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[HopeforFuture]

Oh il try that then otherwise I'm going to become huge if I keep snacking all day long!
I am feeling really nervous about it all at the moment constantly worried which I know isn't a good way to be but can't help it... Think il feel better after seeing doc tomorrow and having it all confirmed but I am constantly feeling AF is going to show!

How is everyone getting on with telling people, are you shouting it to everyone or keeping it under wraps?? So far only me and hubby know but I desperately want to tell my mum!! Xx

I feel exactly the same as you. I'm happy but I'm on high alert and worrying a lot. I'm guessing from other people's posts that nearly all of us feel like that. I'm guessing it cannot harm baby?

I too have my first doc appointment tomorrow. I am excited to tell him! I had been referred to the gyno and was waiting for a HSG when BFP was confirmed. He has seen me at my most distraught TTC and hope he's as thrilled as I am that we finally made it!!!

We have told my mom, my DH's parents and two very close friends. No more telling until xmas now for us unless people guess by then anyway. xx

 

[whigfield]

I told my mom.. My reasoning was, even if we m/c, we'll need her support. She's been a lifeline though really because everytime I've had spotting or a panic about something I've rung up and she's calmed me down.

 

[JFG]

What a scary 12 weeks and the days are going so slow! I keep checking my knickers when I go to the toilet and get so worried with every little cramp. Roll on December!!

Glad its not just me days are going so slowly!! definately roll on December!

 

[whigfield]

What a scary 12 weeks and the days are going so slow! I keep checking my knickers when I go to the toilet and get so worried with every little cramp. Roll on December!!

Glad its not just me days are going so slowly!! definately roll on December!

Same! Wish I could sleep through the next few weeks!

 

[JP19]

Oh il try that then otherwise I'm going to become huge if I keep snacking all day long!
I am feeling really nervous about it all at the moment constantly worried which I know isn't a good way to be but can't help it... Think il feel better after seeing doc tomorrow and having it all confirmed but I am constantly feeling AF is going to show!

How is everyone getting on with telling people, are you shouting it to everyone or keeping it under wraps?? So far only me and hubby know but I desperately want to tell my mum!! Xx

I feel exactly the same as you. I'm happy but I'm on high alert and worrying a lot. I'm guessing from other people's posts that nearly all of us feel like that. I'm guessing it cannot harm baby?

I too have my first doc appointment tomorrow. I am excited to tell him! I had been referred to the gyno and was waiting for a HSG when BFP was confirmed. He has seen me at my most distraught TTC and hope he's as thrilled as I am that we finally made it!!!

We have told my mom, my DH's parents and two very close friends. No more telling until xmas now for us unless people guess by then anyway. xx

I am super excited and super nervous about the doctors tomorrow, im not sure what im expecting from them yet. I think I need the doctor to tell me I am 100% pregnant because I cant quite believe it myself.
I think after we have been the docs tomorrow we are going to go an tell my parents, as i literally cannot wait to. We are such a close family I will prob tell my brother and sister to. My hubby says if we tell my parents then we have to tell his, which i suppose is only fair, but im really not very close to them, and im not sure how i feel about them knowing incase something goes wrong, but if i tell mine, he should tell his really to i guess!
xx

 

[JP19]

What a scary 12 weeks and the days are going so slow! I keep checking my knickers when I go to the toilet and get so worried with every little cramp. Roll on December!!

Glad its not just me days are going so slowly!! definately roll on December!

Same! Wish I could sleep through the next few weeks!

Me to!!! I only got my BFP Sunday and already this week is taking soo long to pass by! Roll on xmas, will be such a nice time to tell people!

 

[JJsmom]

Hey Ladies, I'm kind of second guessing when I actually O'd. Could you ladies take a look at my chart and let me know what you think. FF is way off as there's no way I could O and get a + two days later.
[url=https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3ff0d6]https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3ff0d6/thumb.png My Ovulation Chart[/URL]

It looks like you may have O'd on Oct. 19th. I'm not 100% sure, but thar's kind of what it looks like to me.

JP, I told my mom, sister and brother last night. My youngest sister knew last Friday, the day I told OH. Also one of my good friends knows because she knew we were trying. My mom seemed a bit disappointed. My sister and brother was much more supportive. I told her I had to tell mom because I told her at 12 weeks with DS and got a lashing from her! She was so mad! So I told her as soon as I found out and she still didn't seem happy. I can't ever please her but at this point in life I've finally learned to make myself happy and not everyone else! My sister said oh sweetie, that situation (with DS) was a WHOLE other situation!! You're in a great situation now!! So glad she's happy for us! I think mom is a little upset because I'm not living there with her. she doesn't like that I'm so far away and especially since OH will be gone when the baby is born. Other than that, I'm waiting til 12 weeks to tell anyone else. It's hard at work with how I'm feeling but heck, I'm holding on!! LoL! I'm keeping my mouth shut!

