LTTTC-after loss-TWW...

[natjenson]

Ok did I seriously just get my positive OPK on CD 11??? like WTF its not supposed to come till Sat or Sunday .... what do you think?

That almost worries me. Thank goodness I am using OPK's! I did notice some slippery CM just now when I took the OPK... Didn't think I would have BD "after effects" since it was at like 7am today!

Gimme input ladies xx

OMG meg! Your opks........that's crazy...
And Yaye...bring in that Xmas bfp.....

Woohoo

Natalie xxx

 

[Petzy]

Ok did I seriously just get my positive OPK on CD 11??? like WTF its not supposed to come till Sat or Sunday .... what do you think?

That almost worries me. Thank goodness I am using OPK's! I did notice some slippery CM just now when I took the OPK... Didn't think I would have BD "after effects" since it was at like 7am today!

Gimme input ladies xx

OMG meg! Your opks........that's crazy...
And Yaye...bring in that Xmas bfp.....

Woohoo

Natalie xxx

lol weird eh? Ah well, I will take it haha...

 

[Petzy]

Haha ladies...yes I guess you could say I chose the house work...but I also got a little down time too...it was really nice to have it all done before I woke up...lol...but I'm glad I did it all now bc today has been non stop errans food shopping Xmas shopping phone calls here there and everywhere.
I would have been one stressed out puppy by now if I hadn't had the had the clean down lol...

Meg...wowzers so I took at look at your linkedin...and it blew my mind away...your sooo smart and clever...and some of what you listed as pre work history supprised me too...you should have no problem when it comes to jobs Hun...)
Put it this way...I'd hire you! Teehee...
So how are your opks today...Yaye for the bd'ing...sounds like you are doing a grand job so far

Well afm....cd5 .....this is draaaaaaaaging I tell thee...lol...
Ordered my opks last night- just hope they get here on time..I think I left it a tad bit too late this time...
Really looking forward to finishing up the Xmas shopping with pete on teusday and getting our pic done at the snow globe...Yaye...we haven't been spending enough quality time together lately...so it's much needed day out for us.

Good for you Nat... I love a clean house!! Well moreso tidy then clean haha but I try!

And thanks re my LinkedIn profile hehe... why doesn't anyone want me?!?! haha jk... it will happen eventually I will make it !!

That sounds great about what you and Pete have planned... is it an overnight? You will have to post the picture of you two after if you are ok with that I bet its adorbs! Will be good timing for BD'ing perhaps too! Who knows maybe you will O super early like me haha..

bring on the December beans!! xx

 

[natjenson]

Lol yeah...look at it this way...at least you don't have to wait for the cycle to finish up for sooo long now...well actually 28 days is ideal - swap? Lol...for my 30plus cycles lol...
Naaa don't think so lol....

Now you can enjoy the weekend love...and the new countdown begins.. ...hope the tww treats you kindly Hun.

Natalie xxx

 

[Petzy]

Lol yeah...look at it this way...at least you don't have to wait for the cycle to finish up for sooo long now...well actually 28 days is ideal - swap? Lol...for my 30plus cycles lol...
Naaa don't think so lol....

Now you can enjoy the weekend love...and the new countdown begins.. ...hope the tww treats you kindly Hun.

Natalie xxx

Thanks Nat... shorter is just fine with me! So long as my LP is the same lol.. should be fine

I used to have 30-32 day cycles and then over time they got shorter and balanced out around 28 days or so.

My friend who is now 30 weeks, she has a 23/25 day cycle so it doesn't seem to affect TTC.

 

[natjenson]

Haha ladies...yes I guess you could say I chose the house work...but I also got a little down time too...it was really nice to have it all done before I woke up...lol...but I'm glad I did it all now bc today has been non stop errans food shopping Xmas shopping phone calls here there and everywhere.
I would have been one stressed out puppy by now if I hadn't had the had the clean down lol...

