January Jellybeans 2013!...

[mommyof2peas]

35 weeks. He better be thinking about coming sooner rather then later, cause I'm not sure where he is gonna fit.

 

[Lauren021406]

Yea tax deduction is right lol, but if its not that day, i wont be upset lol...

The 31st and 1st hes just worried they wont be staffed enough but im like...welllllll someones gotta be working!!

I am the same way...I was shocked they said they dont induce on Sundays I wonder what the reasoning is....i think saying they wont be staffed enough is just an excuse!!

 

[mellywelly]

Sonia, is it just fear about the size of Archie or are there other reasons you are worrying?

 

[La Mere]

38 weeks, sorry if it is big or sideways... Uploaded from.phone

 

[Soniamillie01]

Sonia, is it just fear about the size of Archie or are there other reasons you are worrying?

It is mainly the potential size as they have told me all along that he is going to be big. I know no one knows what the complications may be but knowing that my risks are greatly increased especially with shoulder dystocia makes me want to be more prepared. I think I'd be more prepared if they would maybe scan again so at least we'd know more. Don't get me wrong I know the scans can be out but as I've always measured ahead it does worry me.

 

[Nikkilewis14]

Aruppe i would have done the same thing! soon soon soon!!!

 

[ARuppe716]

Sonia- best of luck on Monday... I hope they can move your appt and listen to all of your concerns. I'm glad I have someone on here going through the same thing...

As for the scheduling discussion...My SIL recommended not having anything done on a weekend because you tend to get the "B team" of nurses, etc. since more people request off or choose not to work. She said her experience had been that her care over a weekend or a complication was fair but she scheduled her induction for a Monday and the maternity ward was full of staff and her care was better...

 

[mellywelly]

Sonia, is it just fear about the size of Archie or are there other reasons you are worrying?

It is mainly the potential size as they have told me all along that he is going to be big. I know no one knows what the complications may be but knowing that my risks are greatly increased especially with shoulder dystocia makes me want to be more prepared. I think I'd be more prepared if they would maybe scan again so at least we'd know more. Don't get me wrong I know the scans can be out but as I've always measured ahead it does worry me.

Then I think you have to demand to see your consultant asap and insist on a scan, as you are just going to get more worried. If they thought he was going to be too big surely they either would have induced you by now or planned a section? Remember lots of people give birth to 9-10 lb babies with no problems too.

 

[Soniamillie01]

Sonia, is it just fear about the size of Archie or are there other reasons you are worrying?

It is mainly the potential size as they have told me all along that he is going to be big. I know no one knows what the complications may be but knowing that my risks are greatly increased especially with shoulder dystocia makes me want to be more prepared. I think I'd be more prepared if they would maybe scan again so at least we'd know more. Don't get me wrong I know the scans can be out but as I've always measured ahead it does worry me.

Then I think you have to demand to see your consultant asap and insist on a scan, as you are just going to get more worried. If they thought he was going to be too big surely they either would have induced you by now or planned a section? Remember lots of people give birth to 9-10 lb babies with no problems too.

That's what I don't really understand, they keep telling me he is big, my scans are always on or above the 95 percentile and fundal height has always measured weeks ahead, not just a few but a lot ahead. I have been worried about it all along I think but since my midwife said about it on Friday when I saw her and said I really think you should consider it I guess I kind of have thought about it more. I just want to be listened to and the risks managed properly with my thoughts / feelings considered. Every time I have tried to discuss it with the consultant or his registrars I get fobbed off with the nature story and we don't section for larger babies. I'm going to call Monday and try to move the appointment, I'm not sure I'll have much luck but DH said refuse to be fobbed off.

 

[mellywelly]

Maybe they would give you a sweep if not and try to get things started? I've just been reading some threads on this and some of the predictions from scans/measuring were way out. One was predicted 11+ but was only just over 8 when born! They also said bigger babies were easier to deliver as they had better muscle/weight to push themselves out with and loads of them didn't even tear.

 

[Soniamillie01]

Ah ok that's interesting to know, thanks hun. Midwife did also say that she had recommended that I not be left to go over by ten days and would recommend a sweep / induction if not c section. I'm wondering if we'll make it to Friday to see consultant so that's why I'll call Monday and see how I get on.

How are you feeling? Did the curry work? X

 

[mellywelly]

Nope nothing happening here. Think I may make it to my sweep on Tuesday! But will let hubby see if he can get things going before then

Just been reading up on the risk factors for the shoulder thing. From what I understand, it's not just having a big baby that gives risk, but its where baby's shoulders or chest are much bigger than head circumference, so that I'm sure they could check that if you get a scan.

 

[mommyof2peas]

When I went for scans for my son they said he was 4'11....give or take 11 oz. lol

 

[ARuppe716]

Sonia- Im with your dh... Stand strong! They need to listen to you- it's your body and your baby!

Thank you for all the support ladies. It was not an easy decision and not what I imagined the birth to be. I feel confident that I made the right decision but can't help but feel guilty as well for not giving it a try vaginally. It's easy to feel as though I will be judged. I really appreciate everyone's support!! You ladies are an amazing group and I'm grateful for such a great group of friends as support

 

[Soniamillie01]

Yes I've read that, at my scans his head was has always been about 50% and other measurements have been 90/95 percentile. I also read that risk is approx. 70% if baby is estimated at 4000g - 4500g plus which is 8lb 8 - 9lb 5 ish I think.

Aruppe - I know how you feel hun and I may not even have to make that decision. It does worry me a little about people judging me if I do opt for a section, especially my mum as I know how disappointed she'll be

 

[Nikkilewis14]

Oh my, holy contractions after packing my bag lol..

 

[mellywelly]

Aruppe, don't feel guilty, if you knacker your hip up again by having a vaginal birth you won't be able to look after your baby, sometimes you have to look at what is best for the future. Having a c section isn't easy either, it's a major operation.

 

[Nikkilewis14]

I already signed my c section paperwork if needed, theyre doing another ultrasound on monday to do measurements to make sure shell make it through... Obv we hope for a vaginal but if there is ever a question of needing a csection, i would just do it

 

[DeedeeBeester]

Amanda: I agree with the ladies, if you think a c section is the best scenario, then go for it, more power to you for thinking about staying safe.


AFM: Dr has told me Matthew could be up to 9 lbs on his due date, haven't said anything about that being something to worry about, they even said that if he was late they would wait about a week after D Date to induce!! Can you imagine that? Hahaha... almost a 10 pounder!

I've been taking EPO and inserting it in vjj... and I am pretty sure I've been losing my mucus plug. Its not hard though, it's ... gooey? Hahahaha.

 

[sassy_mom]

Aruppe I agree that you know what is best. Being able to move and take care of your little one are what is important. However the baby has to get here shouldn't matter. I think that you making the tough decision makes you an even better mother. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about your decision.

Sonia I really think you should fight for them to scan you. Let them know you are serious about wanting to know what your options are. I hope you can get them to listen.