Looking for TTC buddies after MC

[mrsmummy2]

Good luck w8ting

Peanut- hope the tissue all passes soon

Went to see my gp today and she panicked about the pain i had on my left side and sent me straight back to the epu with suspected ectopic.... thankfully my levels have dropped from 470 (saturday) to 45 today, so they arent concerned about ectopic at all and suspect the egg just implanted well over to the left of my uterus. DH has given me the go ahead he is happy to try again so I'm feeling optimistic about the future now I'm not going to rush anything, and i think we will still wait until i get my first AF but starting temping tomorrow to keep track and try to pin point if/when i ovulate between now and AF. Never really understood all the tracking malarky.. glad Ive got this site to check back on
Also downloaded fertilty friend and plan on buying OPKs.

 

[Poppiebug]

I hope everything goes as well as can be expected now for you ladies. So hard to go through it all.

5dpo here, trying not to symptom spot, but of course any niggle, twinge or anything I'm thinking about it!

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Good luck mrs

 

[W8tingforbaby]

So idk when I should test this cycle, my ob says I’m in my fertil window right now but I have not had AF since I just had my miscarriage a little over a week ago

 

[Poppiebug]

So idk when I should test this cycle, my ob says I’m in my fertil window right now but I have not had AF since I just had my miscarriage a little over a week ago

So sorry for your loss.
It took about 3 weeks for me to ovulate after my MMC (d&c) and I got my first AF 2 weeks after that.

 

[ANL25]

So sorry for all that you’re going through ladies. I hope things start to look up and that you get your bfp soon! I know how tough it can be. I’m thinking of you all!!!

Babybrain- so sweet of you to ask! I’m so anxious to find out! Today(after midnight) I’m 8DPO. Not really having symptoms. On 4dpo I did have cramping on my left side. Only that day. 5DPO I had extreme gas pains and bloating. It was actually pretty bad and just opted to not take any gas x just in case. I’m waiting on my vivid dream! Lol that’s isually how I know! call me crazy ��

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Hey when u know u know lol. Good luck with testing

 

[ANL25]

Hey when u know u know lol. Good luck with testing

Haha exactly! Thank you!!

 

[Poppiebug]

Omg I've been having crazy dreams the last two nights! I don't know of that's because I'm subconsciously thinking about stuff or it could really be a symptom.

 

[BabyBrain80]

My dreams are weird too! Still having crampy feelings.

I feel really bad this morning. Had an issue with ds1 over taking toys to school, he was ok to take a lego batman keyring torch thing on his bag but today he'd attached 4 things, so I removed them and said he was only allowed 1! So I came back 5 mins later and found 2 attached. I took it off. He moaned and moaned and moaned (he's persistent about everything). I stood my ground, but he kept pushing so I then snapped. I took them ALL away. OMG, we were going to be late and he just kept going on and crying and saying it would make him happy...... I'm struggling to get 3 of us and a dog sorted and out the door. I had to stick to my guns, he was not taking anything to school, he shouldn't take anything anyway. I did shout loudly, told him NO! And I wasn't discussing it anymore. He tries to wear you down....he is 6 years old for goodness sake! Yesterday we had drama and tears over him having to wear a hoodie and he didn't want to wear that one.

So the outcome is he went off into school upset, I went to nursery with ds2 and .i was upset. And now I feel like the worst mum in the world, got a horrible knot in my stomach. Bet he went in and told his teachers all about how mummy upset him or something. Looks like he missed the terrible 2's and at almost 7 he acts like a moody teenager. *sigh* honestly I could cry I feel so bad.

 

[mrsmummy2]

Right there with you babybrain. DS is always taking toys to school then crying because i took them off him. Makes me feel awful then as its either cant get him out of the house or cant get hin into nursery

 

[W8tingforbaby]

My daughter is 11 and still sneaks stuff off to school

 

[BabyBrain80]

Thanks ladies for letting me vent, I'm just really upset with the way we left things but he probably went in and hasn't thought about it since, while I'm sat here kicking myself for losing my cool!!! I think he's struggling a bit to understand and deal with his emotions (aren't we all! Lol)

In other news...I POAS this morning just one of those crazy moments you know?! Anyhoo bfn ......obviously.....but happy to see a nice clear bfn after everything. Still going to assume I ovulated and test again on a more sensible dpo!!! (today is probably 7dpo).

 

[BabyBrain80]

Ok so I collected C from school and guess what?! He'd forgotten all about it

 

[ANL25]

Ok so I collected C from school and guess what?! He'd forgotten all about it

That’s great news- but either way you’re doing great. Our emotions try to get the best of us at times!

 

[mrsmummy2]

Always the way my son was the same this morning and when he got home there was no mention of it

 

[mrsmummy2]

With regards to hcg dropping (via blood tests) how quickly is it likely to be back to normal? Not sure if i already said this but mine were 470 on the 17th and just 45 on the 20th.. is there a way of finding out at home? I assume getting a negative on a pregnancy test is the most obvious way... clearly i can't actually get pregnant until all the hcg has left my body so dont really want to get my hopes up trying for it to not even be possible.

 

[W8tingforbaby]

I still have some lingering hcg in my body and she gave me the ok to try again right away I just have to go for blood work tomorrow morning to see where it’s at and again next week if it’s still shows

 

[Poppiebug]

Mrsmummy2 - I dont think there is a way at home other than hpts frer I guess the most sensitive to see how your level is going. I found it so hard seeing the line when you don't actually want it to be there. I hope it goes away quickly for you. xx

As for me - HANGING to test, only 7dpo at the moment. I really should wait a few more days. Sigh...

How is everyone else?

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Hey poppie I know that urge to test can be strong when your ttc. Hope we all get our bfp’s soon but for now I love the support here!