Where is everyone? it's so quiet round here lately... Guess no news is good news though right?
Nothing really new going on here... trying really hard not to buy every baby item in sight lol. It's even harder now that i belong to a few groups on Facebook that are full of moms wanting to get rid of baby items at really cheap prices.
DH is working a TON right now. His job has him on 12hr days 7 days a week :-/ Makes for some lonely time by myself... and I'm not that motivated to do much around the house. Sometimes I will get an urge to clean... but it's short lived lol.
I offended my best friend a few days ago... That's been fun to deal with now.
Back story is~ she has carpel tunnel syndrome and has had it for years now. Certian things aggrivate it like working to much on the keyboard, or with her hands in general. She's taken on the roll of throwing me my shower, and just recently made up all the shower invitations. While doing so~ she posted on FB how much her hands were hurting while doing them.
So we went to get pedicures and she handed me the invite- a cardboard brown invite with a cute polka dotted onsie on the front. The inside was stamped with the information hand written in with a note to in leiu of bringing a card- instead bring your favorite childrens book inscribed with your name in it.
Very cute- plain, and gender neutral. after looking at it I asked her if she had hand stamped it.. She said yes, I asked about the onsie- she said she had hand cut them out of different papers and attached them to the card. at this point i said "why do you do this to yourself!?"
Wrong thing to say aparently... I didn't mean anything bad by it- more that why does she over do something that could have easily been purchased in a 24 pak at walmart? Especially since she has CTS. Now mind you she hand quilts, and is a very crafty person period, so for me to say that was well insulting I guess...
In any instance- she expressed her feelings, and I told her I was sorry.. But i'm not sure if we are OK just yet... we had a bonfire last night at their house, and she seemed ok, but I just can't tell if something is lurking under the surface....
Oy, women... I just don't get it sometimes...
PS i've never been a girlfriend girl. always been "one of the guys" . relationships with women are too complicated! lol!
So how are you lovely ladies doing now? anyone having braxton hicks yet? I've been having a few..
One night in class I felt my tummy and it was hard in one spot. I chalked it up to baby's butt being there, but then a min or so later I felt it again and the whole right side was hard! Definitly a BH contraction. And TMI~ but the last time I had a big O, along came a BH right after! SO WEIRD to feel and know that's what it was! I felt it start from the bottom and work its way all the way up my abdomen till my belly was rock hard! and it seemed like it lasted for a loooong time! (probablly not more than a minute tho in reality.)
Our bodies are so cool!
The rooms are big, and the tubs are inviting... The staff is happy and outgoing.. There was a woman laboring when we were there, and we didn't hear or see her. The centers birth place is just uh-maz-ing and then the womens health side is just as great. Very spacious and just great!
but its for the greater good right?
lol!
the hematoma i had on my placenta which made me almost loose her twice is still a big mass and has not gotten any smaller
