Losing my mind

[aknqtpie]

Happy Thanksgiving to you too! I plan on having a couple of Orange Sherbet Mimosas! Thank you Pinterest!

I hope you all have a lovely day!

 

[Chris_25]

Happy thanksgiving to you girls too! I had some sangria last night with the girls. I pretty much said screw it AF is prob on her way anyway!

 

[Chris_25]

Happy Thanksgiving to you too! I plan on having a couple of Orange Sherbet Mimosas! Thank you Pinterest!

I hope you all have a lovely day!

I love Pinterest! I get so many recipes off of it! Omg orange sherbert mimosa I need it now!

 

[Coolstar]

Happy thanksgiving to you all Ladies !! Njoy the day

 

[aknqtpie]

Chris - I will let you know how it is! The recipe has you making your own orange sherbet.. but that is too much work.. I just bought some hahaha

 

[Conceive81]

Hi ladies!

Yesterday was tough. Had to wrap up a bunch of things at work before the holiday while feel sad and defeated and still cramping like hell. I had been cramping since Sunday and have bled more than usual this time so not too happy. Trying to be optimistic and thinking that perhaps it's good to have a heavy period maybe it's cleaning everything out.

Another thing is, the scale had been creeping up and I really need to lose some weight, worried though that dieting will mess me up.

I feel like my life is on hold, u know? And it's so frustrating. Feels like I've been ttc forever . On top of everything, my car was towed yesterday for accidentally leaving it on the street for more than 3 days. 400 dollars later I was feeling pretty upset so had a drink and went to bed. Spoke with a good friend for a bit first. Hoping today is a better day but dreading to see out friends newborn tonight afraid ill just break down.

I wish all of you a wonderful thanksgiving.

 

[Coolstar]

Conceive81: Oh so sorry for your cramps and your car .And i know it can be so tough to visit a new born.Even i feel life is on a hold coz cant seem to think beyond ttc.Only thing we can do is keep trying and relax as much as we can.Hope today you feel much better .

 

[Chris_25]

Chris - I will let you know how it is! The recipe has you making your own orange sherbet.. but that is too much work.. I just bought some hahaha

Oh no way not making my own either lol

 

[Chris_25]

Hi ladies!

Yesterday was tough. Had to wrap up a bunch of things at work before the holiday while feel sad and defeated and still cramping like hell. I had been cramping since Sunday and have bled more than usual this time so not too happy. Trying to be optimistic and thinking that perhaps it's good to have a heavy period maybe it's cleaning everything out.

Another thing is, the scale had been creeping up and I really need to lose some weight, worried though that dieting will mess me up.

I feel like my life is on hold, u know? And it's so frustrating. Feels like I've been ttc forever . On top of everything, my car was towed yesterday for accidentally leaving it on the street for more than 3 days. 400 dollars later I was feeling pretty upset so had a drink and went to bed. Spoke with a good friend for a bit first. Hoping today is a better day but dreading to see out friends newborn tonight afraid ill just break down.

I wish all of you a wonderful thanksgiving.

Oh no I'm sorry about the car!
I know it's so hard stay strong

 

[aknqtpie]

Hi Ladies! I Hope you all had a wonderful thanksgiving and were able to relax!

Conceive - Sorry about your rough day yesterday, I hope today was better!

Chris - Sherbert Mimosa was good.. but it is sweet. I made it with Brut champagne ... I don't drink champagne (like ever) so I went to buy some and I am like WHAT KIND DO I BUY! I was overwhelmed.. haha.

 

[Chris_25]

I don't know much about it either, but I do love champagne

 

[s_love]

Conceive- Im also sorry about your rough day, hopefully you had a great Thanksgiving.

I hope everyone had a great day. We spent the day with other couples who couldnt go home and some single marines. We had a couple cooking disasters and tore the turkey apart looking for the wishbone but never found it... it was stress free, entertaining and so fun... def needed.

We also wrapped up all of our left overs and took them to the base and gave them to the military police who had to stand duty... they were so grateful and that really made my night.

