Just thought I'd update here ladies, I got a BFP yesterday. Will hopefully give me a due date some time in November, although I haven't looked up the exact date. I need to make contact with my bereavement midwife sometime this week and we can start making a plan for my care.
I finally started bereavement counselling last week, 14 weeks after the expedited referral that said it would take 6-10 to start. It should help with the dates coming up though. 26th March probably would have been my section date, it will be 1 year since discovering our first loss on the 30th, then Alexander's due date on the 31st. I'm glad to be hopefully pregnant again through these dates though as I think it will help.