We've had the hardest time with names! Two nights ago we think we found our girl first name, we have a boy middle name but we feel like once we know the gender it will be easier because we can focus rather trying to find both! My birth plan is a C-section I have had a lot of major surgeries and my body especially my pelvic floor could not handle childbirth without long term damage risk that is far more then a little more scar tissue! I'm fine with it parts of me what the normal birth options immediate skin to skin with my baby etc but both our safety is most important! Baby items I've been tempted for the big ones but we agreed when we find our gender well start buying big items. So far I have 3 glass bottles, 3 tommetippe bottles, matching manual pump, breastpads,fuzzy white socks, gray booties, and just a couple outfits but the store I bought from takes returns all year if you save receipt so I can exchange or return if not needed! I scored great deals of most of them so I grabbed them while they were a fraction of the reg price! So excited for us all to find out what were having!