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Nope... I tend to internalize everything :p like I asked him what he got me and he said nothing, but I thought he was joking..
 
Hello ladies, longtime no speak. I have been lurking but just not posting anything.
I hope you and your babies are well.
Darcy is now 3, where did the time go? She has been no trouble at all, such a happy kid coming out with the funniest things. I LOVE being a mum!
We are going to start trying for number 2 in June so that Darcy will be starting school, we can't afford two childminders.
How are you all? X
 
Hi Blondiejay! Its been too long I dont remember your name, sorry! Glad you and lo are doing well. It must be so nice that Darcy is so easy going. Zachary is in the phase of terrible 3's right now, and gives me a headache every single day with his tantrums. I tend to just ignore it and let it pass, but gosh sometimes I just want to dig myself a hole.

June is less than 3 months away, so exciting! My second is 20 months now. We wont be trying again at least til next year, longer if I change my mind and not in the mood. I am in the process of losing weight, getting ready for summer, looking forward to summer getaways so getting pregnant is the last thing on my mind. Not even those annoying baby fevers, which is truly awesome. I used to want to cry when I saw someone pregnant or have a newborn but then tell myself "nah, not into it right now, its almost summer!!" I get so excited around summer time.
 
Welcome back!!! Wow all our 1st babies are now 3 :haha: that's crazy!!

Omg Cassidy drives me NUTS sometimes, she whines a LOT and gaahhhh!!!! I'm glad I'm not the only one with a kid that drives me batty.


Rose is a doll, I mean she is naughty but its in a cute way. Maybe its cause Cassidy is so much like me that our personalities clash? I dunno!!

I have BAD baby fever two of my friends are pregnant and omg I'm dying to be again. But my reason for not, like aside from we can't afford it, is that I want to be able to drink in the summer with my sister :haha::haha::haha::haha: selfish selfish reasons I know LOL
 
My sister gave birth over a month ago, and I had really bad baby fever in her last few months of pregnancy, I was so excited when I thought I had "accidentally" gotten pregnant, but when I found out I wasnt pregnant, I was more relieved than sad. Guess thats a pretty big sign that I am not ready. I try to rationalize with myself by thinking, there are only x number of times in my life to be pregnant, after I use them up, that chapter of my life will be closed forever. People will always procreate. I work as an interpreter, and have had more than a handful of calls where mommy is going to the ob's office to check on baby, and even interpret a delivery call, gosh I was so darn broody. But as soon as I hung up, I told myself to breathe and that its better to wait.

Its gotten so much better, I dont sulk every single time I see a pregnant belly, because I know we will definitely have more and soon it'll be my turn again, just not now. I also enjoy my time a lot more now with both of them getting older (despite Zachary's whining).
 
Ugh Cassidy whines ALL the time. And STILL cries and carries on, I thought she would be past that already! :dohh:

The hubby told me that I should have a baby soon :wacko: and said hopefully it'll be a boy.
 
Haha Ashley thats funny considering how he complained a lot when he found out you were pregnant with Rose, now he's the one initiating.
 
Oh I know!! My pregnancy with Rose was SO awful!

I think he doesn't know what he wants, he goes from saying he wants another baby to saying no more that's it :haha:
 
My kids have been campaigning for another baby :haha: kinda funny! But I don't really want to have one without help. I want Rose to be potty trained first too, cause I don't really want two in diapers, I did that already and it was so tiring!
I really don't find this mom thing to be getting any easier, if anything its getting harder :( I miss my mom coming to help me out.. but she can't come anymore.
 
:wacko: I find myself wanting another baby more and more lately, however my hubby is again dead set against having any more. So who knows what will happen.
 
Good luck ashley! I hope it will work out for you soon. I dont really have any baby fever at the moment, especially when we have a disney trip coming up july 4th so.im excited. Most days I just tell myself that a baby will come sooner or later so theres no need rushing it, only way to keep me from overthinking and going insane.
 
Some days I swear two is enough, but seeing friends moving on to their third makes me want another but there is no way we will have one this year. Soonest is 10 months. I must wait and not do anything irrational in the meantime...hopefully this will pass and I can wait a few more years.
 
AC1987 said:
:wacko: I find myself wanting another baby more and more lately, however my hubby is again dead set against having any more. So who knows what will happen.
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that must be so hard as your hubby keeps changing his mind! does he say never or just not now?

I find myself a little broody too at the mo and my children are pestering me to have another baby! lol
 
To be honest we haven't really talked about having more kids, like a serious talk. We're just so annoyed with eachother lately we're just being civil :haha: so probably another baby at the moment would be bad timing anyways.
I just find myself a little bitter with some situations lately, and I need to work through it. I just want to escape life, I hate living down here, and want to move SO badly, I can't stand my neighborhood or anything. :baby:
I miss my family insanely and wished we lived closer.
 
zachary is a constant reminder that i shouldnt have anymore anytime soon. He is always whining, complaining, and acting out, really he seems to be such an unhappy lil dude. Makes me wonder if Jayden will go through the same thing in a year. I almost want to wait til they enter kindergarten or older to have more because i cant handle the stress of whiny toddlers.
 
:wacko: Cassidy is a handful lately! Her whining drives us crazy! And lately has been SO rude, I've been shocked! I know I wouldn't have dared talked to my parents that way.
I just don't know how to get her to stop being so rude...
 
Hi ladies,
How are you all?
Darcy is 3 and a half now and we have now decided to add to the family! I'm going to have my coil removed within the next couple of weeks and then go go go!!
Darcy has been such a dream, a little diva at times but she is so polite and has grown into such a beautiful little girl.
My other half is considering a much more demanding job, but lots more money and we are hoping that I will be able to stay at home with the new baby (fingers crossed). I really hope I can as work is so stressful at the moment.
Anyway any updates with you guys???
 
awww you're lucky!!
I wish my kids were polite :haha: I mean I try and teach them but omg its hard!!

I'm so exhausted a lot of the time with them.

In about 3 weeks and then I go to Canada for about a month... to visit with my family. SO happy about that!
 
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