Im not a champagne drinker either, but for our wedding we had this really light yummy champagne called Verdi ( https://www.verdispumante.com/ ) its cheap toO! Im sure to someone who drinks fancy champagne all the time its not great but for those of us who only dabble in it occasionally its good! Everyone Ive recommended it to has enjoyed it. Its like $7 a bottle at Walmart... I found it in Texas but havent found it in Cali yet. Although I did find the sparkletinis they make... which are also pretty yummy.

 

[sadangel777]

Love, we drank Verdi on Monday in our hotel (it came with the room) it was SO yummy! Champagne is usually very dry, but this one is so sweet and light! It's funny you brought that particular brand up!

Conceive, I hope you are doing better today. I know how you feel about feeling as though you are on hold; that is how I feel all the time now. Like I'm floating in the middle of the ocean and everyone else is swimming past (or driving past on their Yachts!). It is a horrible feeling. I also need to lose weight and don't have any motivation. I hear that losing weight makes it easier to conceive; as long as you don't go on a super strict diet you will be fine.

Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!

 

[s_love]

The FS told me it would be in my best interest to lose some weight as well. Im not tall at all 5'2". Before I moved to Cali in April I fluctuated between 125-130... Im 155 now... It makes me sad to think how Ive gained so much weight. I just cant get motivated. Im scared that if I start exercising and losing weight Ill throw my cycle off more or my body will do something else stupid and then Ill have to go back instead of forward and try to fix that... But I dont want to be this weight anymore... and holiday eating sure isnt going to help!

Lol Angel that is funnY! I do love it though! Its probably my favorite. Only one time before have I had a really really expensive champagne and I didnt like it.

 

[sadangel777]

Love, I know what you mean -- I'm 5'3" and moved 115 when I moved up here; now I weigh close to 170!! My cousin lost weight and then got her BFP, but she was on Metformin for insulin resistance. I don't want to go to the trouble of losing weight and then gaining it all back if I get my BFP! But I hate my body right now. If I were PG, I wouldn't mind!

 

[Coolstar]

I am 5'4 and my weight is around 120 ,I am not over weight but still BFN

 

[sadangel777]

I hear ya, Cool But I bet you rock any outfit you try on!!

 

[Conceive81]

Hi Ladies!

Doing better today. fell in love with the newborn yesterday...was a bit sad but she kept making me smile. Thing is, I always wanted to be a mother, for as long as I can remember, and it just hurts my heart these days. Just keeping my fingers crossed for January but keep thinking, why can't I get this done naturally?

I'm a pretty tall girl, just about 5;11 and went over the 200 mark recently...I'm just going to start some portion control and exercise over the next couple of months but won;t do anything drastic. Couldn't exercise for a year due to a spinal issue, which is what helped me gain 25 lbs...

I'm feeling better about things today. Hubby said some things are easy for us, some are hard. Just how life is.

 

[Conceive81]

Love, I know what you mean -- I'm 5'3" and moved 115 when I moved up here; now I weigh close to 170!! My cousin lost weight and then got her BFP, but she was on Metformin for insulin resistance. I don't want to go to the trouble of losing weight and then gaining it all back if I get my BFP! But I hate my body right now. If I were PG, I wouldn't mind!

My last ob gyn wanted to put me on metformin but I didn't have an insulin issue. He claimed it helped getting pregnant. I didn't take it because I didn't want to mess with my insulin, I already have a thyroid issue as it is. My new specialist was against that idea, too.

I hate my body these days too, trying to be kind to myself though. I have always been very hard on myself and dieted most of my life. Trying a different way this time around.

 

[Conceive81]

The FS told me it would be in my best interest to lose some weight as well. Im not tall at all 5'2". Before I moved to Cali in April I fluctuated between 125-130... Im 155 now... It makes me sad to think how Ive gained so much weight. I just cant get motivated. Im scared that if I start exercising and losing weight Ill throw my cycle off more or my body will do something else stupid and then Ill have to go back instead of forward and try to fix that... But I dont want to be this weight anymore... and holiday eating sure isnt going to help!

Lol Angel that is funnY! I do love it though! Its probably my favorite. Only one time before have I had a really really expensive champagne and I didnt like it.

Funny! I think the same thing! I remember when I was really slim my period was 2 weeks late once. But that was also because I was really dieting. I would not eat any carbs for months...probably part of the reason I can't get preggers now, I bet.