Long Irregular Cycles 'r' Us

[littlestar]

I Got my referral - my appointment is on the 4th March!
i can't believe it came through so quickly and so soon i was expecting at least 4-6 weeks away not <2weeks!

i'm CD53 today, i'm cramping been expecting on my doorstep for weeks but CM/CP keep trying to tell me otherwise!!! i hope this appointment gets me some answers even if they have to take my precious blood (i'm a rare blood type O-ve)

Witch not wanted till at least 5th March so if i do get clomid (GP said that would be next step) then i don't have to wait a whole other cycle to start it!

 

[BizyBee]

Happy Birthday Erised! I have already started my paperwork, I am waiting for AF to show before I can move on. My OH has to have an SA and I will have bloodwork to determine if I am ovulating. The next step will probably be Clomid. I've already had an HSG test and that was fine.

Wow Littlestar, that's great that it is moving quickly. I hope you can get Clomid before arrives. That would be perfect timing otherwise.

 

[Lucy Lu]

Hello ladies,

How is everyone?

So sorry I have not been on in a while - I haven't known how to say it, but I got a BFP!!!!!!!! I've been so uncertain about posting for 2 reasons - I didn't want to be insensitive when everyone is having such a load of grief from these irregular cycles!... and also I am still in total disbelief (but of course over the moon) and have felt like I might jinx it if I write it down on here. Have no symptoms at all, except for slightly sore boobs a week ago and peeing ALL THE TIME! Absolutely no M/S at at all, but by my count I'm not even 5 weeks yet, so is very early days. I think it must have implanted really early cos I got the first bfp at 6pm on 10 DPO! - although it was really really faint.

I can't stop temping though!!! - every morning I say I won't and then whip it out in curiosity and fortunately it's stayed high. Also, I still have a few cheapie opks left so can't stop checking with them - luckily the line has been getting darker and darker on these - and now is so dark it's maroon coloured and appears in 2 seconds, so I'm feeling quite calm that things are ok at the moment, but it is just so bizarre as I don't feel pregnant at all!... so I guess I'm saying don't be on the lookout too much for symptoms cos you can still get a bfp without anything.

I hope I don't offend by posting it on here - fingers crossed this is the first of a long run of bfps for us all! God knows Team Serendipity truly deserve it! I'm sorry to hear you haven't got the bfp Bizy Bee and that I haven't been any support on here over the last few days. How are you doing at the moment? Have you thought of temping so you can confirm ov for sure next cycle? Sounds like things are moving on for you Littlestar - that is great you got the referral through so quickly. And happy Birthday Erised! Did you have a nice day? Crikey - sorry 20 questions - I have a week's worth of news to catch up on!

Wanted to thank everyone for so much support as well - when I've been feeling low and like it wouldn't ever happen, there was always a friendly word on here. Don't know what we would do without B&B! I hope I can be as much help to you guys as well. xx

 

[Erised]

Lucy ... that's fantastic news!! You silly woman, you're not insensitive at all, you deserve it just as much as the other ladies on this thread. I'm thrilled for you! Hope you will still stick around and check back in here once in a while though =) Congrats hon!!!

littlestar, you get to see the gynae exactly a week before me. And will probably go on Clomid about a week before me. Still, it seems that the 3 of us will be going on clomid pretty close to each other. Which would be brilliant, we'll all move over to the First Tri together in the next 2 months!

And thanks for the happy birthdays girls! =D
I had a fantastic day, spend the whole day together with DH ... we went to a garden centre and he bought me a new pot for my little bonsai tree. Had a couple of hours in a little zoo that goes with the garden centre for some reason. Had a lovely dinner and then went to see Bolt in the evening. So a long busy day, but absolutely brilliant =) ... DH got me a DS too, so I don't have to steal his anymore now. Unfortunately it has crashed 3 times already. It doesn't seem to like me much.

 

[BizyBee]

OMG Lucy!!!! Congratulations! It is absolutely not insensitive of you. I am so happy that one of our Serendipity members has caught that elusive Please continue to visit us. I hope we can join you in first tri really soon!

Erised, glad you had a great birthday!

 

[littlestar]

Wow! Lucy That's fantastic news! it's not insensitive at all in fact it's just the opposite! we need a boost to show us that even when our bodies defy us, we can still conquer all and get that !

