LTTTC-after loss-TWW...

[Sis4Us]

Sorry I've been totally MIA finally got my Wifi back and still have a ton to unpacking just wanted to say Hello Ladies!!!

8dpo and I'm in a Mood today kinda thinking AF will show w this Mood I'm in

Hope everyone is well!!

 

[Petzy]

Sis - I hope you are doing better today... glad to hear you got WIFI back! hehe... And 8dpo is far too early to count yourself out! FX for you hun xo

Hellooooo ladies, it is a snowy and cold Wednesday... but I have a nice hot decaf on my desk to help with that lol...

Last night my inlaws came home from Florida... I said welcome back to snowy cold hell haha...

5DPO for me - boringggggggggggg lol

Hope everyone is good!

 

[barbikins]

Hey Sis, welcome back!

Hey Meg - what did you guys do last night? Did you go out to dinner?
Yeah it's a cold one today
It was Naiomi's 9th birthday yesterday but her mom had her this year so we are seeing her tonight. We will take her out for dinner, back to the house for some cake & presents. It's always really long days when we have to pick her up so I recon it'll be a late night.
Tomorrow I have acupuncture (ahhhhh...) and then one more day of work until Xmas holiday's! FOR TWO WEEKS! YEAH!!!!

 

[barbikins]

Yeah I'll get back to it. I can't have sex at all yet until my bleeding stops though. So maybe by Christmas or so? I know we gotta get back in the groove. No doubt. But this sort of stress in life just takes over & kills my mood entirely!

Anyway so things are a bit funny here at work with Cash Flow right before Christmas & I am not even certain now we're going to get our Christmas Bonus. At least maybe not until the new year? And we're counting on our bonus to pay for IVF. So I have a feeling I will have to wait a bit longer even *sniff*. Ugh this sucks!!!!

Yeah I"m counting down the hours. Less than half of an hour! But Nathan works late most of the time so I will be here after 5pm as per usual.
At least one good news - finished my Christmas Shopping! WAHOOO!

Interview? A job for you or you are doing an interview for your company?

Barb:

Totally understandable about the sex thing.. wait until its kosher and then see what your feelings are on spicing things up.. I can always contribute to that discussion if you ever want a real TMI talk haha!

That's too bad about your bonuses... I really hope it comes through despite how it looks now... I am not lucky enough to get any kind of a bonus at work ughhhhh its only been 7.5 years! My hubby gets year end bonuses based on sales though and its usually a good one thankfully...

No I mean I am conducting an interview lol I should have been more clear..

My in laws come home from Florida today for a few weeks for xmas.. will be nice to see them after several months of a quiet house! and their puppy too!

OK I'll defo consult you! See what people are up to these days lol
I've not incorporated toys or anything. We've always had a great sex life. But after Aida, it's not been so awesome. It's been a stressful 2.5 years in general. Anyway it's kinda boring in general too. Not much effort put into it...blah blah blah. Maybe a spice up is what's needed!

Bonus is well, a Bonus! BUt we get one every year so I just expected it.
i actually at one point in the middle of the night started stressing over it. Because we have no money to do it on our own right now. And man - to have to keep waiting? I felt like I was going to get really upset. So I forced myself to get back to sleep. BUT it' bothers me.

 

[Petzy]

Hey Sis, welcome back!

Hey Meg - what did you guys do last night? Did you go out to dinner?
Yeah it's a cold one today
It was Naiomi's 9th birthday yesterday but her mom had her this year so we are seeing her tonight. We will take her out for dinner, back to the house for some cake & presents. It's always really long days when we have to pick her up so I recon it'll be a late night.
Tomorrow I have acupuncture (ahhhhh...) and then one more day of work until Xmas holiday's! FOR TWO WEEKS! YEAH!!!!

We went to Swiss Chalet for dinner lol... it was delicious as usual haha

That's fun about Naomi's birthday! where will you go for dinner?

Enjoy acupuncture tomorrow, nice way to lead into the holidays! I am excited too.. Friday we are done around noon because then we have a big Christmas luncheon that we are having catered, so its a half day basically. I will have to come in one day over the holidays likely for reception coverage but we will see... its always dead then so not a big deal.

I hear you re the money stress... see where the chips fall once you know what's going on for sure. I would be really annoyed too if it has to be delayed a bit. lets hope not. You've waited enough!

 

[Petzy]

Wow 2 or three girls on my Miscarriage support thread have their early BFP's - its a lucky thread! lol Hope some of that rubs off on me. I am in a pact with one of them not to test until 11DPO so I am holding myself to that.

 

[barbikins]

Swiss Chalet is yum! I love their ribs
We are going to take N to a resto near our house. Very reliable, yummy food.
She loves it there so it's a win/win.

Yeah I'm upset if we don't get our bonus. I have some money saved but not much. And if we had to wait, we'd probably have to wait until spring of 2014 to get the cash together. All I do is WAIT! I'm so over it.
I hope it all works out. We got some good cash word from the boss today so perhaps bonuses will go out this week. I really hope so. I never wanted it badly enough until now. I have to see my RE tmr or Friday but I feel like I don't wanna go & be told how early I can start IVF when I don't even have the funds to do it
BLURG!!!!

Your Friday sounds great! That's really nice. Even if you hate where you work
How long are you off? Just next week?

