Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[Laura2806]

He may have just caught it Hun, hubby's always catching mine, no discharge but I don't half feel it! Lol

Could just be a change in hormones too!

Fairy when will you test?

I tested again this morning, BFN @ 7dpo, I'll be testing everyday until AF hits and praying that day doesn't come for 36wks �� got a sponge cake cooling ready to make a simple Victoria sponge for hubby's belated birthday cake, been to the zoo today too, some of its enclosures need a good refurb but then others are fab! Hoping they're getting round to doing them all, it's not a cheap game though! Gonna get my lil lady out tonight and give her a good clean out, that's if she doesn't have a hissy fit run around her viv possed! She's a crested gecko btw, also have a bearded dragon here and Yemen chameleon at mums cx

 

[MrsCorny]

Starting to lose hope for this job opportunity for hubby....nothing in almost a week now. Man, we wanted this so bad.... :/
Nothing new as far as NTNP stuff goes. Just waiting to Ov.

Chart question: when I put in that I had watery cm the other day, the little box on the bottom was green, what does that mean?

 

[Laura2806]

Don't loose hope!! They could still be interviewing, someone off sick, not agreed one someone yet. Still time hunni xx

Watery cm is classed as fertile, green box means fertile cm and whenever you put in watery or EWCM you'll get a green box xx

 

[fairyy]

I am out. AF got me. CD1 here.
I don't know what to do this cycle...Shall we try the EOD like last month or totally NTNP and relax. Any suggestion ? I am worried now, it is taking forever... God only knows when we will get our first BFP !!!
Will go to the doctors if I don't fall pregnant by end of this year (will hit one year mark of trying then ).

 

[RedButterfly]

How long have you been trying Pal?

With E, it took us 8 months of trying before I fell pregnant. With C, it took us 9 months of trying. I did become pregnant after 8 months but had a chemical but conceived C the next month.

 

[MrsCorny]

I am out. AF got me. CD1 here.
I don't know what to do this cycle...Shall we try the EOD like last month or totally NTNP and relax. Any suggestion ? I am worried now, it is taking forever... God only knows when we will get our first BFP !!!
Will go to the doctors if I don't fall pregnant by end of this year (will hit one year mark of trying then ).

If u have tried everything else (naturally) then why not NTNP, ur mind could prob use a break anyway from the stress of TTC. And if you get to that one year mark, go see a doc like u said. You are doing nothing wrong, there is only a 25% chance of conceiving each cycle anyway, so please don't worry. It will work out hun. Wish I could make you feel better, CD1 always sucks, big time!

We are gonna just NTNP and if nothing by one year mark, I'll go to doctor to see if something is wrong or not.

 

[Laura2806]

Sorry she got you hun

Are you able to NTNP after TTC? I know I couldn't!

Really struggling myself atm, looks like I haven't ovd afterall. So torn! I want to take a break from bnb but don't want to miss out on all your bfps!

 

[RedButterfly]

We'll still be here when you get back.

 

[MrsCorny]

Sorry she got you hun

Are you able to NTNP after TTC? I know I couldn't!

Really struggling myself atm, looks like I haven't ovd afterall. So torn! I want to take a break from bnb but don't want to miss out on all your bfps!

Aww. Yeah, that's a good point. Like once you know about it all, can't just drop it. Honestly, we are NTNP, but I know I'm gonna Ov soon if I do Ov at all, so I'm trying to "nonchalantly" DTD EOD. Lol don't know if that still counts as NTNP!!!! Haha
And at this point, thinkin about baby stuff I'd less stressful than waiting for that job op to call hubby back... UGH!!! This is a distraction from that for me.
If you get your AF does that mean you ovulated at some point during the cycle? Or can you go thru a cycle (get your period) and not have ovulated???

And Laura, if u need to take a break, it's fine hun. Like Maria said, we will be here when u come back... and we will update at your request when u join us again! Hehe xoxo

 

[Laura2806]

thanks ladies, I feel quite sad at maybe taking a break, but if it helps!

Yh you can have a period without ovulating, anovulatory cycle its called hun. Pretty sure most of mine are this! Xx

 

[MrsCorny]

thanks ladies, I feel quite sad at maybe taking a break, but if it helps!

Yh you can have a period without ovulating, anovulatory cycle its called hun. Pretty sure most of mine are this! Xx

Oh wow. Good to know. I'm so afraid that's what I'm gonna find out by temping.
Do you think it's a problem I don't temp at the same exact time. Usually between 4:30-630, but it's always when I first wake up. Will FF be able to give me a coverline/ crosshairs if the time I enter varies??

 

[RedButterfly]

Do what I do. I end up temping at diff times as I wake when Lil Chunk wakes butI always enter the same time into FF.

 

[MrsCorny]

Do what I do. I end up temping at diff times as I wake when Lil Chunk wakes butI always enter the same time into FF.

Do you feel like the chart is still accurate then? Thanks for the tip btw.

 

[RedButterfly]

Yeah. It's always taken after more than 3 hours sleep. It won't vary that much. Plus, I know when I ovulate due to a lot of pain and FF always gets it right.

 

[Laura2806]

Either that or you can use an online calculator to work out roughly what it would be at say 6am each day.

Also you can set ff with a default time so you don't have to enter it each day

 

[fairyy]

Thanks ladies for the support.
We are NTNP since January. Last cycle was TTC. Temping is helping me in giving me actual date of ovulation and AF. I do start AF on the day which FF predicts. But don't understand why there is no pregnancy !!! Thinking of totally NTNP without any pressure. I won't be charting this cycle. After CD30 if no AF then will take a test. But sometimes my heart says to try EOD from CD10 to 20. What would I do ....

 

[Laura2806]

Tbh I think charting will help you but obvs its your choice EOD is def best in my eyes, again personal choice! Don't forget its a slim chance of conceiving each cycle. All you can do is have regular intercourse at the end of the day. Try not to stress too much, and that's in term so of TTC and life in general. It literally is a waiting game. The hardest most painful one ever!

Me personally, I'll be taking a break from bnb as its not helping me stay relaxed, ill still be charting and dtd EOD just hopefully it'll be more relaxed!

If any of you wish to add me on fb feel free pm me if you want the link to my profile! Also I'll be popping by every now and then for an update good luck and lots of sticky baby to my ladies xxx

 

[fairyy]

I am thinking of same Laura. Might not come on bnb often. But not sure I am now a bnb addict.
Temping is stressing me. I cried a lot yesterday. Discussed with DH to do it EOD from CD10 to CD20. We are thinking of visiting home country India in December 2014, so I want my baby to be at least 4months by then. For that its better if we conceive by this year end. But this 2013 is not going well. Btw I would love to add u on FB. If anyone else wants to be FB friends then give your profile name.

 

[RedButterfly]

Are we all on FB?

 

[fairyy]

I am on FB. I know Laura and Lindsay are also on FB. Are u on FB too ? We can FB friends. Give a link to your profile.