Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[RedButterfly]

Not long to go!

 

[Laura2806]

Not long at all! 6wks Wednesday! Just hope I get my BFP before then! Xx

 

[MrsCorny]

Aww so excited for u Laura!! I hope u get ur BFP too! I can't imagine TTC and planning a wedding at the same time! God bless u! I had a very simple wedding and it was stressful enough to plan! What are your wedding colors and flowers??

 

[RedButterfly]

My wedding day, well let's just say, neither of us enjoyed it. Everything that could go wrong, went wrong!

Starting the countdown MrsCorny!

 

[Laura2806]

hehe thanks not to mention getting ready to go back to work and trying to get my soap business on track lol all good fun but yh lots of stress! lol

colours are black and white and im having sunflowers, yellow germini and white roses

Oh no red dare i ask what happened?

and yep! 2dpo mrsc!

xxx

 

[MrsCorny]

Yeah, we had a few things not wonderful happen on our wedding day. But all in all, I'm just happy I got to marry the man of my dreams and had the people we love celebrate with us- even if the food sucked! (FYI- make sure u taste test the food of whatever caterer u r using. We didn't lol) and I beg of you, check out ur photographer first, don't go on just word of mouth from ur mom- he was awful and unprofessional and my husbands grandfather took better photos than what we paid for! Don't cheap out on a photographer if pictures and poses and such are important to you. My only real regret was that.

EDIT: Laura: i love black and white- so classy! Our colors were black and white with pops of lavender. Had like a Frank Sinatra era theme. Hubby wore a silver suit with fedora hat, we had all old music, Frank Sinatra and such obviously. We had music from 40s-80s. Everyone loved the music. That was my fave part of the reception!
What music will u have??

And redbutterfly, yes ma'am! The countdown begins! Is it too early to be symptom spotting??? Lol mild headaches the past 2 days, and stupid tired. But... Could be the heat here, and probably is. Thinking u want get symptoms until implantation anyway, right?
So if I Ov'ed when I think I felt it happen, I'd be 4 dpo. But im just gonna go with my silly ticker countdown I suppose and wait til the 30th to test. I'll be at least one day late then, if the witch don't show up that is.
When will u be testing? (Sorry if u already posted- I just don't feel like searching thru to find it lol)

 

[RedButterfly]

Wedding planner never turned up so the person who took over had no idea what was meant to happen. But bless him, he tried his hardest. Everyone sat on the wrong side in the ceremony. Chef gave my SIL something she is allergic to but luckily she noticed before she ate it. DJ was crap, lost our songs but found them half hour before the end. Hubby wasn't happy seeing as the DJ was his friend. My stepbrothers thought it be a good idea to have a fight and in the process split beer all over our wedding presents. In the end, we told the DJ to pack up and go home, told people to leave and we went to our room. Oh and I disliked my dress after MIL turned it from a zipped back to a corset back. Wasn't done right.

Lovely colours Laura! Are we in the DPO yet?

 

[noodles13]

hey ladies.......... so quick question someone may know the answer to....

just did an ovulation test dip strip thingmy

and there is a faint line on there does that mean.... I am actually ovulating or about to or..... have already???

remember my depo jab ran out on the 24th may

still having the very very light spotting 5 days now

and preg tests still negative

 

[RedButterfly]

The test line on an ovulation strip needs to be the same colour or darker than the control line to be a positive.

MrsCorny, I'm still waiting to ovulate which going by the tests should either be tomorrow (my birthday! ) or the day after.

 

[noodles13]

yeah but what I mean is....... would it even have a faint line on it if I wasn't fertile after stopping the depo 3 weeks ago

im confused

would if just have no line?
I am waiting to ovulate after the depo do u think its already happened or it will happen coz of the faint line god I hate all this confusing stuff

 

[RedButterfly]

You always have the LH in your system. How faint is faint? Your body could be gearing up to ovulate. If you have anymore strips, keep testing. If it's getting darker, start BDing!

 

[fairyy]

Good Morning ladies. So who is on TWW ?

 

[fairyy]

Hey noodles!

Copper coil - hmmm, personally a no, I don't like the thought of having anything like that in my body, same with the implant, doesn't seem normal to me! And also I wouldn't go back on any pills as like mrs corny said they really mess your body up.

Condoms - no fun in my eyes! You have to stop to put them on and take half the fun away, plus you can't just snuggle and go to sleep after unless you wanna wake with it stuck to your leg!

Pull out method along with charting might be better, like mrs corny said you will find out your fertile times and pull out during, just before and just after, or pull out altogether.

