**July Fireworks Testing Group 2022**

[CakeBaby]

Well think it's over now knew my test from today looked fainter posted pictures in my journal. Just had a little gush of blood. Feeling devastated and heartbroken once again. I will be off for a few days or more to focus on my well being. Once I get towards ovulation I will come back if we have a good chance at this new cycle.

So period or cp happened 2 days early before af was due. Wonder if it will make my cycles only 22 days instead of 24??? I just don't know anymore. Getting to old to be obsessing over every cycle stuff. Starting to get to me.

It's probably my body saying I'm getting to old to carry another baby. I just don't know how much longer I can do this. After a year of trying it seems like it's never going to happen for me and my OH.

Feel hopeless, sad, mad and know I need to hang on with ttc for a little longer if I can. So hard to do with so many mixed emotions going on.

Figured by now we'd be holding our new bundle of joy.

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Good luck to ladies still testing. Wish you lots of luck

so sorry to hear this sending hugs x

 

[RainbowBaby13]

A little behind and quickly skimmed thru so hoping I don't miss anyone but I'm sorry about the bfns and af

@Pinkfizz2015 ayyyeee!! Congratulations girl!!!! so happy for you!!! ain't nothing like seeing them positive tests xx

@NightFlower I'm so sorry girly. You already know I understand about taking time away from here.

Hoping ovulation comes soon and for those who did I hope you get your bfps soon!!

As for me.. we are ntnp this cycle so hopefully we'll get lucky this month x

 

[Suggerhoney]

@NightFlower
Oh love I just wish I could hug you right now. I totally understand u needing time out. Will miss you and will look forward to your return. Your such a lovely supportive member on here to me and all the other ladies. Was wondering if u have ever tried maca and B vitamins as they can make cycle longer, your in my thoughts love nothing worse then recurring loss. I know the feeling and it’s horrible. Sending lots of love and hugs

@Pinkfizz2015
I had a faint but positive line on one of those at 14 dpo then a dark line by 17dpo. Last cycle. So happy for you love and fx it is a sticky beanie.

 

[Suggerhoney]

@Mum2Be22
Oh my goodness I can’t believe your still waiting for AF. How frustratingly shit. And so shitty the doc don’t seem to care. I am so sorry love. I hope she shows soon or even better a BFP does pop up. Thinking of you love

 

[Karissa Neal]

Hey ladies, can I ask you all a question. As you know I got a positive test almost 2 weeks ago. I’m now 18dpo, I have these constant pains in my LOW abdomen, like a pulling pain mainly when I cough, move to fast, roll over or stand up. It hurts enough to make me stop and grab it. Is this normal? Everyone says it’s probably just the baby stretching my uterus but it’s worrying me.

 

[lomelindi17]

@Karissa Neal do you have a healthcare provider you could ask? Might be prudent to ask in case of ectopic or at least just for reassurance. Hopefully it’s nothing but maybe a scan would be a good idea if it’s really hurting.

 

[RainbowBaby13]

Hey ladies, can I ask you all a question. As you know I got a positive test almost 2 weeks ago. I’m now 18dpo, I have these constant pains in my LOW abdomen, like a pulling pain mainly when I cough, move to fast, roll over or stand up. It hurts enough to make me stop and grab it. Is this normal? Everyone says it’s probably just the baby stretching my uterus but it’s worrying me.

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I had that with my son around the same time as you. It almost felt like a weird sting pain like a pulled muscle feeling but it stung. I use to compare it to like a rubber band. Like i over stretched something. Sorry if im no help. And I got it with sudden movements or when I sat up after sitting down.

But I agree with @lomelindi17 it's probably a good idea to get it checked out if you can

 

[Karissa Neal]

@Karissa Neal do you have a healthcare provider you could ask? Might be prudent to ask in case of ectopic or at least just for reassurance. Hopefully it’s nothing but maybe a scan would be a good idea if it’s really hurting.

Yes ! I have an appointment on Wednesday and I’m going to bring it up. Hopefully they offer me a scan

 

[Karissa Neal]

I had that with my son around the same time as you. It almost felt like a weird sting pain like a pulled muscle feeling but it stung. I use to compare it to like a rubber band. Like i over stretched something. Sorry if im no help. And I got it with sudden movements or when I sat up after sitting down.

But I agree with @lomelindi17 it's probably a good idea to get it checked out if you can

That’s exactly how it feels! Hopefully mine turns out to be nothing like yours did.

 

[Flueky88]

Hey ladies, can I ask you all a question. As you know I got a positive test almost 2 weeks ago. I’m now 18dpo, I have these constant pains in my LOW abdomen, like a pulling pain mainly when I cough, move to fast, roll over or stand up. It hurts enough to make me stop and grab it. Is this normal? Everyone says it’s probably just the baby stretching my uterus but it’s worrying me.

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Sounds like round ligament pain. It happened pretty early for me during my 2nd pregnancy.

