Ladiesssss what do y'all think ???????

[Baileeboo77]

He wants to go but he will tell the doctor he doesn't want me on meds, so I am not gonna take him with me if I do go lol. I am gonna try temping and see if I can get a result that ways I suppose lol

 

[wontgiveup]

He wants to go but he will tell the doctor he doesn't want me on meds, so I am not gonna take him with me if I do go lol. I am gonna try temping and see if I can get a result that ways I suppose lol

Well to tell you the truth i dont want to go back to the doc for this reason Meds made me sick. Oh and remember the Vaginal question lol, Well iv been doing some research and apparently you get a better reading that way, Think ill try that next cycle And try not to hurt my self since how ill be half asleep lmao

 

[Baileeboo77]

Lmao is there a certain thermometer I need ?

 

[JJsmom]

I got a basal thermometer from amazon.com. it's the 3M one for like $10. Are you going to use OPK's too?

 

[wontgiveup]

Baily hun its called a BBT thermonoter Basel Body Temp... Walmart sales them for 8 bucks Or you can order one off line.

 

[Baileeboo77]

That's what I thought.

 

[MrsHopeful2]

They have a fake bump you can put on ? Lol that's so funny

Im done trying, im not going to the doctor this month. If it doesn't happen by march I'll be on birth control until 2016

Bailee - My only advice is, to go to the DR with the only reason being that something could be very wrong and you have no idea that about it. Leaving it alone and un-addressed could cause irreversible damage. I waited 1 year to go to the Dr, to find out that my tubes and ovaries and uterus were being more destroyed every single day. You dont have to go because you desperately want to get pregnant, go because it could change your life FOREVER if you dont. I may never be able to have a baby without IVF (which is 20,000 per time, and it usually takes about 3 times) because i didn't go to the dr sooner. You may be perfectly fine, but is it really worth the risk to not go? Just think about it hun, even if just to ensure that there is hope in the future.

 

[Baileeboo77]

My guy feeling is that it's just not time. That it will happen before March. I think my body just needs some rest from naturally miscarrying last December. I know my weight gain hasn't helped at all either. I don't want to go and be told something I don't want to hear, im scared. I think my tubes are fine and all. I fear that I might not ovulate very often though. Im just young and don't want to hear I am unable to have a child. It would break my heart

 

[JJsmom]

Sweetie, my best friend was told she could never have a child. So she never really protected herself. She did end up with a child. But you really need to get checked to make sure everything is how it is supposed to be. If you get told you cant' have children, guess what? it's not 100% positive. There are so many options! But if you don't get checked out and continue in this path then you will wait how many more years before you find out? That much more heart break. I think you need to take a month off TTC and relax but still go to the doc appt.

When I had DS at 23 I was told I had spots on my cervix and had to have them froze and cut off and was told I might not be able to have children again. It really hurt me but have I ever stopped trying? No. And you see where I'm at right now. There is always a possibility!!! Please DON'T give up!!

 

[wontgiveup]

You ladys are scarying me maybe i should get checked out to :'( My last pap looked good But maybe Checking the other stuff out wouldnt hurt. I dont want to worry about the what could be's though cause when i do that i start thinking of all the things that could be wrong with me lol. Im allready a bad worrier as it is. Other then my irregular periods and ovulating every 2 month instead of every month I dont realy have any other problems. But still the thought worries me. Some times Cervical cancer runs through my mind Do you ladys no if they check for that stuff during a regular PAP?

 

[JJsmom]

Yes they check for that stuff during your yearly. That's when they found I had cells that weren't normal on my cervix when I was pregnant with DS, when they did my pap. But they would tell you if there was any problems with the cells. Not trying to scare anyone by any means. Just stating that she's been trying for over a year and had one loss in the very beginning. She hasn't got pregnant since so we are just suggesting she get checked out. She doesn't have to get on meds or anything if she doesn't want to. Just lookin out for ya Bailee!!!

 

[wontgiveup]

K That makes me feel better and i agree bailee hun you should keep your appointment. I wasnt sure what all they check for during a pap so thanks for the info jjsmom

 

[JJsmom]

Not a problem. I hadn't had any problems before that. I think DS caused all these problems! HAHA!!! Nahh, I won't blame him. He's just a goof ball. But it's always better to get checked out, not even to go on meds. But just to get checked out. You might have what others I've seen have like PCOS or something. That makes it a little more difficult to try and conceive because some months you might ovulate and others you might not. At least then you'd know what your dealing with and can go from there. Again I think you just need to relax some

 

[wontgiveup]

Iv been told by a nurse practitioner and and OBGYN that im a walking version of pcos but nether docs thought i needed to be checked out they said the only thing they could do is Provera and clomid To get things started to up are chances each month since how ill go every 2 or 3 months some times. These last couple of cycles have been awesome With no drugs so happy maybe my body is comeing back to normal lol. She said that cyst Could be on your ovaries but theres nothing they can do for them but Metformin can keep them from Over powering my ovaries if this is the case, well iv been on metformin for a ful yr didnt help with ov and as soon as i went off of it a while back iv been ovulating lol HUH, stranger things have happend when it comes to my body.

 

[Baileeboo77]

I had dysplasia, when I was 18, I got my first pap at 17 and everything was good. I went back at 18 and had dysplasia(pre cancerous cells) they had To scrap my cervix a couple of times I don't remember what it is called. Anyways everything at my last pap was good. When I miscarried I went km and and made sure there was no heartbeat, there wasn't (which is crazy I had heard it 72hrs earlier) anyways we saw that the sac was basically destroying itself by smas&hing the baby and that I would not have to have the d&c. So I waited a couple weeks went back and everything looked nice he didn't see anything to worry about and even showed me all my eggs on my ovaries. He said if I wanted a baby I would need one sperm and bam. He was wrong lol I have had trillions of sperm no bfp yet! Anyway I suppose I will go for peace of mind and To make sure im ok. I need to loose done dam weight.

 

[JJsmom]

you can do it Bailee!!!!!! You can do it alll nighttt longgg!!! LOL! Ok sorry, my "Water Boy" rendition. It'll happen for you sweetie!!

 

[Baileeboo77]

Haha that made me lol what's your fb again so I can add you ?

 

[wontgiveup]

Bailey Im over weight to, I set a time everyday and went for a walk I did this everyday And then i started to jog Befor you knew i was running half way and walking the rest of the way i did this for 8 weeks I droped From 238 to 214 I couldnt believe it.. I got down to 210 but im at 214 and trying not to go over that. LOL i gave up the walking weeks ago i know i should start back but it got so cold outside lol. I Dont look 214 i look 175 at least Doc said Its cause im so darn tall and my muscle structure has something to do with it to. Girl from the looks of your pic You look fine, but i do realize my cycle are shorter and Im ov. since i lost that weight YOU CAN DO IT I have faith in you. A I pod or something helps to when you run. OH and if it wasnt for me cutin out all pop and drinking Water all the time, No snakes Inless it was yogurt I prob wouldnt have lost as much as i did. I can give you some tips if youd like It realy worked for me

 

[JJsmom]

Bailee you can find me on there under my email the quickest i think. [email protected]

I'm 214 right now. I'm 5'6" and everyone tells me I dont look like I weigh that much but I feel it! LOL! But I am very muscular. I grew up doing archery and climbing over large boulders hunting and what not. One girl at work keeps saying she'd kill for my calves. But that's just my build.

 

[Baileeboo77]

Yeah hubby will walk with me but our eating habbits are bad. I