Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

Mind if I join in ladies? I'm new to the forum... I've been hanging around a few places lately reading but I think this forum suits where we're at right now. We were NTNP last winter and became pregnant that way... unfortunately in ended in miscarriage in May. So it took some time to get over things. Now we're NTNP again and may start actively trying in the winter. I have baby fever big time!!
 
Welcome AuntieKate. Sorry about the miscarriage.
Personally I think NTNP is better than TTC as it takes the pressure off.
 
What do you ladies think need opinions

I had my eldest dd when I was 21 her dad left us xmas day when she was 4 months old. Had lots of hassle over the years with him my family arw always very supportive been there thru everything. Anyway had a relationship with what seemed like a very nice man about 3 years later was on bc cerezette.... didnt work and accidently conceived my youngest dd the day I told him I was pregnant he disappeared never heard from him again. So I decided to be single bring up my girls.... then last year by chance met the most wonderful man we now live together very very happy never thought id meet a good man after all the heart break. Weve decided to ntnp and ive been thinking if I get a bfp I am terrified of my family and their reactions. Even tho its what we want were very happy and settled. How would you guys feel? I understand my family are scared of history repeating but should I never let myself be truly happy because of the actions of cowardly men. Sorry for long post but been worrying myself x
 
Noodles, I think you need to be 100% sure your man is 100% okay with having a baby. But you do what you feel is best. It's your life dear.
 
And welcome auntiekate!
I got baby fever big time too, hun!
Where we you at in your current cycle? Do you chart or temp?
I'm NTNP, no charting. Just tracking cycle days, really.
 
Thanks ladies! I have been doing the bare minimum, just tracking my cycles. I have no idea when I ovulate. That's how I got pregnant last time. I think my body just knew and I was little frisky when I was supposed to be :haha:
I downloaded an app on my phone and may start tracking my temp. Just to see if could figure out when I ovulate. Right now though, we're doing the 'pull-out' method until after Christmas. But that method worked just fine last time! :winkwink:
 
:cry::cry::cry::cry:
The :witch: got me... It's not as heavy as I'm used to, but I guess at least I can move on to next cycle... Callin this CD1. For our first cycle officially NTNP. No pull out... I hope...
 
Sorry to hear Corny! :hugs: Hope this cycle brings you all that you hope for!
 
Oh sweetie. I am sorry that :witch: showed up.
But happy to know that no pull out from this cycle. :thumbup:
 
Hey Noodles keep the things transparent with your man. Make sure u both want same thing. If u both have same dreams and aspirations then go ahead and make that baby but be sure first that he is the one. Good luck dear.
 
Eat eat and eat chocolate but don't cry.
Yay for no pulling out this cycle. I got a feeling that if u don't pull out then u will get BFP very soon. Make him come inside every time.

TTC is stressful. I like to NTNP, just need to have more frequent sex. That's it. No more opk for me. I O'ed around CD20/21 this cycle. :huh:
 
Corny so sorry Hun, I sometimes get this spotting and a bit of AF then nothing for a day or so then she hits, hate it! I so hope you conceive quickly my dear xxx

Auntiekate welcome! My lb has an awesome auntie Kate ;) sorry to hear about your loss and well done with the break, can't have been easy hunni, hopefully pulling out will fail to work again :flower:

Noodles, it's gotta be up to you and OH, not everyone else, I know my parents will be worried we when conceive again, due to money etc. but it's our lives and we have to live them :)

I'm the same as red, waiting to ov, temping this cycle to see if and when I do ov. Get my PCOS test results a week weds, can't wait!! Hopefully we'll know what's going on then and get some insight :D until then BD every other day to cover our bases then once I get a good definite high temp rise we'll do for about 3-4days on the trot to make sure lol getting 4 new internal doors fitted tomorrow, sad but I can't wait :haha: off to bed now, gonna snuggle my poorly hubs! Xx
 
I think it's a hard one with the war of NTNP and TTC, when NTNP I found I would go crazy not knowing what was going on and still thinking about it all the time, but when we are TTC, I feel it's easier to talk about it with each other, chart more freely, be more positive that we're going in the right direction and be more excited about it.

It's a very personal choice for everyone :) x
 
Sleepy snuggles lol no :sex: poor hubs pounced last night but he's exhausted and got man flu today lol xx
 

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