stardust599
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Hi guys
I hope no-one minds me posting in here!
A friend of mine looks after an autistic young girl (she's 11). We went a big walk today and I enjoyed helping out and seeing this little girl's face light up at everything - my dog, my LO, the water at the park, the seesaw. I also saw the other side of it where my friend had to deal with a full on tantrum in the middle of the park and manhandle (sorry I really couldn't think of a better word) an 11 year old into her wheelchair. I saw the attitude of other people and I really wanted to make a difference.
Anyway, I came home and was having a peek on Facebook and came across someone on a group site asking if anyone was interested in looking after her autistic son.
I think it could be a big challenge but I think I could love it and maybe be the right person for this little boy?
I don't know what age this little boy is and how severe his autism is but I wanted to know what people thought of this when I already have a baby to look after, would it be too much? Would it not be fair on Macy or the little boy?
I don't know anything about special needs children either but if I was to offer to help I'd get some books, do some reading and speak to other Mums first.
What do you think, can I do it? I have a lot of patience and understanding and I can be quite firm but fair too - my 4 year old nephew has some behavioral issues and I like to think of myself as quite good with him, although it's just simple things we can usually get through the toyshop without a major tantrum as long as I'm patient but firm with him. Usually with his Mum he'll throw a major tantrum and come out with a £50 toy lol.
What do you think? Would you like someone like me looking after your child - no experience but willing to put 100% into it?
Thanks for any opinions xx
I hope no-one minds me posting in here!
A friend of mine looks after an autistic young girl (she's 11). We went a big walk today and I enjoyed helping out and seeing this little girl's face light up at everything - my dog, my LO, the water at the park, the seesaw. I also saw the other side of it where my friend had to deal with a full on tantrum in the middle of the park and manhandle (sorry I really couldn't think of a better word) an 11 year old into her wheelchair. I saw the attitude of other people and I really wanted to make a difference.
Anyway, I came home and was having a peek on Facebook and came across someone on a group site asking if anyone was interested in looking after her autistic son.
I think it could be a big challenge but I think I could love it and maybe be the right person for this little boy?
I don't know what age this little boy is and how severe his autism is but I wanted to know what people thought of this when I already have a baby to look after, would it be too much? Would it not be fair on Macy or the little boy?
I don't know anything about special needs children either but if I was to offer to help I'd get some books, do some reading and speak to other Mums first.
What do you think, can I do it? I have a lot of patience and understanding and I can be quite firm but fair too - my 4 year old nephew has some behavioral issues and I like to think of myself as quite good with him, although it's just simple things we can usually get through the toyshop without a major tantrum as long as I'm patient but firm with him. Usually with his Mum he'll throw a major tantrum and come out with a £50 toy lol.
What do you think? Would you like someone like me looking after your child - no experience but willing to put 100% into it?
Thanks for any opinions xx