I will speak with them on Monday to schedule a review. I just feel so cheated. To get all through ICSI and have it magically work at each stage despite his limited decent sperm and my limited decent eggs, and even have our one embryo implant, just for it to fail exactly as happened when we managed to conceive naturally. I just feel they should have done more to think about what might be wrong there before we started, but I guess that's just the grief talking as it could have been fixed by the progesterone or the endo scratch so I guess they tried. I'm just back to feeling infertile and barren, but now it hurts even more as I had my dream dangled right in front of me then snatched away. I feel foolish for even getting my hopes up.
Anyway, I shall ask the clinic whether we can do any more tests on me eg immunology, uterus MRI etc to see if they can see anything causing the losses, fixable or not, so we can move forward. It might be my eggs are chromosomally abnormal too, by my research. We will see. We're going to try to plot all our potential options eg egg donation, adoption etc, including costs and timelines, so we feel more in control and sure of what we can and want to do and which needs to happen first (eg age limits for adoption).
Shall I continue to update here for the July ladies I've been journeying with, or is this going to evolve into an 'August IVF' thread (which unfortunately I worry isn't really going to be as safe a place for me emotionally)? I guess it might so I'll mention now that if any of you lovely ladies want to keep in touch with me, do visit me at my journal (link in my signature). Love to all, and sorry not to talk about anyone other than myself - I'm just too sad and scared and mourning right now, which I know you understand so thank you but sorry nonetheless xxx