HopingCarter
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You know what, I brought that up because I think I may have convinced myself I may be having a little 
after all!! Well, because here in the states, they say if you carry your pregnancy high than it's a boy, and if you carry low, like in the pouch part of your abdomen then it's a girl, well I had a dream about me being 7 or 8 months preggers and my belly was sitting HIGH honey! So to me that was enough to convince myself I could just be getting a little ....so we'll see in about 12 weeks, but I'm NOW thinking you may be 1 out of 5.....
Yes! Louisa, the Super Bowl is the ultimate championship for our American Football! They have a celebrity half time show, which happen dead smack in the middle of the game, like an intermission, and they have all these new commercials that are introduced for new products, or just new commercials for old companies, but they are normally really comical and funny, like the one that really made me think my TV blew out
, people have tailgate parties and drink and talk crap. It's like a most popularized non-Holiday over here 
And I'm sure Kika's aim wasn't to hurt my feelings, but I had to set the record straight. Yes, if it doesn't work out, we as women should be strong on our own for our kids' sake as well as our own sake.Yes, men do have the power to walk away at anytime, but that's not the idea I want in my head for MY marriage because if I have that in the back, that this might not work, than it's gonna make me act and feel like one day it might not work! Our belief is that Marriage is sacred and it's a Bond that is meant to last, and that's how I'm going to approach it. Not setting myself up for a possible failure, HELL NO! My mindset is We are forever, and as long as his ACTIONS tell me the same thing, I won't think any other way. Everyone else can keep their way of thinking, but I'm approaching my Marriage as if I KNOW we're gonna die together because that's why I married him. Yes in 10 or 20 years, I'm sure ANYONE'S view will be different because you would've experienced so much in that time, but I'm not gonna say that I'm gonna be divorced because someone else's didn't last. I'm not thinking about being a statistic, because just like you have people that divorce, you have people who are together FOREVER, and that's where I want to be. Romeo and I do believe that as long as you BOTH are WILLING to work on the issues, then regardless of how bad it gets, because it could get bad, you will get through it. When that stops, then I'll consider the latter, but for now, I can't think like that. I'm sorry, if you marry someone, the only thought that should be in your mind, is "I hope they bury me next to you", not "Well if it ends then this is what I'm gonna do"....unh, unh
not for me.
after all!! Well, because here in the states, they say if you carry your pregnancy high than it's a boy, and if you carry low, like in the pouch part of your abdomen then it's a girl, well I had a dream about me being 7 or 8 months preggers and my belly was sitting HIGH honey! So to me that was enough to convince myself I could just be getting a little ....so we'll see in about 12 weeks, but I'm NOW thinking you may be 1 out of 5.....Yes! Louisa, the Super Bowl is the ultimate championship for our American Football! They have a celebrity half time show, which happen dead smack in the middle of the game, like an intermission, and they have all these new commercials that are introduced for new products, or just new commercials for old companies, but they are normally really comical and funny, like the one that really made me think my TV blew out
, people have tailgate parties and drink and talk crap. It's like a most popularized non-Holiday over here And I'm sure Kika's aim wasn't to hurt my feelings, but I had to set the record straight. Yes, if it doesn't work out, we as women should be strong on our own for our kids' sake as well as our own sake.Yes, men do have the power to walk away at anytime, but that's not the idea I want in my head for MY marriage because if I have that in the back, that this might not work, than it's gonna make me act and feel like one day it might not work! Our belief is that Marriage is sacred and it's a Bond that is meant to last, and that's how I'm going to approach it. Not setting myself up for a possible failure, HELL NO! My mindset is We are forever, and as long as his ACTIONS tell me the same thing, I won't think any other way. Everyone else can keep their way of thinking, but I'm approaching my Marriage as if I KNOW we're gonna die together because that's why I married him. Yes in 10 or 20 years, I'm sure ANYONE'S view will be different because you would've experienced so much in that time, but I'm not gonna say that I'm gonna be divorced because someone else's didn't last. I'm not thinking about being a statistic, because just like you have people that divorce, you have people who are together FOREVER, and that's where I want to be. Romeo and I do believe that as long as you BOTH are WILLING to work on the issues, then regardless of how bad it gets, because it could get bad, you will get through it. When that stops, then I'll consider the latter, but for now, I can't think like that. I'm sorry, if you marry someone, the only thought that should be in your mind, is "I hope they bury me next to you", not "Well if it ends then this is what I'm gonna do"....unh, unh
not for me.
) then we should all be just fine and the main thing - happy!
either way, as you've said many times, blessing! And will be a gorgeous one at that 
I always seem to convince myself that I wouldn't want to find out the sex until birth, but it's just so convenient to know isn't it? For clothes, nursery colours, more time to choose names. Kika, shara, are you both planning on finding out early? 
isn't nice. I won't say it hurts but it's uncomfortable to say the least. I have no idea what the dip was 
it's really crappy and sounds ridiculous but whenever something like this happens it changes my overall mood and outlook of life for however long, I don't know, a few weeks or whatever. Theyre just idiots who love to get up to no good which is fine if that's what they want to do, but not right outside my house 
......Just sayin'
I totally understand you wanting to keep your hips up, but is it worth the UTIs? 
get there. Just food for thought! 
As far as the dip in your temp goes, did you wake up cold, like you needed extra blankets or socks on your feet? If not, I have no other explanation about it, unfortunately. 