Sticky coming your way - have a H&H 9!

Erised - glad you had a fab birthday, i've seen Bolt this week too thought i was a really sweet movie!

littlestar, you get to see the gynae exactly a week before me. And will probably go on Clomid about a week before me. Still, it seems that the 3 of us will be going on clomid pretty close to each other. Which would be brilliant, we'll all move over to the First Tri together in the next 2 months!

Fingers-X'd! i just hope the stays away now - though to be honest my body is way too confusing at the mo,(Warning TMI!) i have a High, Soft CP and really thick dry CM which is lumpy and sticky too i'm way too confused! and a really dull low cramping, constipated and so i need answers more than anything!

 

[3 girlies]

i havent been on here for a while, was due today (in an ideal 28 day cycle) she didnt show, no suprise there! got blood test on wednesday & then discuss the next step when we get the results. my doctor is really supportive, she advised against me using opks as i can have a surge & not actually ovulate. fingers crossed i will be on the right path to a future bfp soon. xx

 

[BizyBee]

Welcome back 2girlies. Hope this is your month! Good luck at your appointment. I think I am going to stop using OPK's too b/c they are not very reliable.

 

[BizyBee]

Lucy Lu- Last night I ran into the living room and told my OH that "Lucy got a !" and his response was, "Great! ...but who is Lucy and what is a BFP?"

 

[3 girlies]

Welcome back 2girlies. Hope this is your month! Good luck at your appointment. I think I am going to stop using OPK's too b/c they are not very reliable.

thankyou xxxxx

 

[Lucy Lu]

Thank you for all your congrats! It means so much. How funny about your DH, Bizy Bee - I am so used to the lingo on here now, I am convinced I am going to go to the doctor and start talking about bfps afs etc! - I keep forgetting it is not medical terminology.

I hope all the tests go well for you Littlestar and Bizy Bee. Fingers crossed af stays for a bit away Littlestar so you can start using the clomid sooner.

Of course I will keep stopping in here Erised - so want to hear all your news. Hope to have some more good news from Team Serendipity very shortly ) . I will save y'all a seat hehe.

xxx

 

[drakey]

hi ladies,

well cd11 now i think, no positive on opks yet, not even faint lines, but still realy early for me i think.... i just pray i ovulate this month! i want my body to be normal! lol
congrats on your Lucy Lu! spread the babydust our way! xxx

 

[quail]

well ladies did a hpt today and got a nice big fat evap though it did show within 3 mins but gonna try again tommorow as long as witch stays away.x

 

[BizyBee]

Drakey, hope you get a + soon!

Quail, I'm surprised an evap showed up within 3 mins. It sounds promising. Keep us posted!

 

[drakey]

opk'd today and got mega faint line and yesterday gt nothing. didnt get mega faint line this early in my lst cycle... hope my bodys getting back to normal lol

how are you BizyBee? xx

 

[BizyBee]

I'm hanging in there. I am still in limbo, as I have no sign of and still. I originally thought I O'ed in Jan, but now thinking it didn't happen then. I had more EWCM and cramps a few days ago. I am trying to have PMA though!

 

[quail]

hi ladies well i dont know whats going on i had some pale pink spotting this morning when i wiped and ewcm so dont know if im o, now does anyone know if you can get ewcm after o, or if its likley i have only just o, saved my fmu to do a hpt anyway and my dh tipped it away,men!.x

 

[BizyBee]

Hmm, not sure Quail. What day of your cycle are you on? If your cycles have been irregular, you could have just O'ed. It could be ovulation bleeding or implantation bleeding. It could also be the beginning of your period.

 

[drakey]

well cd13, no sign of ov yet. i feel like im wasting my time. feel like giving in but its only been a couple of months. just hope theres nothing wrong with me and that i ovulate! x

 

[littlestar]

well cd13, no sign of ov yet. i feel like im wasting my time. feel like giving in but its only been a couple of months. just hope theres nothing wrong with me and that i ovulate! x

Don't give up chick! the reward is so much more meaningful if the result took a bit more work to achieve! (that's my way of looking at it! PMA!!!)

I know it's frustrating, we're all in the same boat!

Hang it there!

(i really need to take my own advice sometimes - i'm sat here pulling my own hair out too )