Meg...wowzers so I took at look at your linkedin...and it blew my mind away...your sooo smart and clever...and some of what you listed as pre work history supprised me too...you should have no problem when it comes to jobs Hun...)
Put it this way...I'd hire you! Teehee...
So how are your opks today...Yaye for the bd'ing...sounds like you are doing a grand job so far

Well afm....cd5 .....this is draaaaaaaaging I tell thee...lol...
Ordered my opks last night- just hope they get here on time..I think I left it a tad bit too late this time...
Really looking forward to finishing up the Xmas shopping with pete on teusday and getting our pic done at the snow globe...Yaye...we haven't been spending enough quality time together lately...so it's much needed day out for us.

Good for you Nat... I love a clean house!! Well moreso tidy then clean haha but I try!

And thanks re my LinkedIn profile hehe... why doesn't anyone want me?!?! haha jk... it will happen eventually I will make it !!

That sounds great about what you and Pete have planned... is it an overnight? You will have to post the picture of you two after if you are ok with that I bet its adorbs! Will be good timing for BD'ing perhaps too! Who knows maybe you will O super early like me haha..

bring on the December beans!! xx

Ohhh I hopes so meg....I o'd quite early last cycle..li got my positive on cd11 ....I'm praying it happens again.

Unfortunately it's not an overnighter no...doh ....I wish it was tho...
We are going out for the day to do some shopping together (which I usually dread with pete he is like a naughty child in shops lol)
But this time I'm looking forward to it bc we are going to the German/Swiss Xmas markets ...we like to try out all the European hot food stalls and then we will get our pic done....there's going to be a few famous faces there too so hay we may meet a couple who knows lol...

Then we will mostly like go for some mulled wine...(shhh don't tell but I always get pete the NON alcoholic one.- he never guesses lol) ....
We sit in the cold under the Xmas lights and just enjoy looking at all the people rushing around doing there shopping...

.....ooooh meg your opk is soo exciting....Santa is going to bring a lovely pressies this year...

Natalie xxx

 

[Petzy]

That sounds awesome Nat! What a great day that will be And hey you are doing the right thing with the mulled wine... I would do the same thing if it were DH! What is mulled wine by the way? lol sounds good because the word wine is in it... haha!

 

[barbikins]

Ok did I seriously just get my positive OPK on CD 11??? like WTF its not supposed to come till Sat or Sunday .... what do you think?

That almost worries me. Thank goodness I am using OPK's! I did notice some slippery CM just now when I took the OPK... Didn't think I would have BD "after effects" since it was at like 7am today!

Gimme input ladies xx

Holy cow eh? Well I'd say that is ALMOST positive. The fact that the strong line on the left side always makes it appear darker than it is. But I bet tongiht I'll be blazing positive! Take another test this evening.
I guess you are going to O early. EXCITING! That's great love.

And OMG you guys have been having LOTS of sex holy cow.
I can only say my sex drive has totally diminished the last two months

 

[Petzy]

Ok did I seriously just get my positive OPK on CD 11??? like WTF its not supposed to come till Sat or Sunday .... what do you think?

That almost worries me. Thank goodness I am using OPK's! I did notice some slippery CM just now when I took the OPK... Didn't think I would have BD "after effects" since it was at like 7am today!

Gimme input ladies xx

Holy cow eh? Well I'd say that is ALMOST positive. The fact that the strong line on the left side always makes it appear darker than it is. But I bet tongiht I'll be blazing positive! Take another test this evening.
I guess you are going to O early. EXCITING! That's great love.