After having Oscar we used condoms for a few weeks, the second time we had sex, 4wks PP, the condom caught where I had been cut and torn (no stitches) and although I was healed it pulled it back open and bled like a bitch! Not to mention it bloody hurt!

We used them for a bit after but decided to not bother and use pull out method, then we got bored and *TMI Alert* I need him to finish in me it's one of my fave bits! Lol we decided to be careful to start with then spoke about why Simon wanted to wait a while for our second, turns out it was only because he was worried I would be upset if we conceived and my wedding dress was no longer suitable, he has no idea what it's like, I reassure him being pregnant wouldn't affect my dress, he then said how much he really wants to have another baby and would love a princess, thus we started NTNP but are now pretty much TTC stress free!

Natural birth control is best IMO, plus you don't know how long it will take you to conceive number 2/3/4 etc, can take years! Xxx

We got married in Feb 2010. For three years we were using condoms and pull out method to prevent pregnancy. Now after three years we are ready to be parents and going with ntnp. Is it a bad idea to do ntnp after 3years of marriage and trying for baby #1, when I am 29 years old !!! U know after 3 years the frequency of BD decreases. Shall we jump to TTC ??? Any suggestion ladies ?

 

[noodles13]

I will take the other 4 tests for the rest of the week see what happens with them

I was just confused coz if this little pointless bleed im having I thought I would try the opks see if they come up with anything all I really want is to go back to normal after the evil depo lol

 

[MrsCorny]

Hey again fairyy! Im in TWW ! Idk whether to be excited or not! Lol I'm excited cuz I'm closer to finding out, but already driving myself crazy... Obviously no real symptoms yet, only thing different is mild headaches the past 3 days which I'm blaming on the heat in my area anyway- earliest i could have O'ed is Thursday so I'm 2-4 dpo. So way too early yet. But tbh I'm already looking up early symptoms again.
If I were in ur situation, which is kinda close, except I'm only 24 and married 2 years. But if u guys are really ready, why not TTC but just try not to stress about it cuz that stats could lower your chances. at age 29 u have a lot of time still! So NTNP is good too. I hear the best way to go is BD every other day. Sperm can live 2-3 days anyway, so even if u miss O on the day, it's prob no big deal. But then again, I have never been TTC or NTNP.
...Apparently we are back to pulling out during fertile time... Ugh! but says he would be happy if I do fall pregnant. can u say yo-yo????

 

[fairyy]

Hey again fairyy! Im in TWW ! Idk whether to be excited or not! Lol I'm excited cuz I'm closer to finding out, but already driving myself crazy... Obviously no real symptoms yet, only thing different is mild headaches the past 3 days which I'm blaming on the heat in my area anyway- earliest i could have O'ed is Thursday so I'm 2-4 dpo. So way too early yet. But tbh I'm already looking up early symptoms again.
If I were in ur situation, which is kinda close, except I'm only 24 and married 2 years. But if u guys are really ready, why not TTC but just try not to stress about it cuz that stats could lower your chances. at age 29 u have a lot of time still! So NTNP is good too. I hear the best way to go is BD every other day. Sperm can live 2-3 days anyway, so even if u miss O on the day, it's prob no big deal. But then again, I have never been TTC or NTNP.
...Apparently we are back to pulling out during fertile time... Ugh! but says he would be happy if I do fall pregnant. can u say yo-yo????

Hmmm. By this weekend I will get to know. But I think PMS started from yesterday. Becoming anxious day by day as I am getting closer to my AF date. Don't wanna see AF.

 

[MrsCorny]

So when are u testing and how many dpo are u, fairyy? You feeling anything or making things up in ur head yet?? lol I hope u get a BFP. lets get one in this thread!!

 

[fairyy]

So when are u testing and how many dpo are u, fairyy? You feeling anything or making things up in ur head yet?? lol I hope u get a BFP. lets get one in this thread!!

I think may be 9dpo if I ovulated on CD-15. We DTD on CD-8 and then CD-14. Not a lot of BD though. I am cramping from day before yesterday.

 

[MrsCorny]

CD 14 could def have done it! U have a fair shot! Oh I hope u get BFP! Only a few days left to testing for you!!
Pretty sure we DTD 2 days before and day of Ov. Then he decided to pull out the following days.

 

[fairyy]

CD 14 could def have done it! U have a fair shot! Oh I hope u get BFP! Only a few days left to testing for you!!
Pretty sure we DTD 2 days before and day of Ov. Then he decided to pull out the following days.

At which calender day he came inside u ? Withdrawal method also can make u get pregnant. That happened with my SIL.