 

[barbara-moira]

What a scary 12 weeks and the days are going so slow! I keep checking my knickers when I go to the toilet and get so worried with every little cramp. Roll on December!!

Glad its not just me days are going so slowly!! definately roll on December!

Same! Wish I could sleep through the next few weeks!

Hmmm that sounds very good!!

 

[donna noble]

((hugs)) Photogmommy. I'm so sorry hun. The pain is awful no matter when it happens. Take care of yourself.

Ugh time is moving sooooo slow. I want this first tri over soooo bad! It's a constant worry! Wow am I having the crazy dreams though so I guess that is good! We have only told a couple of people. I told one friend because she could tell something was up I was way too happy! And my dh told his brother. I don't want to get people excited and then something bad happens again. Don't know how to explain to people that I won't be deer hunting with the gun though and no more waterfowl hunting. I know that will raise some eyebrows!

 

[myra]

I'll chime in in agreement that 12 weeks seems like a LOOOOONG way away!

I realized last night that my stomach muscles were sore because I was SO bloated. It was difficult to take a deep breath with things so crowded in there (I can only imagine what that will be like when the baby gets big enough to actually be taking some of that space!!)...when I tried, the button on my trousers popped open! I measured my abdomen/stomach circumference and I was 5cm larger last night than I was in the morning. It was down a bit this morning, but as soon as I eat bloating starts again. Oh the joys!

Other than that, I'm just unbelievably tired.

So, to sum it up- impatient, bloated, tired and oh soooo excited more than anything else!!!!!

 

[amjon]

Hey Ladies, I'm kind of second guessing when I actually O'd. Could you ladies take a look at my chart and let me know what you think. FF is way off as there's no way I could O and get a + two days later.
[url=https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3ff0d6]https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3ff0d6/thumb.png My Ovulation Chart[/URL]

Maybe CD24. You have some many missing temps it's probably confusing FF.

 

[myra]

Oh, I'll also be flying to Texas tomorrow for a mini-family reunion. My parents and 3 of my 4 siblings will be there, so I'm going to tell them on Friday.

Excited and nervous. I'm a very private person, so even though my OH and I have been together for over a year, I haven't mentioned him to my parents (siblings know about him & know that we were hoping to get pregnant). So mom and dad are going to be more than a little shocked to find out I'm pregnant...I'm certain that everyone will be happy for me~ but knowing my parents, they are are going to have a zillion personal questions that I really don't want to answer!

Hope you're all having a great Wednesday!

 

[cheerios]

Hey ladies!

Yah I totally know what you all mean about time just ticking by! This is my 2nd pregnancy but time still crawls by! I always thought it would faster with the 2nd baby cos I got 1 kid to take care of, but I guess its because with my first pregnancy I was "taken care of" very well by my Fertility specialist (baby was conceived on clomid) such that I feel so left alone with my 2nd surprise bfp!

Haven't had any bloods done / scans... and if I remember correctly, my first ob-gyn appointment was only at 10 weeks!!! 10 weeks! That's like an eternity away! I do wish I can go for a private scan somehow here!

 

[JFG]

So far only me, DH and my mum know and I am planning on keeping it that way until xmas unless DH wants us to tell his parents of course. After my previous 2 mc i just feel like people will think 'great here we go again' lol!

 

[Wriggley]

sorry for your loss photogmommy

welcome and congratulations to all the new bfpers!

 

[TTCMSP]

Hello all,

I am hoping I can join your group. I am due July 3rd!!!

 

[LizzieJane]

Welcome TTCMSP! Snap for July 3rd!

I can't believe I am only 5 weeks, feels like I've been keeping this secret for an eternity, not 10 days!!

3rdbabybump - I also agree, I reckon you ovulated on CD24

 

[ilovehim91810]

Happy Halloween everyone have a nice safe night!! what is everybody plans for the night?
im going to take my little man trick or treating probably at the mall because i live in maryland and we got hit with the storm sandy thank god we didnt lose power but it got super cold outside and its still wet and some peoples power is out!! also alot of people are to freaking cheap to buy candy my little guy is dressing up as spiderman he was spiderman last year tooo but a different one lol i tryed so hard to get him to get something different i took him to like 10 different places looking but he wanted to be spiderman so whatever make him happy makes me happy!!

 

[3rdbabybump]

Thanks all you ladies for looking at my chart. This was my second guess and makes more sense. I was kind of worried because I took another HPT this morning with FMU and while it was a little darker (good) not as dark as I thought it should be at 21 DPO. If I ovulated on CD 19th though it would only be 12 DPO which would make sense for the darkness. Also puts my mind at ease. Thanks again ladies

 

[JP19]

Is anyone else finding it totally impossible to concentrate on anything other than the growing baby inside of you??!!! I have had a study day from work today, due to been in the final 6 weeks of my degree and having soo much uni work to do. However all I have done is search the web for pregnancy related things and baby things! God I hope my brain can start to focus on my uni work soon... these really are my most important weeks, and i have 6 chapters of my dissertation still to write uh ohh!!!