And OMG you guys have been having LOTS of sex holy cow.
I can only say my sex drive has totally diminished the last two months

Yeah we do have a lot of sex typically - well for most of the month anyways.. then we will do it less leading up to AF and of course stop for AF, then we start back up again lol. DH has a big sex drive but we deliberately make the effort, keep up the intimacy.. we've been together 15 years and we know how things can fizzle.. that being said Barb, you have been through a lot lately and its totally understandable that you would not be high sex drive right now.. perhaps the excitement of things will get you in the mood soon though lol! I try to be inspired...we do things that we know will lead to it.. working out together means we shower together... always leads to BD lol.... or we have a bath together and that always leads to it too lol... I mean we have had our lulls too of course but we try to keep a good focus on it. Helps to keep the husband stealers away lol.. GRRRR

 

[natjenson]

That sounds awesome Nat! What a great day that will be And hey you are doing the right thing with the mulled wine... I would do the same thing if it were DH! What is mulled wine by the way? lol sounds good because the word wine is in it... haha!

Haha yeah...mulled wine is cooked wine...there's lots if different versions of it too...infused with herbs and spices or fruits....
It's vey yum but takes some getting used to if your used to a nice chilled wine.

They cook it in a huge pan and ladle it up into a tall glass...warms your cockles...

Natalie xxx

 

[Petzy]

Haha yeah...mulled wine is cooked wine...there's lots if different versions of it too...infused with herbs and spices or fruits....
It's vey yum but takes some getting used to if your used to a nice chilled wine.

They cook it in a huge pan and ladle it up into a tall glass...warms your cockles...
Natalie xxx

I must try this!

 

[natjenson]

Hayyyy I should totally get you the recepie...

Natalie xxx

 

[Petzy]

Hi girls !

Big day for our Barb! Thinking of you and hope you are doing great. I know you will be a little foggy after maybe lol that's how we like you best! Xx

Got another positive opk last night and this morning so it's safe to say tomorrow is 1dpo whoop! We bd this am so I feel good about that.

On another note the woman who is now stalking my husband is getting out of control. He's trying to deal with her but she's being impossible so today he's trying to stop it once and for all. We will see how that goes. He said he was apart worried for my safety she is so nuts. I want to run her over oops !!

Thanks for listening girls

 

[natjenson]

Hi meg ...aye for your possy.

Thinking about barbs loads here....hope she's ok.

As for hubby and that nut job....it may be a good idea if he catches his "unaproval of her suggestions" on recording...like set his phone on whilst he tells her to back off.....just so this nut case doesn't flip reverse it somehow....it's his proof he is NOT interested.

Me personally?.....I'm with sis4u.....I'd sooo have a chat with her husband... worst case sinario I would also jump in car and aim hard lol....(but don't do that lol)


I hope it goes well love.

Ok tmi....I have something going today....I noticed my underwear was irritating me this morning and I have a couple of sore spots on my bottom.....I wonder if I have some sort of skin infection.
Will have to get that sorted incase it spreads if you know what I mean...
Maybe I will going on symptom checker online and see if I can self diagnose and go and buy some sort of magic cream.i may just pinch a bit of Harry's antibiotic steroid cream instead yet lol...

Anyways...lol now I have graced you with my spotty bum I shall sign off bahahahaa...

Lol take care meg...

Natalie xxx

 

[Petzy]

Hi meg ...aye for your possy.

Thinking about barbs loads here....hope she's ok.

As for hubby and that nut job....it may be a good idea if he catches his "unaproval of her suggestions" on recording...like set his phone on whilst he tells her to back off.....just so this nut case doesn't flip reverse it somehow....it's his proof he is NOT interested.

Me personally?.....I'm with sis4u.....I'd sooo have a chat with her husband... worst case sinario I would also jump in car and aim hard lol....(but don't do that lol)


I hope it goes well love.

Ok tmi....I have something going today....I noticed my underwear was irritating me this morning and I have a couple of sore spots on my bottom.....I wonder if I have some sort of skin infection.
Will have to get that sorted incase it spreads if you know what I mean...
Maybe I will going on symptom checker online and see if I can self diagnose and go and buy some sort of magic cream.i may just pinch a bit of Harry's antibiotic steroid cream instead yet lol...

Anyways...lol now I have graced you with my spotty bum I shall sign off bahahahaa...

Lol take care meg...

