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[kmpreston]

Aayla- that's so exciting! So glad you hubs is on board.
You can loose the weight!

Km- how long is the ivf waiting list?

Not sure, about 6 months I think

 

[mrs.green2015]

Wow I haven't heard of a waiting list. I wonder if there's one here.

 

[Aayla]

a wait list? that sucks. Is it possible to be put on the wait list while you get to your goal bmi? How far do you have to go?

 

[kmpreston]

a wait list? that sucks. Is it possible to be put on the wait list while you get to your goal bmi? How far do you have to go?

Yeh I think so, not certain tho

I think it's currently 31 so about 20lb

There's waitin lists for everything in the uk, even seeing a specialist had a six week wait. Wisdom tooth extraction was 6 months. Ultrasound on my dodgy kidney with the stones was 4 weeks but it had resolved after 2 weeks

 

[Aayla]

oh wow. At least you don't have too much to lose. although any amount can be hard.

 

[kmpreston]

oh wow. At least you don't have too much to lose. although any amount can be hard.

Ye not too much I just can't make myself even try at the moment :/

 

[mrs.green2015]

Km- you'll loose it when you're ready. Don't stress about it if you're not! And that's crazy about the waiting list I had no idea.

 

[Aayla]

I've been there KM. for the last few months. It is so hard to get the mojo. You'll get there though.

 

[Aayla]

ugh. another cousin having a baby. this will be #7 for their family. (3 for one cousin, 3 for another, and now 1 for sibling #3).

it's getting to be too much. it's getting so hard to see all of the pregnancies.

 

[kmpreston]

ugh. another cousin having a baby. this will be #7 for their family. (3 for one cousin, 3 for another, and now 1 for sibling #3).

it's getting to be too much. it's getting so hard to see all of the pregnancies.

Yep I'm definitely feeling the same about pregnancies


I'm also getting to the stage where I want to lose weight. Just. Got a gorgeous dress today that's a bit tight on the chest (my boobs are huge st the moment....wel they always are but really huge this month) so I quite want to slim into that. Plus you know, all other nice holiday dresses!

 

[mrs.green2015]

Km- dresses a huge motivator for me. Haha especially in 2 months we have a wedding to go to. DHs good friend, who happens to be the brother of his ex! Ugh!! I really wanted to be pregnant but I guess that won't happen.

 

[kmpreston]

Km- dresses a huge motivator for me. Haha especially in 2 months we have a wedding to go to. DHs good friend, who happens to be the brother of his ex! Ugh!! I really wanted to be pregnant but I guess that won't happen.

There have been so many things I "want to be pregnant for" that haven't come about that I'm trying to force myself not to think like that now cause it's killing me

 

[mrs.green2015]

That's where I'm at now. This month would be so perfect that if it doesn't happen I'll be devastated.

 

[kmpreston]

That's where I'm at now. This month would be so perfect that if it doesn't happen I'll be devastated.

I say I'm not trying to plan to be pregnant BUT I will still be devastated this month if I'm not. I'm very close to the end of my tether with it

 

[mrs.green2015]

I couldn't even imagine trying for that long. You're in my thoughts.

 

[kmpreston]

I couldn't even imagine trying for that long. You're in my thoughts.

12 months is longer than anyone should have to wait so you are in my thoughts too

 

[mrs.green2015]

Thanks Hun!

 

[Aayla]

I really wanted a christmas baby. The cycle that I was supposed to be on right now was my last chance. My IUI would be anywhere from the end of January to the beginning of March (it depends on what date you use in the predictor, lmp or ovulation). It was so tempting to go against doctor orders. Especially since I have the letrozole already.

Oh well. It will be when it will be.

 

[kmpreston]

I really wanted a christmas baby. The cycle that I was supposed to be on right now was my last chance. My IUI would be anywhere from the end of January to the beginning of March (it depends on what date you use in the predictor, lmp or ovulation). It was so tempting to go against doctor orders. Especially since I have the letrozole already.

Oh well. It will be when it will be.

I definitely would do

 

[kmpreston]

I'm ovulating fingers crossed this month will work

My friend finished her second round of IVF yesterday and had her embryos put in at day 2. So she's essentially 3 days ahead of me. I'd love it if we were both pregnant together after all this time - we miscarried at the same time