Looking for TTC buddies

Discussion in 'TTC After A Loss' started by Freyja92, Apr 5, 2017.

  1. Alligator

    Alligator Well-Known Member

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    And to add to that with this pregnancy I had clear BFN at 9 dpo and I was so upset, sure I was out. 10dpo, vvvfl.
     
  2. ricschick

    ricschick Proud mummy of 6!

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    Oh I have everything crossed for you elmum!!!!

    Not long now karoolia!! How you feeling? Xx
     
  3. Mom15

    Mom15 Well-Known Member

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    Came by to peek at your chart and keeping my fx Elmum!!
     
  4. loves_cookies

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    Just thought I'd update here ladies, I got a BFP yesterday. Will hopefully give me a due date some time in November, although I haven't looked up the exact date. I need to make contact with my bereavement midwife sometime this week and we can start making a plan for my care.

    I finally started bereavement counselling last week, 14 weeks after the expedited referral that said it would take 6-10 to start. It should help with the dates coming up though. 26th March probably would have been my section date, it will be 1 year since discovering our first loss on the 30th, then Alexander's due date on the 31st. I'm glad to be hopefully pregnant again through these dates though as I think it will help.
     
  5. Mom15

    Mom15 Well-Known Member

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    Big congrats loves! All FX for a healthy sticky bean! Keep us updated. I know this thread has died down a lot, but I think some of us still check it regularly.
     
  6. ricschick

    ricschick Proud mummy of 6!

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    Oh congratulations cookies!!! I’m so happy for you!!! I’m glad your now getting the support you need and hopefully you will be able to enjoy this pregnancy a bit more with that support xxxx
     
  7. Alligator

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    Congrats to you cookies - that's such great news. Loss anniversaries are hard but I found it was easier to bear the sadness, knowing my rainbow babe was with me and kicking me (just passed our first babe's due date last week).
     
  8. karoolia

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    Congratulations cookies!! I hope this little baby is your rainbow. I'm also glad you are getting counselling. Sometimes it can be so hard to get support. And yes, those dates are hard, no matter what you can't help but feel sad when they roll around.

    As for my update, I think most of you have seen, but I had a little boy! Nolan Thomas :) He was born Friday, Feb. 23rd. We absolutely adore him.
     
  9. Spiffynoodles

    Spiffynoodles 4 kids 4 and under

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    Congratulations, cookies! I'm so happy that you have the hope of this new baby to help you through the difficult dates coming up. :hugs:

    Karoolia!!! Huge congrats on your baby boy! :happydance::happydance::happydance: How was labor? How are you adjusting to motherhood?
     
  10. elmum

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    COOKIES, so happy for you!!!

    KAROOLIA, congrats on the arrival of your Baby Boy!

    I wanted to check in, so you ladies can see my chart this month. This TWW feels really excruciating! I am super hopeful and yet I just want the days to pass quickly so I can know for sure and HOPEFULLY get that BFP! Fx fx fx
     
  11. Alligator

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    Good luck elmum!! <3
     
  12. loves_cookies

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    Thank you everyone. I'm 5 weeks now, I spoke to my bereavement midwife earlier and my first scan it booked in for 27th March (a day after what would have been my section date) so less than 2 weeks to wait! She has also set up a next pregnancy clinic which runs every week to support pregnancy after loss which i'll be free to attend as often as I need to.

    Good luck Elmum! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you x
     
  13. ricschick

    ricschick Proud mummy of 6!

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    Not long now cookies!!! It’s great that you will have that added support!! Xx
     
  14. elmum

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    Well, dang it! Looks like AF is coming today. Off to another month...the Chinese gender chart says we would conceive a girl if we get pregnant this month. At this point, we just want a healthy baby.
     
  15. ricschick

    ricschick Proud mummy of 6!

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    Sorry elmum xxx
     
  16. mrsmummy2

    mrsmummy2 Mum of 3 ❤

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    Sorry elmum.

    I'm back again after a mc at 7 weeks on march 17th. Bleeding has stopped.. hospital doctors have said we're good to go when we're ready. Gp said waiting 1 month for dating purposes is good.. but we are eager to get going. Guessing we wont catch this cycle but you never know!
     
  17. elmum

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    Hi ladies! I’m 10 dpo today...wanted you to see my test this morning. After three minutes :happydance:
     
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    mrsmummy2 Mum of 3 ❤

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    Congrats elmum! Im 11dpo today... hoping I get a line on Sunday!!
     
  19. elmum

    elmum Well-Known Member

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    Fx for you MrsMommy2 !!
    Hoping for a BFP for you.
    I&#8217;m a little anxious with mine. Obviously hoping to see a great line progression over the next few days. I am actually scheduled to see a high risk doc on Thursday (originally a prepregnancy appointment)
     
  20. mrsmummy2

    mrsmummy2 Mum of 3 ❤

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    Fingers crossed for good progression :)
     

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