Natalie xxx

Nat,

Sorry about your rash/sore spots! Maybe some hydrocortisone cream will do the trick? I like to try that first... I hope its something that goes away quickly.. did you use a new soap or detergent or anything?

As for my DH's stalker problem...he doesn't need to record her really, most of what she is doing is over text although some has been in person. He has gone to management and showed them the texts in case she does try to turn it around on him in any way. I think hes not being harsh enough because he doesn't want to ruin the deal or humiliate her - she is married with two young girls.. I don't know, I told him to tell her that if she cant keep it 100% professional than he cant be her representative anymore... hes seeing her RIGHT NOW so we will see what happens. Ugh its bothering me I hate this woman so much. He said he debated telling her that he told me everything - I said go ahead Im sure it will stop her in her tracks. I doubt he will though. He is worried about it affecting his business if he was too harsh because she could give him really bad ratings or cause him problems.. so hes trying to be careful. Personally I would love to text or call her myself and honestly my wrath can be pretty bad lol so she would reallllly regret it. Like this whore even tried to get him to start a private email account without my knowledge! Ughhhh I am fuming. need to calm down lol. Thanks for listening girls.

 

[natjenson]

Good morning ladies.
Cd7 here...got the witch by the scruff of the dress and marching her right out of my life for atleast 9months now lol...

Barbs how are you this morning....I hope you Are ok Hun ....your new journey begins...a clean fresh slate...
Let us know how you are when your feeling up to it.no rush ok.

Meg...I am glad hubby is dealing with that horrid woman...yes maybe he should for sure be more stearn.but try and keep calm my dear....that woman will have cosmic karmah upon her soo enough...the universe will take of it I'm sure...and guess what- the best thing about that is YOU DONT HAVE TO DO A DAM THING ABOUT IT.

What comes around goes around....maybe HER husband will leave her for a super hot model and that will make her feel REALLY shit about herself.like she has made you feel.that'll teach her.
to you meg...bc I know I would certainly feel angry and disappointed and in my heart of hearts affraid pete may empty the plate that's been offered up...
This is hard for me to talk about but I will share it with you...Peter has "put me there!" In that facked up world of pain...temptation got the better of him once ...VERY early of in. The relationship and I walked out on his ass....but when I actually saw what IT was he went near it actually made me feel better about myself...I had wayyyy more self respect than she did...the scanky little bitch.
I still get mad when I think of it...but when me and pete worked it all out I had to tell myself trust is important here...and altho 99% of me does???I still have that niggley feeling that thinks oh crap what if he does it again....so I do watch out in the corner of my eye???and I am slightly (lol) overprotective with my man...he is mine lol

Hahaha....once ...we were in a bar...I went to the loo...when I returned a woman was flirting really bad with pete..lol typical man soaked it all up....so I walked straight up to them and said....(to pete) hi huni...how's your mouth now...still sore from the the thrush?...bahahahahahahaha....the woman pulled a funny face and promptly left pmsl....
Pete was so shocked I did that but it served him right.flirting RIGHT in front of me.
I hope he knows better not to fack me about now lol...

Anyways,....there's my story on how I feel about trust...and how I have been there...
Meg it's ok to be affraid and about that awfull twisted slut.
She is a fool...and fools don't have a "happy ever after" ....

Oh btw - my bum sucks ass right now lol...it looks terrible.. Lol...I can't let pete see this....yuk...I looks like I sat on a cactus hahaha...
I hope that cream starts it's magic...(hydrocortisone btw )

Well you take care love...hope you are having a great Sunday...happy tww to you


How is everybody else btw lol...sorry about my looooong msg...I gets carried away don't i hahaha...

Natalie xxx

 

[Petzy]

Hey Nat! Thanks so much for sharing your story. I know the pain all too well too unfortunately. Although I am ashamed to say I am the one who caused it years ago. It took us some time and hard work but we got through it and we have never been better than we are now. I am NOT glad it happened and I still suffer from a lot of self hatred over it but I can say we made something really positive out of the mess and are better for it today. We have a really honest marriage now so I am glad I was in the know about all this. It's done now hopefully. She apologized to him yesterday and said she would keep it professional. The sale is done so I hope she's gonna for a long time !!!!

