Sam_Star
Mummy to a Battle Maiden
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ARGH!!! I hope you lovelies dont mind but i need a rant!!
So you all know about my mum now and everything that is happening with her at the moment, well my elder sister is acting like a complete idiot she does not call my mum to make sure she is okay, she does not even just pop in too say hi!
So today i gave her a call to give her the news that mums cancer had not spread which she thanked me for and promptly got on the phone to mum too say that she had heard and she was over joyed!
Now stupid me (apparently) thinks this was a good thing to happen and that maybe i should try a little harder with my sister as she has obviously not taken the news very well! But oh no im the bad guy again Darren claims that i have put my nose where it was not wanted and caused trouble in the long run
This is the way i have always been though, Darrens father has mental issues and whenever he has an episode its me thats phoning hospitals and police so why shouldi treat my own family any different!
Anyways its like 3:30 am and he is talking to me like im a little girl telling me once again how wrong i am!
I have had enough!
So you all know about my mum now and everything that is happening with her at the moment, well my elder sister is acting like a complete idiot she does not call my mum to make sure she is okay, she does not even just pop in too say hi!
So today i gave her a call to give her the news that mums cancer had not spread which she thanked me for and promptly got on the phone to mum too say that she had heard and she was over joyed!
Now stupid me (apparently) thinks this was a good thing to happen and that maybe i should try a little harder with my sister as she has obviously not taken the news very well! But oh no im the bad guy again Darren claims that i have put my nose where it was not wanted and caused trouble in the long run
This is the way i have always been though, Darrens father has mental issues and whenever he has an episode its me thats phoning hospitals and police so why shouldi treat my own family any different!
Anyways its like 3:30 am and he is talking to me like im a little girl telling me once again how wrong i am!
I have had enough!
tell him to piss off, youve got enough on your plate without him acting like a kid, stuart wouldnt dare speak to me like that! tell him if hes just going to be unhelpful keep his mouth shut, xxx
It sounds like you are not doing anything wrong hon. Keep your head up 
hahah cant wait to see her xxxx
Hopefully that little stinker stays head down for you and doesn't turn around again! Wishing you a quick and happy delivery and a happy and healthy baby! Thinking of you!!! 
I'd go take him something myself but he works an hour away and there isn't time for me to go and come back before Zach gets off the bus. The biggest problem is that if he doesn't eat he will get sick with either or both severe heartburn or a migraine. I am so sick and tired of the way that they take him for granted and then yell at him!! 
Another example is he's been late quite a bit lately as Bryson is finally recovering from being really sick for almost a month with all of the mucus and constant choking and we've had him in and out of the doc's office and the ER even. But they knew about that because he told them and even gave them copies of the paperwork from Bryson's doc. And to top it off, his boss is late more often than on time!!! I'm starting to get really angry and frustrated as now when I pick him up from work in the evenings, he's in a bad mood and angry and that, as you can imagine, automatically makes things more difficult for the following couple of hours until he calms down. Don't get me wrong, he doesn't take it out on me or the kids or anything, he just isn't easy to talk to or deal with (like at dinner time and helping get the kids fed and off to bed) and then while he feels the need to cool off by sitting at the comp and having his space (understandable) I wind up being stuck to deal with dinner on my own and Bryson fussing and screaming because I have to put him in his playpen in order to get things done. I'm just absolutely ready to scream! ](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/eusa_wall.gif "Brick wall ](*,)")
Finding another job at this point is not an option nor possible as the job market is in the toilet and he's lucky to have the job and pay that he has as it is. ARGH!!!!!!!!! 
UGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!! 
What's even more shitty is that they kiss his co-worker's ass like he's mr special or something even though he is late frequently, leaves an hour earlier than my husband, AND takes his ONE HOUR LUNCH!!! I am SO fed up with this crap!!! 
I really don't know what to do anymore but I miss my happy cheerful hubby and I miss our happy chatting while making dinner time together that we usually have. 
