LTTTC-after loss-TWW...

[mowat]

Hmmm, really thought I though I saw it on that first test from yesterday. Holding out hope for you!

 

[natjenson]

Awwwwwwwww Amy.....I thought I saw it on your first one too.

So sorry I haven't been in to update ladies......sooooo much to say about the apt...I'm sorry but I'm going to refer you to my journal if you wanted to take a look at my update.
The link is in my siggi.

I'm feeling so so down about the out come it's sux big time balls.
It's not so much about the new out come! It's the facking uncooperative man In my life!( loooong story)

Anyways ladies.....will catch up again soon....I hope you are all ok....and Amy...good luck love I hope you have lovely supprise on that test in the morning Hun

Natalie xxx

 

[eyemom]

Oh dear Natalie.

You are such an uplifting person, I hate to see you're going through that. Hopefully as you are taking the time to gather funds, Pete will come around and become a healthier person, and you two will come out stronger at the end of it. Not that it sucks less...at all, but I hope one day you will be able to look back and find some positive. Big hugs girl.

 

[mowat]

Sorry about the appointment Nat. My DH has lower than normal morphology and he takes very good care of himself. Not that you shouldn't get him to take better care, but it still might not help. Funny we both have one and our now having trouble with number 2... Did the doctor explain that?

 

[barbikins]

Nat, we're here for you xo I hope Pete pulls up his socks soon, love!

Mowat, I've been MIA for a while, what's the status from your IVF cycle???

 

[butterflywolf]

*hugs Nat* you are so NOT a diva. If I were in your shoes guess what I'd have done all that. Yes make him take the pills.

Anyway on just briefly hanging out w/ my mom. AF is a coming. temp drop and spotting. Oh well next cycle. Trying to debate if I keep seeing this if I should ask my doctor and when should I. My luteal phase for a few months is only 9 days. Sometimes 12 but it does hit 9 a lot.

 

[butterflywolf]

Just took a quick look at my charts the last 4 months/cycles. Luteal phase isn't the best at all. 9, 14 (was the chem preg.) 10, 9. Thinking my body isn't making enough of the right hormones. Plus I have noticed for the most part my temps aren't as high as they once use to be (before Claire) after ovulation. I'll give myself 5 more cycles before asking my doctor and go from there.

 

[barbikins]

Your LP is not regular if it's 9 days. LP of 10 days or less is considered a LP Defect. You should absolutely get that looked at. Could be easy to fix.

 

[mowat]

Hi Barb. Well, my IVF went pretty well, although I ended up with OHSS so we didn't end up doing a transfer. They managed to get 23 eggs (there were more behind some endrometriosis in my left ovary), and I ended up with 7 day 5 and 6 frosties. Pretty happy, although I would have liked more (I'm a little greedy!). Hopefully we can get a rainbow out of those 7, as we probably won't be able to finance another fresh cycle. Just waiting now. Should be good to do a transfer the last week of July. Never been anxious for the summer to pass so quickly!

 

[wannabemummyb]

Hi all,

Sorry not been around been on a bit of a downer. Todays the anniversary of losing our bean and my body decides to choose today to show the appearance of some bleeding - was a little heavy this morning and this afternoon/evening spotting then nothing but defo red this morning! I think my body is just cruel lol.

Hope your all ok xx

 

[eyemom]

Hi all,

Sorry not been around been on a bit of a downer. Todays the anniversary of losing our bean and my body decides to choose today to show the appearance of some bleeding - was a little heavy this morning and this afternoon/evening spotting then nothing but defo red this morning! I think my body is just cruel lol.

Hope your all ok xx

Oh girl I got my period the day of the first anniversary of my m/c. I knew I was going to, too, so I spent some days dreading it. It totally sucks, such a cruel trick for our bodies to play. Big hugs today, my heart goes out to you. Tomorrow will be a better day having today behind you.

 

[natjenson]

Heya ladies...

Firstly thankyou sooo much for taking a look at my journal and leaving your kind words of support and advice ...once again you ladies helped me to see things in a much clearer perspective.which always helps

Bex...so sorry your on a downer Hun...big hugs to you my petal...
I hope you are feeling better as the days pass by ...and I can be honest with you the pain of a mc never goes away it just gets a little easier as we go along.thank gawsh I found you wonderful ladies to share my pain with.else all this would just keep building and hearts would lay rather heavy as we age.
I hope you soon get some answers soon with your long cycles Bex...you must be very fustrated with it all.

