lost sex drive

[nicetosmile]

Well I went off sex for a good while and now I'm starting to feel a lot better and we're trying to more. It seems that it's him this time that has gone off it I think. Perhaps it's DH getting used to the idea that we're having a too. A big thing to come to terms with and big responsibilty. Us ladies think about ourselves a lot but deep down in this pregnancy malarky. Even though DH don't have symptoms they still have to put up with us being sick, having sore boobs, getting up in the night, moaning at them.
They think my DW has changed!!! she's a mad lady!!

 

[mommy2be2011x]

I have lost mine too!! sometimes I don't even want to cuddle unless it's with my pillow i feel bad for my OH too because i know he misses it . But then there's days when I really want it but after a few minutes im like ok no more!!! Lol it's weird but normal I guess... I hope it gets better this next trimester im starting next week !!

 

[miyu]

I wish my OH knew what a quickie is, he could go for hours and after a little while it hurts too much, and I only did it for his sake anyway, I felt so ill I couldn't bare it, now I just don't bother! Otherwise pushing him away after a few minutes is just mean, and I've well and truely squashed any hopes he has had of it ever happening any time soon!!! Can't be bothered with a 3-4 hour sex marathon, can't just tell him to get it over with!! He hasn't complained lately though, at all, and has been really good with my feeling ill. I just hope I feel much more upto it in the 2nd tri and beyond to make it upto him the poor sod!! Even stranger is the naughty dreams I've been having, why have them when I have no sex drive? It's all so confusing lol xx

 

[Luvmysunshine]

I'm right there with you. Have no desire to have sex. Totally different from my last pregnancy. It was opposite. I kinda hope it returns a little, for my hubby's sake.

 

[youngmommy2]

Sex? Whats sex?!?

 

[pickleton]

lol! Makes me feel better reading this... I've been told no sex until 12 weeks by my doc/MW due to a hematoma. Truth be told it's a great excuse as I'm not exactly missing it right now lol!

Poor DH!

 

[Harleyy]

Sex drivee?! I used to remenber that!
I feel the same way for my partner, but, hes just got to get used to it

 

[MommaLoves]

Hello Ladies! I'm new at this but I found this site because I am experiencing the lack of a sex drive since the pregnancy. I'm about 11 weeks or so and I just don't want to be touched most of the time. I am crampy and tired. My fiance drives me crazy with everything he does, and I don't want to be around him most of the time. He is constantly telling me I'm this and that, I always do this, I think I'm that, and I think he's nuts. He's a little upset that I don't want to be sexual, but I can't help it!! *sigh*

~Needs a friend~

 

[wannabemumma]

Hello Ladies! I'm new at this but I found this site because I am experiencing the lack of a sex drive since the pregnancy. I'm about 11 weeks or so and I just don't want to be touched most of the time. I am crampy and tired. My fiance drives me crazy with everything he does, and I don't want to be around him most of the time. He is constantly telling me I'm this and that, I always do this, I think I'm that, and I think he's nuts. He's a little upset that I don't want to be sexual, but I can't help it!! *sigh*

~Needs a friend~

aww hun i can relate to u totally.
and unfortunatly its not come back for me yet.
the men feel so bad as well and i feel like a bitch for depriving him.
oh its hard isnt it
sarah

 

[emsy]

Sex? Whats sex?!?

hmmmmm !!!!!! I was thinking the exact same thing lol!! xxx