Looking for TTC buddies after MC

[W8tingforbaby]

Think this cycle is a bust for me, I think af is coming since I have had some spotting for a few days now but at least it will help me figure out my cycle now. Hope you ladies are doing well

 

[mrsmummy2]

Good luck poppie
Sorry w8ting

 

[ANL25]

W8ing- I’m sure I’m out too! Should be getting AF tomorrow maybe next month!

Poppie- FX- let us know how today la test went! hope it’s a bfp for you!

 

[BabyBrain80]

I'm really sorry w8ting x

Poppie, good luck with your next test!

Nothing really to report here, 12dpo and I would have hoped for something stronger but have had a few shadows on ic's....that I don't trust anymore. starting to think I'm out but still a chance.

I'm really over all of this now. 14 months of OPK's, testing, squinting, worrying, scans, elation and depression, 2 miscarriages within 6 months, retained tissue, slow falling hcg....testing, testing, testing. I think I'm done. I will be missing 3 cycles at least and may call it a day after that anyway. I have 2 beautiful boys, I'm very lucky, but I'm going to miss #3 x

 

[mrsmummy2]

So sorry you're feeling this way babybrain
It's definitely a hard old road... very stressful/upsetting/exciting/disappointing...

I hope your sticky bfp is right around the corner for you

 

[flou]

I think AF will arrive on time tomorrow as well. Oh well on to another cycle.

Good luck poppie!

Sorry babybrain that you have got to the point of thinking of stopping. Its such a rollercoaster ttc and then on top of that dealing with losses of babies.

 

[Poppiebug]

BabyBrain I can totally understand how you are feeling, just the last few days is doing my head in checking for any signs, symptoms, lines, everything. Do look after yourself xx


As for me - nothing conclusive again on the test today, I'm not sure if I'm seeing things and DH is no help trying to see if that line is there or not. I don't want to say I'm out, but probably am. I had a small amount of brown tinge cm so could either be IB or probably AF. FF suggests AF is due today but it's given me a short luteal phase based on last month which was out of whack anyway because it was the first cycle after the d&c and I haven't been charting with that app for long anyway. My temp was down a bit but not below the coverline and I had similar dips in previous cycles. I guess time will tell.

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Hey ladies, sorry I haven't posted in a while. It's been. So busy at work and home just feeling to tired to look at my phone at the end of the day! I had my follow up appt today and everything has come out and my uterus looks squeaky clean yay. My hg was 25 on the Thursday so I'm guessing it's left my system. I got a bfn on a home ic and a blazing positive on the opk so we are going to try again straight away. The dr told me not to worry if I'm preg again as everything looks ready and fine. I'm glad i got the green light. I'm going to test up until next week then I go on holiday for 10 days with the family so I'm hoping to o before then.. bd with family and kids around is impossible!! At least then I will not worry about testing for pregnancy until im back.. hopefully be the right time after tww as well.

I'm praying for us all ladies... it's hard so very hard!

Poppie good luck with your testing. I never got a bfp until 14dpo so you may not be out still.

Brain I'm sorry you are feeling low about the and I can understand the need to give up but just make sure you have no regrets 5 years down the line. Sometimes it's so easy to give up when the mind and body have gone through so much for so long but that want and need on the back if your mind keep you going. We are here for you no matter what you decide.

Flou, w8ing, mrs and ANL hope you ladies are ok.

Imready how is your pregnancy going? Have you got any morning sickness or anything similar to your other pregnancy? I'm curious to know as I had severe hg with first I'm so scared for it coming back again x

 

[imready4it]

Hey ladies, sorry I haven't posted in a while. It's been. So busy at work and home just feeling to tired to look at my phone at the end of the day! I had my follow up appt today and everything has come out and my uterus looks squeaky clean yay. My hg was 25 on the Thursday so I'm guessing it's left my system. I got a bfn on a home ic and a blazing positive on the opk so we are going to try again straight away. The dr told me not to worry if I'm preg again as everything looks ready and fine. I'm glad i got the green light. I'm going to test up until next week then I go on holiday for 10 days with the family so I'm hoping to o before then.. bd with family and kids around is impossible!! At least then I will not worry about testing for pregnancy until im back.. hopefully be the right time after tww as well.

I'm praying for us all ladies... it's hard so very hard!

Poppie good luck with your testing. I never got a bfp until 14dpo so you may not be out still.

Brain I'm sorry you are feeling low about the and I can understand the need to give up but just make sure you have no regrets 5 years down the line. Sometimes it's so easy to give up when the mind and body have gone through so much for so long but that want and need on the back if your mind keep you going. We are here for you no matter what you decide.

Flou, w8ing, mrs and ANL hope you ladies are ok.