Thanks for listening. Sounds like you and Pete are ateonger for it too. It's not always black and white is it ??

Love ya Nat. Xoxoxoox

 

[Petzy]

How is everyone ? It's been snowing all night here and there is lots out there !! I'm scared to drive to my hair appt today Haha I wonder if I will make it. Today I plan to do some cleaning, get my hair done , and then watch TV while I wrap gifts this afternoon. Relaxing is the plan !

I am 1dpo. I am debating a pact but don't want to commit haha. 11dpo Is Christmas Eve ! Ahhh lol

Hope everyone is great and that we get an update from Barb today

What cd are you Nat??

 

[nimbec]

Hi Girls

Just to let you know i am reading just megga busy with the house move - should be in tomorrow night & also final wedding preperations. I promise i'll be back on properly next week!!!

Barbs i've been thinking of you lots - fx you are ok and its a fresh new start to look forward too!

sorry i'm not replying to everyone i have a poorly harrison we have been at the hospital all day with a rash and temp of 39.5 so we are all shattered.

promise to reply properly soon, please don't think i'm being rude i'm literlly running around like a headless chicken! lol

xxx

 

[natjenson]

Hi ladies

Grrr I went to reply earlier meg but my iPad battery died...so I laid on the sofa for what was supposed to be ten mins and I just woke up...oooops....lol

Please don't at all feel ashamed love...and certainly don't beat yourself up over the past Hun...what happend happend...but that dosent mean you should hate yourself...I get why you would maybe kick yourself but you certainly should not have self hatred.biiiig hugs to you meg...that took at a lot of balls to write that and I actually admire you all the more for it.
Very glad hubby got that nutter sorted- and what a turn of events eh...she apolagised!....good...so she should as well...flaming nut job.
Meg I am soo happy you and dh found a way through it all...past and all...your right- it's not all black and white is it...no relationship is normall if it is...highs and lows are nessesary and normal...
And getting through what you and hubby did takes some strength and dedication.its shows your commitment to each other and the amount of love too.
Wow snow eh. ....I love that stuff....I am a silly kid when it snows here...we hardly get it in the south west...oh boy when it does come- IT COMES! Lol...
Did you manage to get to your hair apt?....I hope so Hun.
Your afternoon sounds lovely actually...wrapping pressies...chilling out...

Becky...I'm sooo soo sorry about poor lil Harrison....I hope he is ok.i am thinking of you...
I have had a few scary trips to the hospital with my boy in t hose cerci stances too....very high temps..rash....oh my it's soooo scary...you can't help but fear the worst...
I really really hope it's not what your thinking it is...I know exactly what's gone through your mind here...menegitis ???.....I am praying for you and lil Harry it's not that and it's something much less ...
Let us now how it all goes won't you...
Now you take it easier too Hun...all this rushing around like blue ass flies and youll be heading for a huge melt down...and we don't want that for you...

Barbs...thinking of you too...alot actually...I hope your resting up well.my heart goes out to you ...I can't imagine how you must be feeling emotionally right now...

Sis....how's your cycle coming along there?...what dpo are you now...like 4/5?....good luck...

Well ladies....yet again another loooong ass post lol....
I have been in sooo much pain all day....I don't know what it is...I have this harsh ache on my left hand side of my lower tummy...it's sooo bad. ....I feel sick and I have a touch of dioreah ...I have hardly eaten...a bit of mash...got a heat pad on but it's just not working ...
Pete wants me to go to A&E tmr if it's still hurting....I really don't want to...I'm not rolling around crying yet lol....

Anyways ....I bid you all a good evening...and I am off to bed now...may as well take advantage of the topired eyes...hoping I fall back to sleep.

Nighty night... Zzzz

Natalie xxx