Looking for TTC buddies after MC

[Poppiebug]

Babybrain - I'm so sorry. That was me last week. I just went into a complete hole and depression is creeping in. Doing better this week, but I'm the same, I still go back to thinking about the MC, I miss my baby, I miss feeling excited about plans for this year, now nothing and struggling to believe it will ever happen.

Peanut - thinking of you too. My biggest fear that it would take forever for AF to come back and right itself. I'm sorry you're going through this limbo time.

xx

 

[Hellobaby2]

So sorry to hear you girls are going through a down time right now maybe you can plan a short break with DH? Even somewhere just a few hours away?

Babybrain, if you can find someone to help with DSs maybe can go somewhere nice with DH around your O time?

I had 2 weeks off from work after mc and didn't feel like I need a holiday but a colleague who went through the same said she went to Cuba for a holiday and came back feeling so much more better.

 

[Poppiebug]

So sorry to hear you girls are going through a down time right now maybe you can plan a short break with DH? Even somewhere just a few hours away?

Babybrain, if you can find someone to help with DSs maybe can go somewhere nice with DH around your O time?

I had 2 weeks off from work after mc and didn't feel like I need a holiday but a colleague who went through the same said she went to Cuba for a holiday and came back feeling so much more better.

When I had my mmc at the end of January, I was so lucky that I only really needed to take 3 days off work, I had already planned the following week off as my eldest was starting school. At the time I really just "got on" with things but at least I didn't have work to worry about. I think you sort of have that shock at the time where you don't process it properly and for me now a few months down the track, especially because I haven't got pregnant again straight away, I'm really feeling down about it all.

On the positive side, my OPK is on the flashing smiley face with hopefully that solid smiley in the next day or two.

I hope everyone else is doing ok?

x

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Still waiting out this tww, tested yesterday just because and bfn of course but I’m still 5 days out from af. My boobs have been hurting but that could go either way af or pregnancy so who knows. I’ll be happy when I know lol. Hope you ladies are well

 

[Ella]

Hope you catch that egg Poppie!

Waiting - this TWW has felt more like 12 weeks for me, don't know about you ... Just realised my cycle last month was a bit weird and there was only 30 days in April so I should actually be due either tomorrow or day after I think? Not too sure. Been having vv faint pink cm when I wiped for the past day and now it's progressed to spotting, which is really confusing as I don't tend to spot at all, AF just comes like a freight train making an appearance but maybe my cycles are still a bit weird from the m/c.

Been having pretty strong symptoms so was pretty sure this was our month but not so sure now with this spotting. Will have to wait and see I guess!

 

[Poppiebug]

Fingers crossed for you both W8ting and Ella! xx

 

[Hellobaby2]

Good luck Poppie, Ella and Waiting!!! Keep us posted on your results

I finally have my first AF on Sunday!! Normal flow so I am hoping this cycle will be back to my normal cycle and I can TTC soon.

Let's pray May is our month and we will all have our BFP!

 

[Poppiebug]

Good news Hellobaby!

I got my peak on Opk yesterday and all signs and symptoms pointing to likely O today. DTD last night and probably tonight. Hopefully we'll be lucky.


x

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Good luck poppie

 

[Ella]

Good luck ladies, AF arrived on Sunday night for me so onto a fresh cycle. FX'd for everybody who this witch hasn't got this month!

Ordered some cheapie OPKs from eBay that arrived today. Never used them before but what with my shortest cycle ever, thought would help me to pinpoint when I'm ovulating as at this point I really have no clue.

 

[Poppiebug]

Good luck Ella. If you need any help with opks or anything don't hesitate to ask. Even though i haven't been charting and opk-ing for that long in the scheme of things, i feel like an old hat at this.

Had a very very positive opk last night, ovulation pains etc. Took another cheap opk just now and it's lightened up a heap and my pains are gone so pretty sure yesterday was ovulation day. Just need to wait for that confirmation with my temps.

Now to see how patient I can be for the TWW... Hmmm...

 

[W8tingforbaby]

So this happened today. Af isn’t due until tomorrow but I just had this feeling that I needed to test

 

[Poppiebug]

So this happened today. Af isn’t due until tomorrow but I just had this feeling that I needed to test

Omg W8ting!!! so so so excited for you!! Hoping so much this is a big sticky bean for you. X

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Thanks me too. Already have an appointment tomorrow with my ob because the labs they did when I started to mc they said my progesterone was too low and I’ll likely need to be on it when I got pregnant again

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

So this happened today. Af isn’t due until tomorrow but I just had this feeling that I needed to test

Yipppeeee!!! Congratulations w8ting! Such wonderful news. Hope you have a sticky bean xx

 

[Ella]

Massive congratulations waiting! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9m

 

[imready4it]

Awesome news waiting!!! So happy for you!

 

[Hellobaby2]

Oh wow Waiting, I am so so happy for you! A February 2019 baby! I wish you an uneventful 9 months, can’t wait for you to share baby scans with us

Ella, my AF came on Sunday too. AF stops today so I can start testing and TTC very soon! Let us know how you go with the test, we could be doing the TWW together!

Poppie, good luck!!! Hope you have another BFP to add to this group

Babybrain, thinking of you. Hope your mood had brighten up a little since your last message

 

[flou]

Congratulations w8iting!

 

[fides]

May I join? We thought we were done with kids, but then get pregnant this year only to lose it. Being pregnant again and all the hopes/dreams that go with it made me realize I really would love another baby if we can. Not too hopeful (turn 40 this year), but would like to try while we still can.