June/July cycle - new cycle buddies please!

[rachelle1975]

it sucks huh? DH figured that what he got told at school was right - have unprotected sex = pregnancy! so he's wondering what is taking so long now! i was dissapointed the first month, got a chemical the second and i think since then i've only allowed myelf to believe i was actually pregnant whilst TTC, twice. it hurts too much to be dissapointed. Guess that's why i was more ready to believe i didn't ovulate and that there was a problem huh?

Fingers crossed for us... DH is in Amsterdam from Friday 4-6 July and theoretically i should start spotting on 7th July.... if the evil is coming!!

 

[tiggertea]

DH just "reminded" me he goes on night shift for 4 weeks as of tomorrow. Makes things a little more difficult. Not so much for this month as on OPK yesterday and so will have all our 'important' bd done by monday night, but next month, assuming the doesn't make an appearance, we'll see each other very little on and before O time.
I know i'm not the only one to have to contend with sh*tty working hours but needed a moan anyways - sorry girls!

 

[Farie]

Rosh - babes ... could it just be your Oing around CD20ish? that would explain the lack of EWCM so far and the CM today/yesterday?
I O late and for ages thought I wasn't Oing at all ...

Worth a thought?

Ps .. did you mention brownies .......................

 

[wishes]

Rosh - babes ... could it just be your Oing around CD20ish? that would explain the lack of EWCM so far and the CM today/yesterday?
I O late and for ages thought I wasn't Oing at all ...

Im a cd20 girl at the moment too Feels like it takes forever for o to come!!

Af is just out and now im pee'd off that i have to wait another 2 weeks until crunch time.

 

[rachelle1975]

Rosh - babes ... could it just be your Oing around CD20ish? that would explain the lack of EWCM so far and the CM today/yesterday?
I O late and for ages thought I wasn't Oing at all ...

Worth a thought?

Ps .. did you mention brownies .......................

I did mention brownies.... dad just came up and i baked him chocolate chip cookies so i got major brownie points for that at least!!

I guess maybe?? I am temping and it is going up tho and if it was CD20 that would be a seriously short lp?? Ah so now maybe i should have sex AGAIN today! this is not good - too worried not to have so it'll have to be 9 days in a row!! last night we avoided the preseed just to see how things went - i think the alcohol helped!!

2 months ago when this happened before, i did CB OPKs up until CD21 and got nothing??

So 3 months using OPKS and i have had 2 months at CD14 and 1 month as a no show?

 

[wishes]

hmm, you might have just missed your surge hun. You know how it likes to play with our minds

I say bday if you can handle it!

 

[rachelle1975]

Well i just went to the loo and there is some EWCM on the tissues?? Not a lot and it's not that stretchy but odd, don't think it can be semen from last night so i'll keep an eye on it - really do feel like i need a night off my poor bits are sore!

 

[Farie]

Hehe ... After 8 days in a row I think my bits would be falling off!!
My O alters month to month, sometimes I O about CD15/16 and other months it seems to be nearer CD20/21 - and I've never got a + OPK at all!
It's later since I started taking the B6/12
I just go by CM as in the Zita West book she (of yes .. Zita is my new best friend) says that it's the best indicator of all.
Maybe have a night off tonight and try tomorrow?


*edited to add ... Ohhhh cookies ..........*

 

[wishes]

So what exact kind of cm does old zita say we need to watch for then?...

 

[rachelle1975]

I've got her book too.... she says that when you get the watery/ewcm go! go! go!

On a hilarious note tried to do my CP earlier and i noticed it was lower than it had been a couple of days ago - checked in my book and it said that it goes low after AF and again after ovulation.. so god knows where i am! Had a bath and then couldn't find it afterwards! ha ha ha - surely it can't vanish in the space of an hour?!?!?!

I definitely need a night off, i'm exhausted and feel like i'm coming down with something - can't shake a horrid headache either so bed by 8 i think!!

 

[Loula]

oooh I have seen pics of Rosh's cakes, VERY impressive *yum*

I have to say I am quite enjoying my break off charting I have no idea what's doing what and I like it that way!

I think you are all way ahead of me so I'll be the last one left again lol!

Rosh if you have any watery/eggy cm then ( as much as I know you need a break) tonight too just in case

 

[Lu28]

Well I've just finished baking a chocolate cake with chocolate orange icing for my work lot because they're been badgering me to bake them something and my rock cakes are about to come out of the oven so it's been a busy few hours! Can't wait to have a rock cake, warm with a bit of butter yum yum.....

Had a chocolate mint flavoured muffin a few hours ago (healthy day for me!) and it for some reason made me reel really nauseous, felt like I was going to be ill for a few hours, nice...

 

[Farie]

Ohhh girls ... stop talking about all the lovely cakes!!!! I'm getting peckish!

 

[rachelle1975]

Well girls i think i'm going to give up! ha ha... although have regained my sense of humor thank god.

My new alarm woke me up with a heart attack this morning and i'd been sleeping with my mouth open so temps had dropped to 36.01. 5 mins later they were 36.13 so i've recorded that!

Think i'm just gonna chill, wait for AF to come next wednesday and then go see the doc. In my head i'm like 'give it another month' but if there are ovulation probs better to get it sorted eh? I soooooooo don't wanna go to work but i did have a night off last night so should feel 'rested'!!

 

[tiggertea]

Rosh!
seems like you are a little more content in yourself today.
Hope all works out.

 

[Lu28]

I'm not having much luck with my temping at the moment, woke up at 3am and couldn't really sleep after that! Fell asleep for about an hour before my alarm so have recorded the time when I woke up which looks fairly consistent so who knows. I've been feeling really queasy this morning, probably because my stomach doesn't know what's going on with being woken up so early, having warm milk at 4am and then breakfast at 8.30! So feeling a bit dodgy and delicate today.

 

[Farie]

Rosh - glad your feeling better
Loula - enjoy the break!! I think I'm prob similar stage in my cycle to you .. still waiting on O!!
Lu - sorry your feeling delicate, big gentle
Tiggertea - how are you doing?

 

[Lu28]

I was feeling better, then ate some lunch and feel ill again

 

[rachelle1975]

EWCM!
EWCM!
EWCM!
EWCM!

Maybe dip today was ovulation??? when i say EWCM! i mean there was quite a log today and it definitely is EWCM! !!!

Also checked CP and it's high and soft - very high in fact! sound promising?

Bring on the husband!

He got last night off, he can't complain...i am opting for today (next 30 mins) and first thing in the morning.. complete with death breath

i think you are all right and i'm a total nutter!!!! Sorry for being such a total winge bag - i'm worse than an episode of Eastenders!

Stopped drinking fluid at 4pm so i can POAS and check with OPK - worth it? Figure if i had some EWCM then i'll either ovulate today or tomorrow but EWCM only kicked in around 10am..... i

 

[wishes]

ha ha! Look how quickly that enthusiasm comes back!.... good luck hun... go get him!!!