Thanks ladies
11am this morning, been awake most of the night worrying - stupidly really, that people aren't going to be disappointed. My partner has a strong preference for a girl, my son does too and all our family's are guessing girl. I don't want them to feel disappointment if it's a boy. I'm sure I'm being silly but things like this play on my mind. My gut feeling is boy but I don't mind either way.
I'm currently in private healthcare under Harbour Healthcare but I will be going to Plymouth foundation trust and I cannot wait to leave where I am.
Someone's relative basically came in shouting and screaming in my face asking why their totally independent with all aspects of personal care aunty wasn't wearing pants and why aren't we accompanying her to the toilet. She lives in a residential unit, declines all help and if she needs that help will have to be reassessed for our higher dependency unit but she didn't seem to get that instead telling me she was going to end my career. Good luck lady, I'm leaving there on the 11th anyway! Just wasn't what I needed after a stressful day.
Married I totally get your concern
honestly it's so stressful waiting to feel those movements. My midwife said to me on Friday that even second third forth ect babies can take up to 22-24 weeks to be felt by some mums
it's all down to where baby is, where your placenta is too is a big one because if their thumping placenta, you won't feel that. Not long for your scan now I'm sure that all is ok x