year old grandson. It is my husband who has no children of his own that I am hurting for. He is so strong. I know that the news has crushed him, but he cares too much for me to ever let me see him hurt..awe..my love.

Anyway, we will not consider donor eggs for 2 reasons, mostly because we wanted "our biological" child, and 2 it would cost us another $8000.00 on top of the medications and procedures, labs, ultrasounds, donor moms meds..we cannot afford anymore. We have spent almost $18,000.00 in the last 7 months. Its so frustrating to be paying for failure. So yep, this was pretty much it.

I will be lurking. cheering and praying for you all!

Thanks for everything! Can't wait to see some babies!
~Angie

Angie you are so strong and caring! I can see how this would be very hard on you both. I fully understand your reason for not wanting to go the donor egg route because of your two reasons. I'm sure your DH looks at your kids as his own. So sorry that this hasn't worked for you.

 

[TwoRdue]

Never - I hope that little 5% makes it through for you.x

jchic - I have constant all day nausea and really bad in the evenings, sometimes eating helps and sometimes it makes it worse but been hungry all the time I still eat lots ether way. The doc here will not give me anything for it I have been told to deal with it unless I am throwing up all the time. Cant wait till second tri

 

[never2late70]

Just received the call..None survived.