Looking for cycle buddies - cd4 today (19th may)

[hanrh]

Aw swimmy I'm sorry!! Make sure you treat yourself! This Ttc can be so stressful!!

Wow hopeful I'm so pleased for you!!! What is the lovenox for?

 

[hopeful0404]

thank you..the lovenox is a blood thinner.

 

[swimmyj1]

My DH and I took my teenage cousin to the beach and a double drive in movie. Doing a date night again tonight so for sure am giving myself special treatment. Today we did the SA I can't wait to get the results back from that.

 

[hanrh]

Wow swimmy that sounds so fun!!! What movie will you watch? When do u get your results back?

My hubby did his race today (it's a half ironman - not sure if you have heard of it? - pretty crazy!) so we have been camping for the night! Had been nice to get away from daily routine to take my mind off things!

 

[hanrh]

In other news... I got my peak fertile day on my monitor today!!! Yay, finally!!!!!

 

[swimmyj1]

We saw Jurassic world it wasn't bad. I'm hoping to hear back with the results tomorrow or Tuesday but I'm not sure. I'll probably be calling their office tuesday night if I haven't heard back yet lol. Yay for getting the peak!!! what monitor are you using? I looked up the race that looks really intense lol very impressive!

We went fishing and swimming yesterday it was so much fun just trying to not stress so much this month.

 

[hanrh]

Oh yes I have heard that film is good! I really want to see San Andréas but hubby isn't really a movie fan so isn't keen. Keep us updated with your results - my hubby had his tested and they said morphology was low however we haven't struggled to get pregnant! So not sure what it all means?!
I use the clear blue monitor. It's really good and helps me relax a bit in knowing exactly when I ovulate! Sounds like you had a fun day!! Relaxing is defo hard at a time like this so anything that can take your mind of the stresses of it all is great!! Well, better get ready for work!

 

[Ana1984]

hi gals
i am 7DPO my symptoms are
-lower abdomen sweet pain after 4dpo
-no CM
- tip of pencil size light red spot in tissue (sorry for description )
- sever pain in legs and hand @ night

dont have symptoms like
-nausea
- tender BB

i am waiting for BFP
this is my 1st baby trying since 4yrs

God bless us all
Baby Dust !

 

[Ana1984]

all D best Dear

 

[swimmyj1]

Ana1984 welcome! those sound like some good signs. Could be an implantation spot! Have you been trying for 4 years?

hanrh - I think if in the next few cycles we don't have luck I'm going to get that one. Right now I've just been using wondfo's and the Clear Blue advanced. One more night of working then 2 off yay!

 

[Ana1984]

Ana1984 welcome! those sound like some good signs. Could be an implantation spot! Have you been trying for 4 years?

hanrh - I think if in the next few cycles we don't have luck I'm going to get that one. Right now I've just been using wondfo's and the Clear Blue advanced. One more night of working then 2 off yay!

Thanks Swimmyj

yes it is been 4 yrs

 

[hanrh]

Hi ana. Nice to meet you! Symptoms definitely sound good - however everyone is so different it's always hard to tell! Do you plan on testing early?

Yes the clear blue monitor is great. What's the advanced one?

I think I may have ovulated yesterday as my temp has stated increasing and got my peak again today. Pineapple is at the ready for when I hopefully get more of a temp rise tomorrow!!!

 

[swimmyj1]

Ana1984 - I'm sorry 4 years is a long struggle. I just passed 2 years of being off BC and that's been driving me crazy.

hanrh - the advanced one gives you low, high and peak days but it's one I could buy in a store so I went with it. I couldn't find the actual box monitor. Hope this TTW will end in a BFP!!

But bad news my husbands SA results came back and he came back with low count, bad morphology, and slow swimmers got a referral finally and I'm still going to do the 21 day labs but I'm just so down about it. And he is really upset. Said no way we were using a donor and if I wanted a kid I should just leave him and be with someone else. I know hes just upset and will calm down but it was really hurtful that he said that.

 

[hanrh]

So sorry about your results! That is very hurtful however I'm sure there are plenty of options befor you have to go down the donor route. I'm sure you have googled them!! How long until you might see a specialist?
Your monitor sounds very sinmilar to mine!

I've been so stressed today and I think that it might be down to thinking about the possibility of another pregnancy/loss. We all need some good luck throwing our way right now!!

 

[swimmyj1]

I think we are just going to keep trying the fertilaid pills for a little while for him then make an appointment in a few months with the specialist they are so expensive and insurance doesn't cover anything He needs to stop drinking and cut his caffeine way back but i don't see him doing that. So i don't really want to poor a ton of money into it unless he's more committed.

I'm so sorry for your losses it's so hard and then of course you get concerned when you do get pregnant that you might have another loss Have you ever had any testing done that has given you any answers? Hang in there girly you will get some good news soon!

 

[hanrh]

I hear you, it's so hard when we try so much to be healthy and it falls on deaf ears when trying to persuade dh to do the same! Feel like you are nagging all the time!! Fertilaid is definitely a good idea. Have you been taking it for long?

I do know the cause of my losses as have seen a specialist however he says they are completely unrelated and I have been dealt a very bad hand. My loss at 13 weeks was t13 which is chromosomal and then my loss at 12 weeks was a partial molar. My two early losses in not sure but here they don't test on anything earlier than 6 weeks!!! Need to just keep staying positive! The specialist told us we will have a baby - he said he has are so many couples who he knows will not be able to and we aren't one of them, that keeps me going!!

 

[swimmyj1]

He's been on it for about a month. I haven't used it due to so many women who have regular cycles have said it messes them up so i'm just doing the vitamins. They say that it takes 3 months for it to show effect so fingers crossed.

It's so great that you can hold onto the hope your doctor gave you. He's right you will be one of the couples that will have a baby

 

[hopeful0404]

just wanted to stop in and see how everyone was doing?

 

[hanrh]

Hopeful / hi!!! How are you doing???

I'm okay over here. Finally ovulated so waiting for af to arrive or not in a few days!!! Planning to test at the weekend if there is no sign. Scary/exiting times!!!

 

[hopeful0404]

ahh so exciting! i will def keep you in my thoughts and prayers!