It took us around 18/20 months of charting and temping to fall pregnant with our first baby, sadly i was only pregnant for ten weeks and had a painful natural miscarriage in May this year, i have had 3 peroids since loosing the baby but have not managed to fall pregnant again......i know it may take another 18 months but i am so sad of waiting and dont understand why it has and is taking so long to fall pregnant. I have not used any form of birth control for 2 years..........i miss my baby, i just want to be a mummy. im so sad.