Imready how is your pregnancy going? Have you got any morning sickness or anything similar to your other pregnancy? I'm curious to know as I had severe hg with first I'm so scared for it coming back again x

Peanut, thanks for asking....I will be starting week 10 tomorrow. I have a little bit of MS every now and then but I’ve only been nauseous...no vomiting so that has been nice. I never had MS with my other two. Overall feeling fine...just tired by the end of the day. Oh and I love my new BBS....haven’t seen the girls like this in a long time. Lol! Ready to get out of my tight jeans and into some comfy maternity pants. I hope you get lucky this month.


Babybrain, I’m sorry you are having such a difficult time. I was in your shoes before I got my BFP and was truly contemplating not TTC anymore. Not too long afterwards a calmness overcame me and it happened not even a week and a half later. I’ll be thinking of you.

Good luck to the rest of you. I’ll be popping in to check on you all.

 

[W8tingforbaby]

So happy for u imready good luck and thanks for the update!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Thanks ladies, I know you all understand and it really helps. CD29, 14dpo and a bit of pink on wiping, tests all bfn. Just waiting on af kicking in but still holding onto hope that it's still possible!!

Imready, thanks for the update, glad you are doing ok

Peanut, I'm really glad things are moving along for you, good news and good luck!

Mrs, how are you getting on?

Flou, ANL & Poppie......what's happening? I hope af didn't arrive.
W8ting, did af arrive after your spotting?


I am so lucky to have you wonderful ladies to talk to, I'm so sorry you are all here and so sorry for your pain, but the positive is we have each other

 

[mrsmummy2]

I have my fx for you babybrain
I'm doing alright. We have an appointment tonight with a private OB to talk everything through and hopefully get a scan... so excited/nervous for that....!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Good luck with that Mrs, let us know how it goes xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

Will do! Apparently he's very good and well known.. so I'm quite glad and feel lucky that we get to see him! It was pure pot luck. Thank the lord for mother in laws. Never thought I'd hear myself say that about mine!
I think I should've written all my questions down as my brain is rather mush-like today. We have a window surveyor here, then I have to go pick up DD and then get to my parents house (20 miles away) to drop them off, pick up hubby from work then go to the other side of the city to the appointment there are SO not enough hours in the day sometimes

 

[BabyBrain80]

I know that feeling! Don't stress and I'm sure you will do great. Good luck again xx

 

[flou]

Hi ladies AF arrived on time so on to another month.... DS turned 3 on Tuesday and we are having a little party for him on Saturday with close friends and family. And from tomorrow, I have just over two weeks off from work. Im a teacher and its been a stressful term and quite pleased to see the back of it. Looking forward to some nice R&R with DH and DS.

Imready im glad everything is going well with you and your little bean. Just a couple more weeks and you will be in the second trimester! Yay!

Babybrain hoping the witch stays away for you. Fx!

Good luck Mrs at your scan. Hope it goes well.

 

[mrsmummy2]

Sorry the witch got you flou hope your DS has a lovely party and you enjoy your two weeks off work.


My appointment went REALLY well. The Dr was so lovely and kind and so so helpful. He talked me through everything and explained how it would not have been anything I had done, then I got a scan and everything is looking 'perfect' inside. Uterus shape and position is great, tubes are clear and looking great too. The cyst that was mentioned to me before (way before this pregnancy) is no longer there, so no worries about that. Everything was SO clear compared to NHS scans.. I couldn't believe it. He offered me all sorts of info for my future pregnancy including scan packages etc.. absolutely brilliant. He's really put my mind at rest. We're going to take it easy this month, dtd if/when we want and IF it happens this cycle then it happens. He suggested waiting 1 cycle, but more for dating purposes than anything else as he said everything inside looks in tip top shape, but if we wanted to try straight away then that would be fine too. He says I'm at no greater risk now than before as there's no physical reason for the MC. I feel like a ton of bricks has just been taken off my back.... the relief is unreal. I haven't felt so chilled in weeks!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Oh thats fantastic Mrs! I think I need to see this Doc, he sounds brilliant! Im so pleased you feel that way and glad you went to see him.

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Af arrived with a vengeance on Sunday, thankfully she is gone now and on to the next cycle.
Mrs glad your appointment went well!

 

[Poppiebug]

Flou - sorry the witch got you. Fingers crossed for next month

Mrsmummy - that's great about your appointment.

13dpo here, still a little brown spotting and possibly a super super faint line on a frer this morning (or line eyes) but I'm not going to call it until something more definite happens.

Seeing as I had the spotting start about 11dpo apparently the hcg takes several days to show up on a test. The one thing that does worry me is that I had BFPs with all my other pregnancies at about 12dpo so I'm scared this could be bfn or possibly chemical. I do myself no favours because I google everything, reading all the good and bad.

Hopefully I have some better more positive news for you all tomorrow.