I really hope you get your bfp very soon. Like this month.
When is 11dpo?

 

[barbikins]

do you girls still chat on my original forum?
i ended up unsubscribing.
whats the vibe these days?

 

[barbikins]

Nat, hunnie, where are you?!
Miss you!

So I realized a big reason I ditched BCP.
I feel every so slightly queasy & it's been like this for a few days.
Blurg.

 

[Petzy]

@Barb - 11DPO is on Xmas Eve.. the 24th. We will see what it brings...

As for the girls on the original forum - I will pop in like twice a week or less and its all the same so far it seems.. no BFP's and people gearing up to start testing soon. Same old. Not missing anything... I stick with this one and my M/C one. No time for others!

I am off until January 2nd

I hope that bonus comes through Barb, sounds promising

 

[barbikins]

HAH thanks for the heads up
I like our new thread

Oh Christmas Eve eh? Last time was your Anniversary. Funny how that lines up!
It would be totally amaze-balls if you got a bfp. Nice Christmas gift!

I hope so too. There were some turn of events. I just don't want to wait ANY longer than I need to. YOU know? I'm so done WAITING.

 

[natjenson]

ladies.

Oh gawsh I been sooo busy the past couple of days...
ABSOLUTLEY run off my feet,so very tired.but I'm ok

Barbs...I hope you DO get that Xmas bonus..big fingers crossed for you Hun.

Meg...wowzers ...you have a lucky thread eh...may just have to pop my head in and grab me some of that luck then lol...
Congratulations. To the ladies on there.
Your week sounds good with the family staying...lits of wine to drink up hehe..

Yaye..sis welcome back ...glad your ok...
You still got a best part of a week to go yet Hun...hand on in there dear...

Well afm...apart from run shattered off my feet...it's cd 11 now...opks are quite dull ...looks like a slooooow cycle again.oh well.
I'm sat here right now with a lil man with a high temp...his back teeth are playing him up.shame...looks like a semi sleepless night keeping him dosed up with the calpol.

Missed you all me petals...I HAVE to try and get some shut eye now whilst lil man drifts in and out of sleep..this is going to be a loooooong night ..I can just tell lol...
Hope to update better tmr...

Loves y'all....

Natalie xxx

 

[nimbec]

Hi all YAY i'm moved house (boxes still everywhere) but broadband now on yay back to civilisation!!

Sis did you move house too? i seemed to have missed that - hope it went well!!

Barbs so sorry to hear about xmas bonus uncertanty that sucks!!! fx they do pay out and u don't have to wait!!! I can't imagine how you must be feeling life can be so damn cruel at times ((((((hugs))))))

Nat sorry to hear your lil man is unwell its really hard seeing them struggle ugh cd11 at least time is passing nearing 0 time hopefully!

Meg gosh that does sound like a lucky thread! lets hope it rubs off over here! esp for you ladies - i can't complain yet ut i can moan that my body misbehaves...really weird actually as ive been told i don't ovulate without meds and i'm not taking them till wednesday but i got a breif pos opk CD14 then neg again and no temp rise but they are going darker again so maybe just maybe my body may do it....i think this is wishful thinking on my behalf!!! but i can hope. also d everyother day just incase hahaha!

Hi to everyone else xx

 

[barbikins]

Hello Nat!!! You go be with your little man. We'll survive. But we miss you!
Don't worry about your OPK...it'll turn positive!

I hope bonus works out too. I have one more work day to find out. Although doesn't mean it can't happen in January but just means more delays. And more time that I"ll be on the pill

Nimbec, thanks hun And congrats on your move xoxoxox

 

[Petzy]

How are my girls?

Soooo glad its almost Friday!

I just ate lunch and a big piece of cake lol oops! tis the season.... 6DPO and nada going on here..

Started my progesterone today. I am supposed to start it on CD21 but since I got my positive OPK 3 days early, I started progesterone 3 days early... does that make sense?

Nat - Any luck with the OPK's yet? Don't stress! You have longer cycles hun xx

xx

 

[barbikins]

Cake is good! I had cake last night

Yep your Progesterone makes sense. It's like what, 2 or 3 days after Ovulation?
Day 21 isn't going to work out every cycle. Woman's cycles aren't always on the clock. I only predict my periods b/c I knew when I ovulated. And some times its 30, 31, 32, 33 days. Some times 29! WHOA!

Anyway

 

[barbikins]

Acupuncture tonight! Whop!
I got my nails done today & took the dog to the park.
Yeah I'm really working hard today, girls

 

[Petzy]

Cake is good! I had cake last night

Yep your Progesterone makes sense. It's like what, 2 or 3 days after Ovulation?
Day 21 isn't going to work out every cycle. Woman's cycles aren't always on the clock. I only predict my periods b/c I knew when I ovulated. And some times its 30, 31, 32, 33 days. Some times 29! WHOA!

Anyway

No its about 6-7 days post O actually... that's when you start it. So I waited the same amount of time post O as last cycle...

I have no idea when I O, so I always count 1DPO as two days post positive OPK since you taught me that haha

 

[Petzy]

Acupuncture tonight! Whop!
I got my nails done today & took the dog to the park.
Yeah I'm really working hard today, girls

lol are you off?? or was this on your lunch break?

I need to get my nails done tomorrow or Saturday for sure...

 

[barbikins]

that was my extended lunch break LOL