I was looking at Becco carriers tonight, apparently they front and back wear while being good on the hips and legs, which is always a main priority. Anyone know much about them? Just don't know the pros and cons over ergo, Becco and Boba. Seems like everyone will say something conflicting and I can't decide! I want to use that for my toddler and a front carry for this baby. It seemed like Ergo doesn't have much of a supportive back to it, which I want, but I may have only saw that one style in real life. I wish stores carried a selection of them to see in person
The only differences are slight - difference in straps, waistband etc. I'm not sure if you have them there but we have sling libraries here - in fact I run Sling Library Northern Ireland - where we loan out carriers so you can try them to see what suits - if you look on thebabywearer.com you might find a group local to you, I know there's a Central NYC group but not sure if/when/where it meets.
I think I feel sick this morning! Trying not to get my hopes up though.
Scan day tomorrow and I'm soo scared!
Eta; just puked!!!
Never been so happy for someone to puke!!!
As for carriers...I loved my mothercare carrier but found by the time DD was about 5mths old she was waaaay too heavy for me to carry in it. She has always been a bit of a giant baby.
Mothercare carriers like most highstreet carriers are really only comfortable [from what I've heard] for up to about 5-6mo before the wearer finds it uncomfortable but there are plenty of buckle carriers which are suitable from birth, can be used on front, back and hip and ARE ergonomically made to support the baby and wearer in the optimum position for the spine and hips. Check out the Manduca for example
I used a moby wrap in the beginning and loved it, and just a few months ago made myself a mei tai wrap. LOVE it!! Its so comfortable I can even wrap up my 5yo that weighs 35lbs up in it, I dont do it often though cause I dont weigh enough for him to not through me over but its he likes to do it on occassion. My 18mo loves to be wrapped, i've been wearing him since we came home from the hospital, its SO much easier to get things done especially when they are big enough to ride on your back. I've not heard of tandem wearing though? how is that achieved?? I hate pushing strollers, and considering my youngest will only be just over 2 when this LO is born it'd be great to carry both!
just be careful of the "crotch dangler" carriers as those can be unhealthy for your baby.
Crotch dangler isn't exactly the nicest term, I tend to call them highstreet carriers or mainstream carriers as it can be offensive to people and put them off babywearing entirely!! Tandem wearing is just wearing 2 kids at once, not a very attractive picture of me but this is my 2 in a wrap each:
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Lots of people tandem using different wraps though, like a buckle carrier on back for an older child and then a wrap on front, or mei tai on back and front etc etc so there's lots of options.
I am very intrigued by baby wearing.....i'll definitely be getting a baby bjorn carrier as I love them, was looking after my friends baby recently and wore him all round town in one - very cool. But I am also interested in back carrying when baby is a little older so will get a different style for this. Can't wait !!
The baby bjorn are not great carriers for the long term, if it's a buckle carrier you're interested in you'd be better with and ergo or manduca
They are both very popular buckle carriers and support the baby in the optimum position which means carrying for you will be more comfortable also
I'm wanting to wear this baby, having 2 under 2 I really don't think I will get a double stroller! I have one so I can push one wear one.
Does anyone recommend a good wrap or baby wearer?
Depends what kind of carrier you want? There are LOTS of slings, and something for everyone really!! There are Sling Libraries across the Uk where you can go and try carriers and be shown how to use them correctly. I think there are also groups in the USA but I'm unfamiliar with where/what etc.