Howdy ladies! Yay for HB's, scans, and bump pictures, I basically have no bump unless I have just eaten something, it's SO frustrating, with my DD I showed so early. This monkey likes to hide I guess.
It's been below zero for the past two days here sometimes with the windchill sometimes without. When I woke up this morning it was -8F before the windchill, now at almost 3 p.m. is 4F, still not to flipping warm...argh!
I think I'm finally feeling baby move! I think I first felt him a few weeks ago and haven't felt anything in a while. Then I felt him yesterday morning and again in the eve. Just now I've been feeling him again. Those of you who are feeling your LO move (or have been pregnant before) did you notice any correlation between increased movement and when you're hungry?
Libby'smum - I bet that was a delicious chocolate cake. Your DD is so precious
yay for hearing the heartbeat and normal bp!
lovely bump pic
Becca and ProudArmyWife - I'm knackered too. So much for all this 'second trimester energy' we're supposed to have!
ProudArmyWife - cute bump pic
Breadsticks - that's great that you finished your paper
JJsmom - 2 weeks will fly by I'm sure. How old is your son going to be?
The newborn outfits to show your mum the gender is a cute idea
junemomma - how lovely to be getting a new house and car We're trying to save for a new car too because we can't fit 6 people in the car we've got, but it's sure gonna have to be an inexpensive car! We haven't got much saved up!
yay for you feeling a kick
alanna - hope the protein is nothing too serious
sue - don't worry about the maternal instincts. It's soooo different when it's your own. When I had DD I had never had any maternal instincts in my life. I was not very fond of children, and had never held a baby. The maternal instincts immediately kicked in when I had her though. I was crying from how much love I felt for her.
Glad your MW appointment went well.
myra - I've only just started feeling movements this week so couldn't really say if there's a correlation between hunger and movements. TBH I'm starving right now and I can't feel anything lol.
tlh - woo for early flutters
miss Bellum - glad your mw appointment went well
caro - I bet that was scary being stuck in a snowstorm. poor you!
mvosse - I'm jealous that you haven't got a big bump. I'm fed up of mine lol
donna - I dunno if I'm feeling the cold more or if it's just bloody freezing lol
yay for big movements
mara - I've been peeing a lot more too
I bet you can't wait for your ultrasound
panda - I don't know what a fibroid is. I feel silly! I hope it's nothing serious
must be nice seeing your baby so often on the scans though
with my first baby I felt movements around 16/17 weeks, but everybody is different
My update :
I'm 18 weeks tomorrow and still have no date for my anomaly scan. The midwife did say that the hospital tends to leave it really late though to send out the letters. She said if I don't hear anything by 19 weeks I should ring the hospital. I hope it doesn't come to that. I hate last minute appointments because of trying to arrange with MIL to watch Jason (if it's a non-nursery day), or worrying if it's going to clash with school runs and stuff like that - I wish they'd just send me a letter already!
Somewhat TMI but my haemorrhoids have been really playing up this week. I've never managed to get rid of them from being pregnant with the other three, but usually they're relatively smallish and don't bother me. They've gotten bigger and are feeling sore and itchy now, so I had to buy some cream for them yesterday, which seems to be helping a little.
DH is going for his vasectomy tomorrow!
Thank you! My small corolla just won't cut it. With us still needing a booster seat for DS, as he'll be four when baby is born, and the infant carseat, my poor 9 year old wouldn't have enough room. Not only that but she'd have to somehow attempt to squeeze into the middle seat by climbing all over everything. It's just so much better and more practical with an suv, we're going to get a used Honda pilot with a third row.
I understand about the money situation, if it weren't for our tax return we wouldn't be able to afford to buy another vehicle at all.
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so now that i'm in second trimester i was expecting a boost of energy to come back. it hasn't im exhausted from the time i wake up until the time i go to bed at night. i find it difficult to keep my eyes open when i drive to or from work every day. ive never loved weekends more when i can just lounge around and play with my daughter!
question :
would you go to a (rock) nightclub at this point in your pregnancy?
DH and I used to go once every couple of months and I'm kinda missing it.
Last time we went was 9th Nov (got my BFP 4th Nov), and it wasn't quite the same as usual because I couldn't drink, and I got tired earlier than usual so we left an hour or so earlier than usual, but we did still have fun. I just drank lemonade. I did feel a little more self-consious dancing (I tend to prefer to get tipsy so Im not as self-conscious) but I did still dance and it was still ok.
We never go on the dance floor anyway because it's always crowded, so we tend to just stick to the area where the chairs are (people dance there too but it's never packed, so nobody bumps into you).
I'm just wondering whether I'm idiotic for even thinking about it. I know we're not gonna get the opportunity to go for a looooong time once the baby is born - we have nobody we know willing to babysit a young baby - DH's niece and/or my mother will only feel confident looking after Lydia, Alex and Jason because they're not THAT young - so it seems as though the only chance we'll get to go for quite a while is whilst I'm pregnant.
What do you reckon? Am I insane? Would you go? I'm not worried about people bumping into me, because, as I said, I don't go on the dance floor, and I wouldn't drink, I'm just wondering if I might get some weird looks going with a baby bump, and whether it's really worth it if I can't drink and if I have to leave early again because I'll be tired.
Plus none of my nice outfits will fit me now. I'd have to go wearing my jeans and a black t-shirt and my new-rock boots I suppose.
Opinions?
Just to add : I'm friends with the DJ - sort of. We've chatted on facebook for the past year. He's got DH on his facebook too. He's a nice chap, very friendly, and the bouncers are pleasant as well there though I don't know them very well. Have had a bit of a chat with them in the club before though.