Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[fairyy]

Praying for a BFP for you Laura.

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks fairy hun so are we lol we want this so bad! Got some pretty sore cramps ATM but they don't feel like AF pains FX'ed! Xx

 

[fairyy]

Hope tomorrow brings the good news. So this time u want a girl !

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks hunni yh we would love a daughter but will be happy with a healthy bean no matter what colour! We found out what sex Oscar was at our 20wk scan but will be staying team next time round xx

 

[fairyy]

This cycle I think I have a chance if I ovulated yesterday. Otherwise my chances are less if I am ovulating today. TWW begins tomorrow. Trying not to get my hopes up. But would be over the moon if I get a BFP.

 

[Laura2806]

Could you not pounce on him tonight hun? Cover your bases lol

I know what you mean, it's so hard not to keep thinking about it when it's all you want

My belly is huge the last couple days, bigger than normal anyways lol I look several months pregnant, like how I did with first trimester bloating with Oscar, feel just how I did pre BfP with him which is making it even harder for me! Xx

 

[RedButterfly]

I'm good thanks. Got the outline of my tattoo done today. Go back in 2 weeks to get the colour done. Tomorrow should hopefully be the end of AF with just spotting. Well it wants to be! I have to pounce on my hubby so bad, lol.

 

[fairyy]

Laura: Pouncing today..hmmm...not sure about it.

Red: lol Let AF be over then pounce.

I got those creamy sticky cm today. So ovulation has taken place for sure. I am getting those post ovulation sharp pain in boobs at times. BD tonight might cover the base if egg is still alive.

 

[Laura2806]

glas your ok red need tat pics once its done lol i get like that! hope she clears off for you!

fairy i hope you last night!!!

so i tested, BFN, wiped AF! at least we can get on with TTC now, typical though with it being first day back at work! just hope shes not mean to me!

 

[RedButterfly]

I can't help it. Before ovulation, my sex drive is ridiculously high and poor hubby can't keep up because of his job making him tired

Sorry AF got you. Will you be actively TTC?

 

[ica235]

Oh no Laura I was convinced this was it for you!! Hope you're ok sweetie,
Hopefully this cycle will be the one xxxxx

 

[fairyy]

Laura: Sorry that AF got u. This was a long cycle then. So what have u decided about TTC ? No more NTNP ?

We didn't BD yesterday. DH tried to pounce last night. But I was in deep sleep. I only realized later that he tried to My temp has gone up.

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks ladies! Baffled! Was just spotting first thing but not had spotting like it before, was pure blood rather than pink discharge! Not getting my hopes up though!

I'll be temping so we now if and when I am ov'ing, so I guess we will be actively TTC xxx

 

[ica235]

Laura, any update? Still spotting?
How exciting that you're officially ttc!

 

[fairyy]

Laura: So when TTC are you going to follow any certain plan, like every other day/every day or SMEP ???

How often and when you BD ladies when u got your BFP ??? This might help me when we decide to TTC. We might officially TTC from September if DH agrees. Hopefully he will. My heart is longing for those tiny toes.

 

[fairyy]

Here are my opks from cd12 to cd14. Didn't do any more test after that. Could u believe we didn't BD on that +opk day. I got that around 6pm on cd14. We BD on cd13 around 11pm. Didn't BD on cd14 & cd15 either.

 

[ica235]

Ooh you might've still caught it! Fingers crossed!!

When I got pregnant with Douglas we hadnt had sex for ages as i had an op, when i was allowed to have sex again we had sex two days in a row, I wasn't charting so no clue what cd I was on! But must've been around ovulation because boom, baby baking in the oven!

I want to bd every day on my fertile days this cycle seeing as it worked for us before, but (sorry tmi) my bits need a break afterwards where I've been stitched too tight as I tear each time so not sure if that's going to happen, so painful!! we will be doing every other day instead I guess! Hopefully that'll work for us, it's what everyone recommends so it must be pretty effective! The other half will probably feel better doing it that way anyway as he still isn't 100% on board for officially ttc!

What have you been doing? X

 

[Laura2806]

Thanks ladies, still AF free here! Also BFP free! Will test Thursday I think!

We both want our little bean so bad!

Fairy you're def in with a chance hun, don't forget these tests only pick up the surge not the actual release of the egg, temping is best for that! Plus surges don't last long so you could have caught yours near the end with that +!

I'd go with every other day to cover all bases, don't want to go at too much, gp get worn out and miss the crucial time!

Ica! Ouch! That doesn't sound good :-/ maybe try perinal gel and massage to stretch it a wee bit? I tore not long after having Oscar, condom stuck to me as we were going for it! Ouchies! Blood bath too! Xx

 

[Laura2806]

Mrsc BnB tells me you are here!! How are you hunni?? Xx

 

[RedButterfly]

With both of mine, we BD 3 days in a row. Day before, day of and day after ovulation.