 

[RainbowBaby13]

That’s exactly how it feels! Hopefully mine turns out to be nothing like yours did.

I think it may be normal and like another poster said I think it's round ligament pain. I felt mine around my pelvis area. Praying for you and baby

 

[Pinkfizz2015]

That’s exactly how it feels! Hopefully mine turns out to be nothing like yours did.

Hi hun try not to worry to much I no its hard not to it is very normal with my last pregnancy I had it all the way to 12 weeks our bodies are amazing and just making space for baby it happens from implantation all thr way through look at ot as though your body is doing what it needs to its working xx

 

[MumwithPCOS]

@happyface82 Sorry babe

 

[AlwaysTheAunt]

@Pinkfizz2015 wow congrats hun!

Sorry I've been MIA yet again. We moved house on the 3rd July. So been very busy with the move and unpacking. Unfortunately decided it was time for my 16yr old dog last friday the 8th we had her put to sleep. Very sad day but coping better then i thought i would. I miss her terribly but just feel so numb to emotion the last year or so. I am having her cremated and having some ashes and fur put into a necklace.

Today is O day, very crampy (possibly a bit constipated too though ugh). Managed a bd last night and 2 nights before that so fingers crossed!

 

[MumwithPCOS]

@Pinkfizz2015 wow congrats hun!

Sorry I've been MIA yet again. We moved house on the 3rd July. So been very busy with the move and unpacking. Unfortunately decided it was time for my 16yr old dog last friday the 8th we had her put to sleep. Very sad day but coping better then i thought i would. I miss her terribly but just feel so numb to emotion the last year or so. I am having her cremated and having some ashes and fur put into a necklace.

Today is O day, very crampy (possibly a bit constipated too though ugh). Managed a bd last night and 2 nights before that so fingers crossed!

Good too see ya. Good luck for this cycle sounds like u covered it. xxx sorry about your dog I like the necklace idea

 

[c-lou]

Hey ladies, can I ask you all a question. As you know I got a positive test almost 2 weeks ago. I’m now 18dpo, I have these constant pains in my LOW abdomen, like a pulling pain mainly when I cough, move to fast, roll over or stand up. It hurts enough to make me stop and grab it. Is this normal? Everyone says it’s probably just the baby stretching my uterus but it’s worrying me.

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I went to A and E with this problem, it floored me sometimes, just if I moved wrong and sometimes it didnt take that much even, it stopped at about 10 weeks but I get the odd one.

 

[cazza22]

Congrats to ladies with BFPs x sending sticky baby dust x

sending love to those who have had AF arrive hoping this month is your month x

 

[Suggerhoney]

@Karissa Neal
I actually had that and to me it felt like a sharp stitch pain. It is probably just things stretching. But like the others have said just mention it when u go for your appointment. I’m sure is absolutely nothing to worry about.

@AlwaysTheAunt
Oh no love I’m so sad to hear about ure doggy. Thinking of you. Yay for now being in the 2ww. Fx fx fx so hard.


6dpo for me today and nothing much to report.
Have a feeling I may be out again this cycle or I know this is so negative but I feel if we have caught it’s gonna end again. Not even excited about testing at all. Just very very nervous and scared.
The chemical in April didn’t effect me that much. But the miscarriage last cycle nearly broke me. The thought of going through it all again is unbearable. sorry to be such a negative Nancy ladies

 

[lomelindi17]

@AlwaysTheAunt So sorry about your pup, but I’m glad you’re all moved in and hope all is well with the new house.

@Suggerhoney fx for a bfp this cycle and I hope you’re able to find some joy in it if you do fall, hang in there sweets

more ic bfn’s for me, haven’t taken any more frer , maybe later today. Feeling out, either 11 or 12 dpo. Had a huge temp dip at 8 dpo so I was hoping. My nips are super sore though last couple days which is a weird one, last month my bbs were super sore the whole LP and this Month not quite as bad but nips hurt worse! Lol so weird.

 

[cazza22]

@Karissa Neal
I actually had that and to me it felt like a sharp stitch pain. It is probably just things stretching. But like the others have said just mention it when u go for your appointment. I’m sure is absolutely nothing to worry about.

@AlwaysTheAunt
Oh no love I’m so sad to hear about ure doggy. Thinking of you. Yay for now being in the 2ww. Fx fx fx so hard.


6dpo for me today and nothing much to report.
Have a feeling I may be out again this cycle or I know this is so negative but I feel if we have caught it’s gonna end again. Not even excited about testing at all. Just very very nervous and scared.
The chemical in April didn’t effect me that much. But the miscarriage last cycle nearly broke me. The thought of going through it all again is unbearable. sorry to be such a negative Nancy ladies

Oh Sugg I just hate what loss does to our mindset. It’s honestly the scariest place 1st trimester!. Even now at 13 weeks I’m thinking why haven’t I felt any flutters today? Why haven’t I been sick yet today?. It’s such a mind fuck. Thinking of you darling and we’re all always here x