my partner and I are both spiritualists, but firstly, well done for keeping an open mind. Its fast becoming a rare thing to find someone who doesnt outrightly believe its a load oh hooha! lol.
I'm technically Wiccan by birth, and still class myself as such, OH is a spiritualist, but not christian spiritualist. If there's anything you'd like to know or anything you'd like answering, we'll both do our best.
I really do believe in the healing power of crystals, I've researched quite a lot about this and use them alot rather than "western medicine", lol.
My OH is really good at Reiki or "spiritual healing". I have M.E. and fibromyalgia and its amazing how much a session of reiki can ease the pain that painkillers cant.
As for life after death, I do believe there is one, but I dont believe its a simple as heaven and hell etc. For me, its more like stages, (based on theories of past lives etc)
HTH
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