Becky??? Where are you Hun...I'm worried.i hope your ok...unfortunately my mobile needs fixing so I won't be able to text back for a while untill I either get a new phone or get it fixed again.
Do let us know how you are tho.

Shanta...???....you too...where are you love? Are you ok...? I hope so

Alyson....wow you ended up with the ohss I'm so sorry love.
Yeah end of July couldn't come quick enough for me too lol...I hope it's a speedy month for you Hun.
Yes I get where you are coming from...having one child and being in this frustrating situation now...it ralls me ...lol

Barbs....fantastic to see you back on bnb...I soooo miss you on here...and my preggy meggy
My original sisters from another mister haha...lol
Yeah anyways...I love seeing that ticker just truck along...yah!

Amy...wow yeah I agree with barb...a lp of 10 or less is considered a defective lp Hun...
I would most certainly not wait 5 cycles to prove this love...it's going to take around 3/4 cycles to maybe correct this?!?!
I would get the ball rolling ASAP love.l.who knows it could be something rathe simple love...like maybe try some vit b6 -that can lengthen your lp by a few days...if you could buy back around three days that's puts your lp back into the safe/acceptable zone.
I took b6 for different reasons but it also helps your to produce more progesterone too.
So Iv read that starting with a dose of 50mg daily should make a difference but if no difference after two cycles to raise the dose to 100mg daily...but do not take it for longer than 6months at a time ok.
And always take it with a b complex vitamin too
I hope you find some answers soon Amy...I know how too annoying our body's can be on us.and it's the last thing we need when we are such a mission of determination.lol

Erin...how are you love?
Well did you find out yet lol?
Boy girl?
Did I get the scan date wrong?-you had your scan on Friday? Am I getting you confused with someone else haha?
Do tell lol

Anyways.....I do hope I haven't missed anyone...and if I did...I bid you well my friend lol.

Afm....cd 15...think I'm ovulating today. Not quiet sure..lol
Iv bee having ovulation pains for like 4 days now...sooooo not like me at all...normally never lasts no longer than 24 hrs. idk. Lol

Finally! Peter took his supps last night...like at last !!!...flaming sissy girl !lol
He did however get a 'special treat' for being such a good boy...haha I could I not? Lo tee hee.

So....the tww is on!....lats see how this pans out...one day at a time....next cycle is a no go....so my next shot at this is August.gah! No poas till beginning of sept!!! OMG.! Lol
I have the HSG in July (I think-I have to book it at the end of this cycle-gulp!)
Yeah so anyways ladies....wish me luck...lots of luck .....I need it lol....and it will save me 5k too lol! So yah......get them hands together pray ,wish , cast a FACKING spell, whatever, lol I want this bfp soooo bad this cycle it's unreal!.

Baby dust to all ma ttc'ers ....

Natalie xxx

 

[eyemom]

It's today! I'll find out in 3 hours or so. I'll update when I can! Might be later in the afternoon though.

Glad your DH took his supps! Sounds like he should be motivated to continue them.

Do they tell you not to try in the same cycle as your HSG??? Or was there something else. I'm sorry my memory is such crap.

Wishing you all the best dear.

 

[natjenson]

Oh Yaye good luck Erin...can't wait to see your update....btw I'm thinking boy.

lol I knew I got it wrong after my post when I looked at your siggi lol....silly me

Natalie xxx

 

[barbikins]

Hi Barb. Well, my IVF went pretty well, although I ended up with OHSS so we didn't end up doing a transfer. They managed to get 23 eggs (there were more behind some endrometriosis in my left ovary), and I ended up with 7 day 5 and 6 frosties. Pretty happy, although I would have liked more (I'm a little greedy!). Hopefully we can get a rainbow out of those 7, as we probably won't be able to finance another fresh cycle. Just waiting now. Should be good to do a transfer the last week of July. Never been anxious for the summer to pass so quickly!

Oh geez, sorry you have to wait to transfer your embie. Will you do one or two? Another trip you have to cost out eh? Bummer.
I hope it takes right away!

 

[barbikins]

Good luck Erin! So exciting. I'm thinking about keeping mine a surprise!

 

[barbikins]

Nat, HSG has been known to boost the odds of conception if you conceive within three months of the test. Especially that cycle you had the test. Fingers crossed, that may help some thing??

 

[eyemom]

hey ladies sorry it's not a proper catch up, but wanted to let you know...we're team pink

 

[barbikins]

Congrats, Erin! Hope its what you were hoping for weee! Girls are awesome. I'm secretly hoping for team pink too

 

[mowat]

Team pink! So exciting Erin!